I have two questions...how do they feel about those of us that are overweight. (6'4" and 300 lbs.) I have a linemans build but not in a linemans shape anymore and the second is children. I have 3 children part time. Anyone have any idea on the general pulse of these issues?
Shaggy:
I am not speaking for all......but I know you will find there are a lot of ladies out there for whom weight/looks etc etc,are secondary to the "character" of the person they seek.
Shagg daddy,
Be upfront with every single woman you correspond with.
If your favorite sport is busting bathroom scales, tell them.
If you like working on cars, tell them.
If your children are the most important thing in your life, tell them.
If you like to coach your kids, tell them.
If you want your woman to cook a meal for 20 but you're the only one at the table, tell them..
Like Glad said, your character will earn you the cookie points that your flab will not.
On the other hand, if you do not like being fat, just do something about it.
There are a million and one ways to lose weight these days.
Unlike western, and US women in particular, honest FSU women with strong family backgrounds will fall in love with you for what you are, not for what you look like or have.
I have to disagree with Gladiator. You must be very objective about how western women react to this. In my experience the true feelings of most Russian women will not be that much different. I honestly think so. Be doubly careful.
If you do not have a medical condition, rather do something about it and start your conquest from a position of strength. Nearly all women prefer taller men, so you definitely have something going for you.
Olga,
A man who is 6'4" and 300lbs has left his chubby stage waaayyy behind....
A bear is what Shagg is.
It's up to him to present himself as the gentle giant cuddle teddy bear many women like or blow his chance by showing a grizzly side.
Thanks everyone. I am doing what I can and have lost 102 lbs now and I hope to have another 60 gone in the next 6 months. I am lucky to have a large frame so I am not exactly round...lol
you know and it is thought that people who are overweight have the best characters in the world, good sense of humor and always in a good mood:) If to compare them with those who have to put some limits in the food, go to the gym and so on.
So having a good sense of humor, not being gloomy and sad is a very good thing:)
Shaggy, not long ago someone here said stick to what is reasonable as far as finding a girl. Lets face it, you are haevy but the truth is, do you mind a heavy girl because they do exist is FSU as well. I dont mean super big but I have had girls write to me that were to big for my personal taste and while I was there in August I had one chase me a little but she was tall and just a little heavy. Be realistic in you seach and I am more than sure you will have success. And yes, be honest.