The majority of forum members are aware, indeed complain, regarding the questionable moderation of this forum.
So when two members took it upon themselves to wallpaper this forum with their petty and pathetic arguing, selfishly ruining the forum for EVERYBODY else, a number of us members had a chinwag and decided upon some self-moderation, to assist the moderators to perform their duties.
And since that self-moderation the forum has returned to more of a level playing field whereas our monitors aren't a wallpaper of those two idiots arguing.
true, we have a modicum of normality in past week or so...
I know I have self moderated. Ive had several flame wars with others before I put on my big boy pants and decided I should behave like an adult.
Some of us spend half our life in FSU and some have only been a few times. regardless of time spent in FSU, no one's experience is less important than
another's. Everyone has an experience to offer, good or bad. Its from our collective experiences that wisdom and guidance for all is achieved.
Many of us can relate experiences of both failure and success. Ive had many good experiences and also bad ones. Wisdom comes from learning the lessons
of both types of experiences.
A person can look at my experiences and can take 2 totally different opinions. Im in Ukraine more than most anyone here but still am not married. One can
say I am a failure. One can take a different opinion and say because I have had many rewarding and fun filled experiences with pretty girls over the years that I just havent
found the right one to marry but not consider it a failure because I love my life and experiences here because I am happy with my choices.
I think if we avoid the childish bullshit, many people here have something positive to offer people who visit and want realistic answers to their questions about
meeting, dating and marrying a FSU girl
"So when two members took it upon themselves to wallpaper this forum with their petty and pathetic arguing, selfishly ruining the forum for EVERYBODY else, a number of us members had a chinwag and decided upon some self-moderation, to assist the moderators to perform their duties."
You forgot about the publishing of a forum member's picture with a derrogatory remark under it and the insulting remark about the only female forum member. I have no regrets. Everyone complained about TomZ and now he has quieted down. You have no place to go with Tom Shea and TinTin. You know I will be on your back. I don't know what your beef is with Tom Shea, but I know you accused TinTin of being a pimp.