A latvian gal that I have been writing to for a long time has *hinted* that she would like to receive flowers and that a flower shop in her town (Riga, Latvia) accepts orders and I am to send an email to flower_euro at list.ru Has anyone heard of this? I have been thinking of sending her something, but not sure how to go about doing it. I do have her address.
rARSE...don't be an arse!!
Never give any woman a gift she is EXPECTING to receive.
Dropping those 'hints' is the universal female language used to open the door to castrating males into submission and servitude.
Send her a note saying you only send presents to women when they do not ask, expect or insinuate them.
I have heard of a someone mentioning that the girl ask the flowershop for money instead of the flowers, but others where skeptical about that, maybe her friend works in the flowershop or her uncle?
ron, and I know when people who were supposed to deliver flowers to the girl, called her ans asked "maybe you would like the money instead of the flowers? it would be more convenient"...of course she was very hurt, and she asked to bring her flowers...
And these were the people, who claimed they made deliveries around Ukraine.
Any woman who hints, suggests, asks or blatantly demands to receives flowers or any other form of "tribute" to keep her interested in the man she is 'marking' is not worth a minute of your time. Period.
The first time my ex demanded I bring her flowers I bought her a pack of kitchen towels with flower imprints on it.
When she treatened to cut me off from sex unless I bought her real flowers I called her bluff and simply said: "You can't cut me off, you know that sexually you only have 'first right of refusal', I can get it elsewhere if you refuse me for no valid reason...You have 1 hour to decide which way you want it to go. I'll be in the living room watching my game. Don't interrupt me until you decide."
She never demanded flowers or refused me sex for a very very long time afterwards.
Boys and men...do not send any gifts until YOU decide a woman is worth it. The interest you show them is itself a gift from you that she better spend a good amount of time showing her appreciation for.
The west is already poisoned and overpopulated with self diluded princesses with false sense of entitlement.
What's the point with replacing them with FSU self diluded princesses with false sense of entitlement, uh?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA....sooooo true, Dale!!
I still don't see why that earns them the right to expect, insinuate, ask or demand flowers from anyone.
rArse,
I know a man who 4 years ago sent his beautiful current Hungarian wife the cheapest Costco flower printed kitchen towels he could find with a note saying:
"Be careful what you ask for. You may get it"
I remember it well, because I was playing racquetball with him when we discussed his courting of this gorgeous foreign woman.
I told him what I did to my ex wife and he decided to put it to good use. A year later they were married.
When he introduced me to her, he said: "This is guy who gave me the idea to send you the kitchen towels after you asked for roses"
To make the story short, she went on and on about how much her parents, specially her father liked what he did to earn everyone's respect.
The father wrote him directly: "A real man doesn't allow a woman to manipulate him into getting her things she doesn't need. Welcome to the family".
For one of their wedding gifts, her father had the cheap towels mounted in the most expensive wood he could afford with engraved phrases reminding her what her role as wife was to be now and in the future.
In order to find a woman like that with a family like that you must be or become the kind of man that matches those values.
If you do not, you will fail like the numerous miserable wretches who cry foul after they find that their women are Ivans or that if they are real women the have many men on the side...or they find it's them who are nothing more than a side dish.
GLTALLTOAD, the most relevant word in your response was, "The first time my ex". Perhaps you may want to think about women with little self-esteem need to see concrete evidence that their man can be soft and providing them with flowers is one way to do so. Sometimes, when I read your responses I think you must be a real bastard for the way you think about women.
NISSE, don’t listen to this guy. Better yet, show up in person with the flowers. At minimum, send her a virtual card with roses all over it and a small poem you wrote just for her. She will appreciate the effort even more than flowers from her city. I would guess she wants to show off for her girlfriends that she has a boyfriend. A virtual card would help.
But let's make one thing clear.
My position about flowers or gifts should only be applied to those selfish wenches who think they deserve any and all men to pay them tribute and have no qualms whatsoever to tell you so.
In this particular case, the Latvia lady that Rarsenault referred to.
Not all women are like that, of course.
In fact, I believe that the vast majority of the FSU women willing to consider western man for a serious relationship are not like that.
Wow, I never expected this type of response. I only wanted to know if the flower shop she mentioned is a good idea or if I should use one of the sites like russianservice.com, the whole hinting aspect has nothing to do with it. I was planning on doing it anyway. So please keep the replies to whether emailing the address she gave me is a good / bad idea and if bad idea then suggestions on how to send flowers or a gift otherwise. Thanks.
P.S. Toad, don't make fun of my name any more...I don't appreciate it. I came here for advice, not for insults.
You can go through this service here nault Flamingo services and they will send books candy wine perfume what ever call with your request the number is available on the top page of fiance.com.
You may recall that I wrote in this forumn tht I had TWO Moldovans?
I met them at the same time. They were friends. And though I spent a total of five weeks (approximately) with one - we were having some problems with her attitude an genral and that of her mother. My attention was slowly heading toward the other Moldovan - the one that I had actually been attracted too in the first place, and the one I would have pusued had I not been given wrong information from a traslator.
ANYWAY - As our situation was just picking up steam - I decided to surprise her with roses on her birthday - sent right to her house. She didn't expect them. And I didn't expect them to reveal something about ther character as it did.
When I called after they were deliverd I expected to hear nice things. Instead she chastised me - telling me that I shouldn't have spent so much because flowers die. Then she told me thta what she really wanted was a recordable CD player - and for sending such a foolish gift - would I please send her $100 so that she could buy the CD player NOW? When I expressed reservation she became adamant and told me that she deserved it (for what?).
Needless to say I did not send the $100 - and I have not spoken to her since.
Rarsenault,
As you become a regular to this forum you will see we tend to poke fun at each other and at ourselves in equal measures.
No matter how heatly debated the topics may get, nobody that I've seen here gets malicious towards anyone else.
If that happens, Olga steps in and forces a truce.
But we do poke fun at each other.
Telling you not become an arse is my weird way to welcome you here and warn you blatantly about falling victim to capricious and selfish women.
Roll with it. I do mean you well...(even if you do end up doing what the latvian woman wants you to do)