Hello, I'm a girl from Russia, and I am a member of the website elenasmodels. I am a beautiful, young looking girl (I'm 35), but I get very few letters from young men my age! Usually I receive many eoi (expressions of interest) and letters from old and ugly men, most of them older then me 12-15 years, or even older. I answer for some pf them, because they write they... are serious about future marriage, and I even had personal meeting with some of them. All of them are very old to me, and I have no any love emotions for any. Some of them not only old, but also greedy or have bad manners. Im really sorry for that time I did spend for them! For example: I met here in Moscow one man from USA who has very bad smell from his mouth (it is horrible)! I understand that it is his disease, but he should understand that this is disgusting! He should say about before, in this case I could told him that it is not for me. And both of us could not waste time. Men, if you are 50-60 years old, and you are sincerely looking for love a girl 15 years younger, then you are silly or very naive. That will never happen. Do not believe the propaganda of websites! You will never really win sincere love of young and beautiful woman. This is not just my opinion, I was talking about this topic to many woman (friends, colleagues at work), some of them more than 40 years old. Believe me, not one woman wants to be in bed with an old or ugly man (nobody dreams about old body, and old smell of body). Men, if you want to marry a young woman, then be prepared for the fact that she will be with you in the first place only because of material considerations, or any other additional social benefits. Do not ask her for a sincere love, it is a myth that the young woman can sincerely love the old man! So, realise real life please! Take care of your body and health, be patient and generous for your woman, and you could be pretty happy with a woman which is close to your age!!! I wish you all to find your second half and sorry if my words hurt some of you.
PS: I rate the site only by 3 stars (out of 5) because of politics of the site which is not very friendly for woman, we are never secure there (because may be we not pay there?!), but agency earn money on us!). Men often harm and insult us, calling us the scammers, and men often give false information! I have had experience with the man who wrote on website that he is 48 y/o., and then I found out that he was 59 on our personal meeting! It was stressful for me.
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"I'm a young and good-looking guy and in elena's models..."
I'm a young and good-looking guy and in elena's models only receive letters with offers from uglies, fat or very short (1'50-1'55m height) girls, being young and good-looking man in a site full of good-looking women. From good-looking women only receive eoi's (expressions of interests) (surely aren't in serious) and silly senseless messages.
Message... from ugly girl to me in EM:
"Hello Juan ¿how are you? I like your photos and what you've written about yourself in your profile - you seem to be a nice and interesting person. We could know each other better if you would like too".
Message from fat girl to me in EM:
"Hi Maybe we approach each other. I would be glad to talk with you!"
Other message from other fat girl in EM (1'71m height/82 Kg weight):
"Hello Juan! I am interested in your profile, and I'll be glad to get acquainted with you. What do you think, what is happiness? Everyone understands it differently. Until some time in my life the most ... (continued)"
Message from a short girl (1'54m height):
"Hello! You look amazing on your photos! I want to know more about you!"
Now, message from a good-looking girl, medium height, cute and sexy:
"Hi) if all, that you wrote about yourself is true, then I am impressed)) it's really great! I love creative persons)"
-Great difference with other messages, it's an ironic message supposing that my profile is false only because it's interesting for her. Surprisingly, when ladies are unattractive decide to believe me, when they are pretty, decline opportunity.
Other messages from good-looking girls:
"hey, how are u?"
"Hey from Ukraine) How is your life?"
"Hi) you have really nice photo."
Great difference between letters from poor looking women and "letters" from good looking women?
I'm good looking and young guy in a site full of good looking and amazing women with some ugly or fat girls, where 99% of men registered are uglier and older than me, and my profile only interest to ugly/overweight women for dating, and good looking/sexy women doesn't take it in account. So surprisingly as frustrating.
I long ago gave up on Elena's models because it is just so unpredictable and its virtually impossible to know if the girl is real or not.
Dont get me wrong, Ive met a couple good ones but many bad ones. Honestly, There are better chances on Fiance.com to find a real and genuine girl
who is not like this old spoiled Russian woman.
If you are attractive and fit and have healthy lifestyle and have good personality and respect the customs, traditions and lifestyles of eastern Europe then
anything is possible. In Ukraine, a 20+ year age difference really is no big deal if you meet the above requirements, even bringing to your country if you have solid relationship.
For guys living full/part time in Ukraine then even 30 years is possible but fat, old and ugly guys need not apply.
a fit, active and healthy guy still needs to understand that even if nightclubs are a very small part of your life together, she is still wanting an active
lifestyle that is often on the go. I know some in their 20s that are different but its not the general rule. Realistically, you are going to spend some money
whether they are young or old. An older lady will want fewer, more meaningful and expensive things while a younger girl will want more less expensive things.
This is normal and I dare say a Ukrainian girl is not anymore expensive than an American girl.
for the record, at 35 years old in Moscow the highly opinionated lady above is already too old by the majority of her peers and needs to take a step back and
re-evaluate her goals. Unless she is drop dead gorgeous with a perfect personality and loyalty to match, her viable prospects for a western man dont begin until
they are age 45+. A 35 to 45 year old man knows he can easily get someone 10-15 years younger
I’d bet that Russian woman had been passed on by,,,, by one, or several of those fat old ugly men,,,, hence all of the bitterness. It must be a terrible feeling to be turned down or ignored by local and foreign men.
This woman is under the belief, that all FSU women are beautiful and charming, and that all foreign men are old, fat and ugly?! That is far from the truth! Yes,,, most of the women’s profiles are filled with nice and sexy photos,,,, but that is after a lot of make-up and photoshop! If you spend any time at all on Vk or fb looking through all of their photos, you will eventually find one the way she really looks. I remember from many years ago,,, I saw a woman’s photo, and rated it the 2nd ugliest pic I’ve ever seen! Not too long later I realized it was one of the women I’d been writing to.
don't belive that 20 years gap is normal for Ukraine cos it is not! When the girl is under 30 even 10 years gap will be too much for all her friends and they will say "don't you think he's too old for you?".
Most of married couples in Ukraine are at the same age or +-2 years.
I know a guy whose wife is 17 years younger than he is, we were all looking at him like he's a green alien riding a yeti.
It is really not common in Ukraine.
I would have to disagree with you moya that it is uncommon to see an older guy with a younger gal in the fsu. In my travels throughout the fsu I've seen quite a lot of it and it's not just foreigners with younger Ukrainian or Russian girls. It's Russian and Ukrainian men with younger women. Usually they have achieved some kind of financial status so the younger gal is seen as a kind of trophy prize. It's much more common than you realize.
The close age gaps are those kids that get married before they are even 22. In Kherson i know several couples under 25 already married up to 3 years and some with children of 2 or 3 years.
But i know 5 couples with difference from 9 to 17 years and married already 10+ years.
it almost as if 25-35 is some barrier. Ironically, 25-35 year range has many already divorced
In all of the dating sites, there is an age range in which one would date. If there isn't, there should be. Women should not put on their profiles an age, or answer men in which they will not date. At least, politely say so.
I should clarify. Im not speaking of just married people although the ones
i referenced are all married.
i said relationships are possible. Nastya and I are 28 years difference. We have talked about
the issues of age, the whole "when i am 60, you will be 32" discussion. She wants to get married and I
am the one who says we should wait and see how it goes. In Kherson, my friend "Joe" is 56 and his wife
Is 38. Andrei is 45, wife just turned 31 and i know some not married in Nikolaev. He is 50 and GF is 28
in odesa, Mario, the Italian guy with the restaurants, his Ukrainian wife is 22 years younger.
Perhaps i notice them more because that's what kind of relationship i am in?
I have a russian friend married to a guy with 36 years gap . He has cancer of the ball bag and its working for them ... three daughters soon with no dad . He has no teeth cant work and looks like the grandfather she complains to my wife about no sex and we think about spit roast .... now really is that working ....whos kidding themself .... you dreamers are fools . 10 years is max age gap without a doubt .
in my case, the largest age gap from the ladies I had meet were 15 yrs....but there were I few I did not ask for her age!
there are may variables and situations that would attract one towards another; therefore, I believe age is a number, IMO what matter is what is likable to each other at the moment. We had seen many disportionate couples but who's to judge upon them?
DC...the chat feature on this site primitive with many young girls, mostly from a city like Nikolaev, trying to get you to chat with them. The site is just average.....nothing to write home about. I originally started here but quickly found out not many serious, good for some entertainment if that is what you look for.
" I originally started here but quickly found out not many serious, good for some entertainment if that is what you look for."
beemer18 - There are tons of websites with free videos, so why would I want to chat with someone even with a webcam. There are also tons of webcam websites with women there. Same routine, same response. It sort of gets boring after numerous repetitions.