I am willing to fork over the doe...just someone please tell me the best way to get my girl over here. We have been writing every week for three years!!!! I have visited her twice. She is 24, I am 32. Is there a agency somewhere? anywhere? I don't care if she comes here and leaves me after 1 year (I don't see that happening, I'm pretty good looking for a guy...and speak Russain fair), but I need some expertice. I make good money and am willing to do whatever it takes. Aside from living there. please help!
3 years!?!? an agency isn't going to get you both together any quicker. You need to get a fiance visa. Contact an immigration attorney.. but make sure you get a good one!!! one with experience in K1 visas. Good luck I'm assuming u live in the US. I'm not sure of the laws in any other place. Good luck
Maybe just an observation! But if you have skills for a good income now, you will have them later. If you are willing to go to all ends of the earth to get her to you, maybe and I just say maybe the easiest would be you go to her. If I love someone and meet my soulmate, I'm sure as hell not going to worry about what country I live in for a lifetime of happiness. I love my country as much as any man and I defended it, but I will not let my patriotism get in the way of my happiness. If the shit hits the fan
I can always come back and support my homeland, I can come back and get a job, but will I be able to come back and find happiness?
Without some risk there is truly no reward.
Sorry but soulmate or not there are limits. Only a fool will jump blindly in. It's a nice romantic notion but the reality of it would be quite different. :-)
mik:
Man you better be sure about this. If she's showing signs of doubt after 3 years.....
Mikeal: Your letter is confusing. You say that you have been to see her, have written for three years, are hopelessly in love and yet you tell us nothing about wheterh or not you have tried for a visa of any type. You don't say but I am assuming that you are an American. You could apply for a fiance visa or a nonimmigrant visa (which SOME will tell you is a waste of time - but its a try). You could even marry her there and apply for the new )relatively speaking) visa which is not a fiance visa but a marriage visa - (I want to say its a K2 but it might be K3) that does NOT descriminate against you for already being married but allows her to come over much like a K1 visa.
Tell us what you have done so far, consult an attorney for sure. But sure you have made SOME progress and done something in three years?!?!
Mikeal: Your letter is confusing. You say that you have been to see her, have written for three years, are hopelessly in love and yet you tell us nothing about wheterh or not you have tried for a visa of any type. You don't say but I am assuming that you are an American. You could apply for a fiance visa or a nonimmigrant visa (which SOME will tell you is a waste of time - but its a try). You could even marry her there and apply for the new )relatively speaking) visa which is not a fiance visa but a marriage visa - (I want to say its a K2 but it might be K3) that does NOT descriminate against you for already being married but allows her to come over much like a K1 visa.
Tell us what you have done so far, consult an attorney for sure. But surely you have made SOME progress and done something in three years?!?!
My girl is Modovan and I am getting her a fiance visa in October, the stipulation being I marry her within 6 months, it doesn't seem that difficult to obtain, I have to produce our letters, photo's, how many times we have met, a letter from my employers, letter from my landlord staing no objection to more people living in the house, itemised phone bill, and she has to prodeuce a few documents, hope I am not being naive, but doesn't seem to be a great problem bringing her to the uk
Any western man who waits three years to start his research on how to bring his sweetheart home to him probably:
1. was married to somebody else at least part of those three years.
2. was married to somebody else at least part of those three years and did not have spousal approval to openly announce his intent to chase after another woman in another country.
3. was married to somebody else at least part of those three years, did not have spousal approval to openly announce his intent to chase after another woman in another country and could not qualify for a poligamist mormon residency visa in the state of Utah
Hi , I'm from Moldova and I meat my husbend throught internet too.He did my fiance viza and sended to ambasabe and I got apruve in 6 months.Now we are olready 2.5 yers together.We have 1.5 yers old boy and we are very happy family.That are you wating for ? 3 yers that too much .Why did you wated so long ? Sorry for mistakes.I still learn to write.
Veronika, I am a little concerned you waited 6 months for a fiance visa, British Enbassy have promised me a Fiance visa one week after application, I advised I would be making application on 15-10-2004 and I asked them would she be able to leave by the end of October, and they said definately
What scares me is the feeling that soo many of the men here sound like they are rushing into marriage. You really should know the person for at least 2 years before marriage. Less that 1 year is insane and asking for a relationship destined for failure. Just based on my own observations.
If you love someone groon, and forget that western mentality of walking out on someone if it becomes difficult, then it makes sense, I love my fiance, it is not objective....however I also like her, I am sure life will through up difficulties, especially due to the change of culture, language and country, but the greatest thing we have is respect, and I also know she won't throw the towel in during difficult times, and she doesn't come from a throw away mentality, what is the difference between 1 year, 2 years or 3 years
There is no universal period you must know a person. Just because you wait until three years to marry is no certainty the marriage will last. There are some that have met and married in less than a month, and are still happily married.
There is certainly reason to wait until you know each other till you are certain of your basic values, but I don't agree that you need to know them at least three years.
That is something that will certainly vary with each person.