Age  to years differant i say it is ok! but more maybe not! some women just like mature men! alots of women most of them like older men alots say men are not mature around there age so they go for older men!!!
Age is not just a number. It's also very often your level of social and emotional development. The difference between 20 and 35 is HUGE. It's a nice romantic notion that "Love shall conquer all" but it's not reality. My parents had a 30 year difference in age. The differences in points of view based on life experiences was obvious to me even as a kid.
We Are generalizing again here, I am almost fifty I look forty, I am in great shape and work out and run long distances in the 90 degree heat in fl. twenty eight and thirty year old womaen here in the states are not out of bounds for a man like me and that might sound like I am bragging but I am not trying to be a meglamaniac perhaps I am lucky.
M: 60 F: 45 y o
Sancho, On the ladies forum the reply was this, "it is ok he will go before you and leave you a big supplement!"
But really Sancho the age thing is different for these women. My story. One of the things I do is I buy and sell cars, one day I was getting some skins put on this car and it took longer that I expected so I went over to this little diner for a cup of coffee and to read the paper. There was this really cute little Russian waitress working there, and every time she looked at me I could not help smiling, she asked me what was so funny and I said nothing but when I look at you I can not help smiling, she turned a little red. I mean she was really cute, about twenty three half my age. Well that became a regular stop for me. Soon we became friends and I started helping her fill out college registration forms and taking her here and there as just a friend with some lust and deep affection in my heart but I never said anything to her. One day her friend that worked with her said that she planned on marrying me. I did the 'rithmetic) and thought the same way, so I stopped going to the diner. So when she was telling me I should marry a Russian girl like her she was saying I should marry her. I went back to see her after a little over a year or so and she is married. Happily to a man a rear younger than me and believe me she could have her pick of men so I did some research. A lot of Russian woman prefer older men and then a lot of other Russian woman will accept an older man if he has other qualities that she finds impossible to live with out, no not fur coats, perhaps my friend Sanchopanza you are just finding it hard to have faith and trust!
I go to see Angelika often, we are better friends now as the infatuation I had of her is in check, now she says find a wife like her back home where the good women live. She helps me with the language and translations. She is one of the many reasons I am here searching!
Assuming you refer to the sexual aspect and as long as there are no medical reasons to prevent a man from taking viagra, levitra or cialis, there is no reson to say he could not keep up as long as they have compatible interests.
Wess. we have similar stories, lol...my cute girl was from latvia, though (and I did boink her...often)
I was not *just* referring to sexual aspect...
Perhaps not at 60, but at some stage HE will become more interested in things like gardening, stamp collection, driving his car sensibly, and so on, while SHE (being 15 years younger) could still be into mountain-climbing, driving a little red sports-car very fast, etc.
-just a thought...
(assuming Marriage is for life, not just for the next few years)
Can husbands and wives have dual roles? Can a man and a woman have seperate and distinct interests and spend time to fulfill there needs and desires?
I think so unless one or both are insecure. I do not want a wife attached to my hip, whether 15 years apart or 15 months apart a thriving relationship needs a certain balance of togetherness and seperatness.
I have very clear opinions on husband/wife roles and marriage interests.
A woman who plans to have separate life interests from me is complete useless marriage material in my not so humble opinion.
Why in the world would I want to make such a commitment to someone who wants to have an independent life from mine, lol?
I had an american g/f like that once...:)
She desperately needed to be independent...as long as I helped her pay for it!!
"Couples who play and work together, stay together"
I admit it is much harder to find someone who not only agrees with you on this, but also who is enjoyable to be with.
Toad, it has been my experience that the more freedom you give your partner, the more choices and the more options allowed the less they exercise them and the more restraints they are expected to adhere to the more they resist. The path of least resistance is easy because no one is traveling it; they are on the tough road.
I think the number one thing women really want is fun; they can't have fun if they are worrying, and they need security because with out it they can't have fun. At about seven months of this surprise pregnancy that my wife and I were experimenting with, I found her in the bedroom under the covers balling like a school girl. When I queried her about her state of mind and got through the BS (my hormones are messed up) she says I though having a baby was going to be fun, look at me! A women's desire to have fun must be genetic. So no matter what... they expect to have fun. I will give my wife all the freedom she wants and she will be right there by my side.
My parent’s generation thought this ideal.” Couples, who play and work together, stay together" in the end they were miserable, oh maybe not all but a lot. In terms of human development people get over stimulated by their partners and instead of short periods of mutual separation it ends in one long permanent type of separation called divorce. Hey now here is the good news somewhere there is a girl that is thinking just like you, a girl that is looking for a guy to capture her heart and her too. So just keep searching because you will find her I am sure. I love your ideal and wish I could find one like that and maybe you know what you are doing looking over here for a wife; there was a song that says it all, “Hopelessly Devoted to You”
I still correspond with several eatern beauties who agree with my way of thinking and the kind of partner I envision for my last marriage.
Everyone is different and everyones needs diffeent things to make them tick.
Honestly, the hardest part of this search is letting good women go because there are too damn many of them to choose from.