So toad then these women of the esat have a different mindset than of western women as far as what the roles should be, I have not been off of the North American Continent except the Islands so I have no point of reference. Perhaps I should go there as an exchange student and do some research for everybody like the roving reporter.
There is a very clever saying, at least I find it clever:)
"if you love somebody let him go, if he will return he will be yours forever, if he will not return then he was never yours"...
I hardly can imagine a situation when 2 people always stay together...don't have separate friends, can't go with their friends out without their soul-mate...it would be so awfully boring, when there is nothing to discuss, as if they spend all their time together they know everything another knows...so what to discuss...what to even maybe have a little dispute???
I highly appreciate the possibility to go out with my friends, or when we can gather in the kitchen drink some wine or beer, and chat, chat about everythig girls do chat when they are out without their husbands or boyfriends...on a girl's party a man will be not wanted. And a girl will be not wanted when men get together have a beer and discuss their common interests....
But do notice that I don't mean that 2 peole shouldn't go out with their common friends, they should go out, but there still should be possibility to go out with seperate friends separately from each other:) Just wanted to like that:)
I understood that part Ptichka......:))
but your original point about keeping time for friends and having other interests is always healthy for a good relationship.I for one would not want to spend every minute of every day in my wife's pockets,and I know she feels the same way too.
Unforunately many do not see it like that for various reasons.....and that is very often the cause of failure in the relationship.
I am still asking myself: Am I single since I work too much or I work so much since I am alone?
But I try to follow what's going on, sometimes I even laugh... But the correspondence to few nice girls (yes, at Fiance.com) is still my priority.
Sancho (yes, he can be serious, too!) started this very thread that I try following, since my two favorites are much younger than me (I am at 46). I ask myself often the very same question. It is everything fine in letters, but I think that until my visit I won't be sure. Hopefully just till then ;-))
So, pleeeeease, some positive vibration!
I was writing about 15 different woman a week for a while i got down to writing basically just two, I thought these two had the most promise but they seem to write only every five or six days , you know reading and writing and translating, I am not sure if this is the way. One I really like and she seems sincere but there is such a long lag and the wait. It is frustrating.
Wess, I asked for positive ...
Oh, yes, I feel the same. Seriously I am exchanging letters (or maybe was?) with just two girls. Why maybe? I got a reply to one of my letters, written to another guy. It shouldn't bother me, since I do the same (I mean, write to more than one). But when making a joke out of it she got upset how I have no trust in her, it is now three days she is not responding... And the other girl is sweet and cute, but only half my age. I drove in one way road (from the wrong side)?
Wess, 46 divided by 2 could not be 25, what do you think?
Well, we have some difficulties regarding language, but it is not like a barrier. They both know english on my level (I am not a native english speaker) and we sometimes exchange two or three letters weekly. And I was looking for a girl that already has high education. It might not mean a lot, but after my opinion (since their school system makes it available), she should have done it... It couldn't hurt. She can get a job easier wherever she moves.
I missed the 46, in the previous thread. Some where there is the thread I left about the Russian waitress here in my home town that was 23, that I should have married but I had a hard time with the age difference,See I had the problem with the age she did'nt as she married a guy my age in the end. This has happened twice now once with an American girl, some women don't mind about the age difference. Really Russian woman think differently about men and age than most. Perhaps you could just go with it and be happy. My daughter is 25 so she said my wife had to be older than her or I was done
Thanks. I need such words (the older still didn't write, the younger has public holidays in Moldova). You see, this thread is not so bad...
Common, anyone more? It is not just for me (I think most of the girls here are much younger than most of us ;-))
yes, I posted about the same profile on another Russian site where you buy tokens for 3 @ 18.00 and it is 1 token to send and 1 token to read. I have 60 letters sitting in the box too expensive and the woman are mostly 40ish. The woman here seem younger more. You say public holidays in Moldova, my favorite girl that I think has the most potential is from Moldova, I have not heard from her in six days now. About the age thing people fall in love and grow together, yeah some grow apart. Never having married a younger woman I could only guess that there will be issues but if you are willing to work at having a good relationship it will work, I do think having and willing to have children willl be a major desire on her part.