Hi, Can anyone help me with this girl? We were corresponding without any problems, then i wanted to do something special for her, so purchased a box of chocolates and got them delievered. Strange thing then happened, i got a reply but not from her but her mother explaining that Viktoria had to leave suddenly to continue her study in Japan. Her mother than claimed that if i wanted her new address i should write to one of her friends on Fiance.Com and that she would help. Her mother also gave me a phone number to call her to make sure that Vika was real and not a scam. I feel that this is a bit strange and would appreciate anyone who experienced this thing as well...
Firstknight, have the administrator check this out for you this it what they do. Get help from the 24 hour help line on the front page or call administration at 1 888 535 0535, this is not the right way to solve this problem here posting her ID. Who knows how this will end up but if it goes south remember there are over 15,000 women here so just try and move on.
Olga,
If you want to clean up then clean up your site. I am not in the mood of getting scammed and am lible to take to a very bad ending. I am not sure what is going on but i am somewhat annoyed.
Wessman:- Why do you move on and only contribute if it's worthwile....
firstknight,
I wrote "we are clearing up", not clean up. it means that we were investigating this issue.
here is what happened. The girl left to Japan to study. She was about to remove her profile when you ordered gift to her. Her mother picked up the gift at the agency and wrote a response to you as she thought that your letters ment a lot for her daughter and she didn't want you and her daughter to lose contact with each other. Her mother explained you everything in letter. So what is not clear to you?
At this time Victoriya's mother probably doesn't know her new address yet, since Victoriya didn't get permanent accomodation so far. she asked you to contact her friend later to get Victoriya's address because both mother and Victoriya would not be able to contact you. When girl leaves we require her to remove profile. Victoriya's profile was supposed to be shut down. (in fact by this time it is already removed)
nobody was going to scam you. Victoriya's mother even offered to send back that gift to you.
please let me know how can we assist you in this situation? we have contact info of her mother. Later we may ask for new address of Victoriya.
I must say that it seems very odd that she suddenly had to return to Japan...Most usually such trips would be known up front in advance wouldn't you think. Sounds like Mom needs a sponsor. I do not know of any schools that start their semester this time of year either....just something to think about.
The scamming bug paranoia is getting you people completely out of control.
why do you think that a cheap box of chocolates will stop anyone's plans to travel anywhere away from home.
It happens, man...bad timing, that's all...ssshhheeesshhhh
First Knight? if you think its a scam, move on, thats what wess said. If you are intersted wait and get the address. Wait untill she asks you for something before you go shouiting scammer.
Olga, you are learning about ID numbers, very good
Shaggy,
You read well between the lines, the lady probably gave him a last second excuse probably because she had other plans...period.
Maybe she has a local lover that she chose to go on vacation with.
Who's to blame her for wanting to entertain several men at the same time?
Isn't that what we do when we shotgun blast letters to a dozen different women?
Why does that make her a scammer?
Once again, a cheap box of chocolates or any other material gift will not BUY you a woman worth waiting for.
The men in this forum that demonize FSU women who reject them should hold themsleves to the same unrealistic moral and ethical standards that they demand from the FSU women they chase.
If they did, they'd have not choice but to hung themselves from a dwarf tree.
Olga,
Thank you for the information. I contacted her friend and she basically told me not to bother her. So if you can get Viktoria's address for me from her mother i would greatly appreciate it. It has nothing to do with the money... I really do not give a damn about the money. I am more concerned with honesty and truth. But if you feel you can assist i will really appreciate it.
Toad...
I am beginning to think that some members are either ignorant or just plain stupid. I was never rejected, and what the hell is wrong with a little honesty. Toad do not post on my thread if all your going to do is talk crap... Cheap box of chocolates was not meant as a bid to buy her. It was a gift for just being a friend. Please do yourself a favour and go find yourself a tree to hang yourself. I do not like members getting personal when all i asked for was some advice....Do not piss me off.........
Thanks for the support. I am just tired of members whom seem hell bent on talking crap. All i wanted was
nice friendly advice and instead i get morons who seem to think that they know it all. I am not the type to sit
back and let people bag me, when all i wanted was some advice. All i can say is that i am as friendly as the next
but can jump down their throats if the need arises.
Firstknight I was not trying to be a wise ass, your reply was
"Wessman:- Why do you move on and only contribute if it's worthwile.... It is easy to misunderstand here I do not understand what you mean, sometimes I need a map.
I said best to move on because when ever things like this happen you send a gift and she is not there it usually seems that it is best to move on to a worthwhile woman, I was sort of saying this does not look like any good is coming out of this when she has left, there is a third party involved, mom is trying to convince you she is real, all going down hill, best of luck on your quest. Scam came to my mind too!
By the way I think sending a gift is a great idea it seems to root the problem woman out early... follow your gut!
Yeah you are in a tough spot. A trip to Japan is not something you do at the last minute. She had to know she was leaving. At least to me is seems she should have told you about it. Since she did not it would tend to mean she does not concider you worth while enough to inform. I mean come on. How hard is it to fire off a quick email? When something last minute comes up I let my lady know so she won't think I'm loosing interest or that something happened to me. It was really nice when she did the same for me the first time. Showed me where her head and feelings are about this whole thing. If I were in your shoes I'd chalk it up as a loss and find another more deserving lady.
Wessman: Sorry for the misunderstanding. Also excuse me for the typo sometimes my fingers type quicker than my brain can think:) But anyhow i have moved on and in the process have been taught a lesson in trust:)
Groon: Thanks man for the advice. Best move on as you have suggested. Well with thousands of women available what are the odds of getting screwed once more? Pretty damn good i am beginning to think:) Anyhow thanks to all for your help...! The more help the better...