That is sad, and far too true, especially for men. I have never understood how a man could miss the joy of pleasing a woman and knowing her pleasure... exquisitely expressed in passionate words, body language, and her intimate embrace. It seems to me that most people have missed the point: It's the journey, not the destination, that's the best part. The journey is, after all, the only part that lasts more than a few moments, as glorious as they may be.
You are talking about the hunt. I have found that to be very true. There have been a few women that I had extreme interest in and persued. After the chase was over and I won them over... I lost interest very quickly. Then there were those where the thrill of the hunt paled in comparison to what came after. It's all very interesting.
I can't speak for people of other countries, especially Eastern Europeans, but Americans, despite our perceived sexual liberation and freedom, tend to be a prudish bunch.
I have had or overheard many conversations with men and women who've expressed shame with their own sexuality.
From what I've heard, it seems that many women would be appalled to touch their genitals or a man's for that matter... and if they did, they'd be ashamed to admit it.
It makes you wonder how they'd ever get pregnant, since they apparently think sex is so dirty.
The chase is wonderful and sometimes after the catch is made, you find out that person wasn't who you thought they were going to be.
I am still chasing mine, even though she has agreed to be my wife, however we are going through a bad patch, the fault is nearly all mine, I have sat at home for the last three days, feeling like my guts have been ripped out. She still wants me to come to Moldova in October and bring her home, she says she still loves me, but she says now that she doesn't understand and is afraid she may be making a mistake. I know that I am so terrified of losing her, that I am appearing weak, I know this is a trait she finds unappealing. Usually when I am with a woman, I am strong and a little mean when I have to be, with her, I love her so much that I find it hard to put my foot down, any advice on my connundrum?
Some men probably need a woman to tell them what to wear, when to eat, what to think... endlessly. In other words, they need a mother.
So they marry a woman to have someone to get those things and pick up after them... and for sexual intimacy. Just one problem... most women don't want to pick up after a man.
They marry to have a loving relationship -- which may or may not include sexual intimacy -- and the security and comfort of marriage and a home, and to have children.
There is nothing wrong with people knowing what they want and going after it, and it can be wonderful if both people seek and value the same things.
It seems that far too many people want very different things, and when reality meets dreams something has to give... the 'loving' part of the relationship.
The first thing that usually goes is any mention or display of 'love' and the intimacy, masked by the phrase, "I don't feel 'that' way any more." In the end, what was once a loving, intimate, romantic life is shattered and all that remains is disappointment, anger and regret.
Don't believe all that. Sounds like you are listening to men and women monesteries or something. In all my life here in the US I have had no trouble finding women who were VERY intouch with their sexuality and they were more than willing to help you get in touch with yours. And men....? Well Don't know where you are from my friend but most man know how to handle themselves. Where are you getting your information?
Trad,
Tell her you love her and want her...WITHOUT WHINNING about it.
Also tell her that if she rejects you, you will waste no time looking and finding someone else, but much prettier than her.
Lol Toad, I will take the first bit of advice, but I'll pass on the second bit, thanks.
Toad, this is one hell of a woman, their maybe prettier girls, but I have never met any with such character and integrity, and she looks pretty good too:-))
She might be more wonderful than sliced bread, but if she doesn't want to have anything to do with you, she is useless to you, your future, your life, your goals, your needs and your ambitions.
Buck up, mate...painful as it may be.
The only person I know that thought sex was just intercourse was former President and White House whore Bill Clinton. Just try this one fella's this will be an experiment. On your way home from work pick up you cell phone and call you wife or girlfriend and tell her you will pick up the milk and bread on the way home and stop in for a quick blow job and after you pick up your brains off the floor after you walk in the door, try to convince her that sex is only intercourse. I bet that dog don't hunt!!!!!LMAO
nas: White House whore? Come now. You know damn well what he did is nothing new. Only thing is he got cought and the US people love to see a good scandal. Especially when it involves someone famous or in "power." Infidelity is still in style here in the US.
The following speech does not justify the amazingly idiotic and neverending list of things men do to get pun, but it may shed some light from a somewhat different point of view in a humorous way...Enjoy!
"....Many of you folks here are God loving people. right? Can I ask you a couple of questions? Do you think when God created 'woman' HE made a mistake or did it to us on purpose??...
I really need to know...Because if He made a mistake maybe we can do something about it, damn it!!
Maybe we can find a cure...invent a vaccine....build up our inmune system....Exercise!!...Do 200 push-ups a day and you'll never have to be afflicted by women again..."
(Jack Nicholson - Witches of Eastwick, 1987)
Not in my US and not in my life. My credibility means to much to me along with my honor. I have been through that in my life and it is a rather bitter pill to swallow. I wouldn't want another person to feel that kind of pain. As far as scandals, I can do with out them myself. I don't love them, I despise when people in power destroy the credibility of a good country. It represents that most Americans do not value fidelity which is not true. At least among my friends.
Though Lord Acton said it best, Power corrupts, Absolute power corrupts absolutely.
Nasfan,
In the US the majority of spouses cheat and the majority of people of dating/marrying age do not value fidelity.
That does not make it right. But it's the reality of how our society has deteriorated socially.
Although some may call it 'social evolution', I don't like.
Scott,
JFK was in a complete different league, though...He banged Marylin Monroe. Sleek Willie got a little bj by a government clerk, lol...A little in her mouth, a little on the cigar, a little on the dress, lol...
Abraham Lincoln was elected to Congress in 1846.
John F. Kennedy was elected to Congress in 1946.
Abraham Lincoln was elected President in 1860.
John F. Kennedy was elected President in 1960.
The names Lincoln and Kennedy each contain seven letters.
Both were particularly concerned with civil rights.
Both of their wives lost a child while living in the White House.
Both Presidents were shot on a Friday.
Both were shot in the head.
Both were shot with one bullet.
Both were rumored to be killed in a conspiracy.
Neither was confirmed to be a conspiracy.
Lincoln was shot in the Ford Theater.
Kennedy was shot in a car made by the Ford Motor Company (a Lincoln no less)
Lincoln's secretary was named Kennedy.
Kennedy's secretary was named Lincoln.
Both were assassinated by Southerners.
Both were succeeded by Southerners.
Both successors were named Johnson.
Andrew Johnson, who succeeded Lincoln, was born in 1808.
Lyndon Johnson, who succeeded Kennedy, was born in 1908.
Their first names both contain six letters.
John Wilkes Booth, who assassinated Lincoln, was born in 1839.
Lee Harvey Oswald, who assassinated Kennedy, was born in 1939.
Both assassins were known by their three names.
Both names comprise fifteen letters.
Booth ran from the theater and was caught in a warehouse.
Oswald ran from a warehouse and was caught in a theater.
Both assassins were assassinated before their trials.
The only complete filming of Kennedy's assasination was shot by Abraham Zapruder.
The only complete account of Lincoln's assasination was written by John Zelfindorfer.
A week before Lincoln was shot, he was in Monroe, Maryland.
A week before Kennedy was shot, he was in Marilyn Monroe.
Recent rumors have it that there was more to the story of Monica and Bill, it seems that after further review more than one stain was found on the dress Monica Lewinski wore that infamous day in Clinton's office. Evidently the FBI took the dress back to the lab and confirmed that two additional stains were found cofirming a foursome, Monica, Clinton, and Ben & Jerry's
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