I think there are some hard feelings out there about the chances of this really working out. I have seen some instances where it seems that some force seems to be thinning out the "meat" of the context, and dragging on conversions that should be concluded after just a few exchanges. I, however, also think that it's perfectly normal to get a little hurt in the "search for love". Good luck to us all!
Chip you sad person, i don't want a babydoll, just someone that i can care about, and that can care about me, but getting absolutely p?????d of with the , would be, maybe's.
"about 5% of correspondence leads to an actual marraige" ???
If that would be the case there's hope for everybody, so by all means don't give up yet :))
A very little percentage of 'correspondence' is acted upon by means of a visit, and of these visits very few lead to something permanent. And 'permanent' appears to be temporarily for some, but you'll get the general drift I suppose.
On this point of quoted Statistics, did you know that 39.54% of all quoted figures are sucked out of a thumb?
If anyone here thinks it's somehow easier to find love here rather than in their own backyards, you are sorely mistaken. You really ought to think about why you spend your money trying to find love abroad. Just because these women are from a different country, doesn't mean the process of falling in love is any different.
I'm gonna tell y'all something.My dad was from Danmark,he was a Delta pilot,he met my mom in a drug store at the Cadillac Hotel in Detroit MI.True flat out romance!It can Happen anywhere!!!!(mom was an American Airlines stew)
That is a great story Simona, I wish you every happiness, wish more ladies would come in and contribute to the forum, am I alone if looking forward to a girls input?
I wish more ladies would post here too, and if more would read this forum they would get a better idea of what the men are saying and thinking about them too !! Now that would be interesting for some Im sure ;o)))
Call me a novice, but if Simona is not for 'real', and her narrative is a ruse, what, pray-tell, is the motive behind it. And I'm not talking about your 'rubbery-one' Peter Brady. Are the detracters seriously of the view point that this company has moles, or shils? Who would put her (him) up to this any why? Don't these companies succeed well enough, and continue on, just by taking your money for whatever services one ordered; moreover, fiancee.com (or any paysite, for that matter), it seems, would succeed even when you failed. Please explain Doctor's Freud & Faust.
JimmySnapon-tools is spot on. No truer words were ever spoke. But here's the answer as to why these men are circling the Internet-wife concept at this site, just like birds of prey moving in. Sure the guys want 'love' - I don't doubt that much; but here's the REASON their own neighborhoods have proven unsatisfactory. They're average - perhaps a bit too average. That's the problem (or one of the problems).
While more difficult to hook one from abroad, the hope (of some 80%+ members, I guess) is to find a good-looking girl, more attractive than what they, as dudes, say would qualify for in their 'own backyards' (and YOUNGER as well), and also (hopefully), a gal who is a little more 'controlable' than what the natives have offered them. It's why I'm here too (scary, isn't it). But I still try my luck at Jiffy-lube or Starbuck's, if she isn't too engrossed in an issue of COSMOPOLITAN -- or they guy who's twice as 'hunky' as me, and rolls a Mercedes on each foot.
I dont want a woman I can control !! O r one that wanst to control me (see far too many UK women !!)
I want and equasl partner who will love and support me the same as I will her.
I also want children, I havent been lucky so far, and women of my age (40) dont want that, so it has to be someone younger, the younger women here dont want an older husband, so Im kinda stuffed, with my only real choice being look to another country where an older more stable and mature husband is far more wanted, accepted and cherished.
No offense to you personally, my friend, or anyone else on this site -- that wasn't my intention. Freedom of choice is what it's all about. Remember, I'm here too, and I'm approaching your age bracket as well.
My OP/ED piece was simply a result of the many stories and postings I've read, as well as the pictures of couples I've seen. I know there is a component of seeking attractiveness and youth in Russia, because it is not available to the gentlemen personally, at this point in their lives. I stand by that remark. That doesn't mean it's a bad or good thing, however. I am not judging that aspect of the phenomena. My opine was, more or less, a response to JimmySnapon, not anything else. His remarks made a light go off for me, and give greater credibility to meeting an American again -- even though she will not be a goddess and/or a lot younger than me, the two key features which mail-order brides provide. Good Luck to you
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