I know its silly, but I fell in love with a picture of a girl at frrsonalsru. Since I don't believe in any of the paid sites, I deal only with free sites. I also managed to get the email address of the girl I liked and even her address. But she won't respond to any of my emails. I wish to think that it may be because she changed her email address, because it was more than an year since she visited the site as I found out from its logs.
Now I am prepared to travel to Ukraine to try and meet this girl, but I have a small question to ask you guys here. Do Ukrainian women date only European and American men? The answer, however harsh it may be, will not prevent me from meeting the girl, but perhaps will change my approach a little bit in order to try and win her.
And thank you BillGreen for your offer of help. You gave a different perspective of life there. You are probably right in saying that no man should travel so long without communicating with his lady. But then, I come to Kiev in the full knowledge of what I am trying to do and perhaps I am not that different from someone from America or Europe that spend some money in getting women's email addresses and phone numbers.
I am not searching for 'true love'. I just want to meet the girl and tell her how beautiful she is. In Russian ofcourse. And if there is even a hint of a chance that things can work between us, I have plans to stay back for as long as it takes to win her over.
There are some desperate White women in america and u.k that will accept black man as partner, but as ukraine woman is not desperate and has good taste it is extremely rare that ukraine woman will seek black man as partner.
Guys, The girl didn't break off communication with me. She never had any and doesn't know that I exist. She didn't even read the three mails I sent her, but I found her address (I have a way of doing that). And I am not going to turn up at her door. She works as a programmer and I already thought of a much better way to meet her professionally.
Monada, I run a company that provides scheduling software to small and medium scale businesses in Australia.
There is nothing that a beautiful woman finds more boring and predictable than to be told she is beautiful by a man that she has no interest in. Likewise she will have had men telling her "I love you" her whole life.
Your whole argument is based on the fallacy that women value being fawned over, well they do I suppose, but only in so much as they can use it to their advantage. In order to capture the heart of a nice looking woman you have to make then see *your* value, *your* desirability. Just joining the army of men fawning over them isn't going to put you in that position.
Well I visited this free site purely by chance since I never thought of an Ukrainian girl to begin with. It started with a random email I received from someone in Kazan, telling me how much she liked to know me better and talk to me and all that jazz. I was particularly taken by the cute bad grammar and spelling in the letter and decided to investigate her email id. The server that hosted her email also had a couple of nice English and Russian sites. I was browsing through the English ones and caught hold of this girl's photo. Like I said, I was instantly attracted to the photo.
This, of course, happened a couple of months back. Initially, like a good guy I registered myself with the site and sent her a couple of letters. When I didn't get any response from her, I caught hold of her email address and found that she hadn't logged on to her email for more than an year. So I confirmed her address with a couple of private detectives in kiev and decided to show up early July. I am afraid that I can't tell who the girl is here. First, I don't want to compete with more men than I already have to. Second, I don't want to disclose her identity without her knowledge.
I didn't register with paid sites because it's not my aim to marry an Ukrainian girl. There are plenty of nice Indian women who are willing. It's just that I was rather taken in by this picture (though it is silly) that I thought I should perhaps give it a try. I think I should when I have the money and time to indulge in a delusional absurdity.