got an e-mail with a copy of the article below written by C.J. Chivers from the New York times.
So much for unbiased news reporting.
I think Chivers is too cozy now after having built a solid reputation as a war correspondent and would rather focus on the negative side of the east-west dating scene instead of showing ANY examples of succesful relationships between western men and eastern women.
And heaven and hell forbide him to dig a little deeper and start investigating the reasons why 1000s of western men no longer
put any effort to seek and develop serious relationships with western feminazi canines of the female gender.
Chivers is not afraid to rub elbows with the Iraq and Afghan war scenes, but he seems scare shitless of presenting both sides of the story about east-west dating....makes me wonder, lol.
I think his editor is a western feminazi, lol.
here it is:
"This is an interesting article from New York Times.
Please send your comments and questions to
maxim@yoshkar-ola.com .
November 3, 2004
By C. J. CHIVERS
MOSCOW, Nov. 2 - As she sends e-mail with her photograph to
men around the world, Nadezhda Medvedeva calls to the
lonely in just the right voice.
If circumstances were different she might make a fine wife.
She is young, brown-eyed and curvy, a pediatric dentist who
quotes 19th-century poetry and cooks delicious meals. She
lives near the Caspian Sea in southern Russia but is eager
to travel. Her Russian is fluent; her English, not bad.
Ms. Medvedeva is also cautious, even demure. It is only
after she grows comfortable with a suitor that she will
reveal the depth of her longing. Then nothing can hold her
back.
"Hi, my Lion!" she wrote to Steven Rammer of Denver, Pa.,
as they planned a passionate rendezvous at his home. "Hi,
my soul!"
That rendezvous never happened. Nor did another she
arranged for two days later with George Palin, who waited
in vain in Montana.
No matter how long the trail of the jilted, Nadezhda ("call
me Nadia") Medvedeva is neither a tease prone to second
thoughts nor an overbooked online tramp. She is not even a
person. She is bait.
Ms. Medvedeva is one of scores, perhaps hundreds, of
fictional characters in a resurgent Internet hustle that
has become a Russian boom industry this year. Using fake
names, forged visas and snapshots of young Russian women, a
new crop of on-line swindlers is luring Western victims
into highly successful confidence games.
Each is an escalating flirtation between an unsuspecting
man and a Russian grifter masquerading as a young woman. It
typically ends when the victim wires money to Russia to pay
for visas and airfare for a consummation of the affair.
Then the beloved disappears.
The con first surfaced in 2001 but then subsided, Russian
authorities say. It has recently returned with vigor and
new sophistication. The targets are men in the United
States, Britain, Australia, Canada and New Zealand who have
posted personal advertisements on the Internet.
The crime has become so widespread that the United States
Embassy here is receiving between 5 and 10 inquiries from
American citizens about it every day, an American diplomat
said. "Some of these guys were literally left waiting at
the airport with roses," she said.
Most victims lose from $300 to a few thousand dollars,
although one man was defrauded of $11,000, the diplomat
said. The number of men duped is at least in the hundreds,
but it may be much larger. "We only know about the victims
who are willing to talk about it," she said.
Modern Russia is in many ways an incubator for such crimes.
It has a highly literate population that suffers from low
wages and soaring unemployment, conditions that can breed
hustlers. It offers them an environment in which they can
work, including uneven law enforcement and barriers to
outsiders - a language many find impenetrable, strict visa
rules and vast geographical spaces - that all but ensure
that few fooled Americans could ever find the people who
tricked them.
Mr. Rammer and Mr. Palin both gave The New York Times the
correspondence they had received from the person pretending
to be Ms. Medvedeva. The string of e-mail messages provides
an example of how the game works.
In June the correspondent sent an e-mail message to Mr.
Rammer, replying to a personal advertisement he had posted
on match.com, an online dating service.
It seemed a normal query, offering basic personal
information - I'm 29, 5 feet 6 inches tall, a dentist - and
then following the rituals of new acquaintance. Do you like
your job? What is your favorite film?
A long-distance conversation began. More e-mail followed,
each message with an attached photograph.
The character of Ms. Medvedeva was slowly revealed. She is
educated but of limited means. She knows popular Western
films and classical Russian music. She provides dental care
to orphans. She had a boyfriend, but he beat her. Now she
is alone.
As the exchange intensified the grifter accepted pictures
from Mr. Rammer, sent back compliments and answered
questions he had posed. Two e-mail messages included
pictures of Ms. Medvedeva in a bikini.
On July 13 Ms. Medvedeva's character admitted it: she had
fallen in love. "In my soul, I feel contentment and joy
when I think of you," she wrote.
Two days later the plot took its essential twist: her boss
notified her that she had a vacation due. She wanted to
visit her new man. The July 16 message began, in imperfect
English, "I with trembling heart waited your
Two days later the plot took its essential twist: her boss notified her that she had a vacation due. She wanted to visit her new man. The July 16 message began, in imperfect English, "I with trembling heart waited your letter."
Then came the rub. Can you help with travel costs?
Anatoly Platonov, the spokesman for the K Department of Russia's Ministry of Internal Affairs, which investigates Internet crimes, said that the criminals who send these messages were almost always men and that they used the same scripts to correspond with hundreds, even thousands, of foreign men at once.
The person posing as Ms. Medvedeva was simultaneously flirting with Mr. Palin, having found his personal advertisement on yahoo.com. He received virtually identical e-mail, the only changes being his name and short answers to questions he had posed in previous exchanges. ("I with trembling heart waited your letter" arrived on July 27.)
To lead the men into the trap, the poser sent them e-mail about a nervous wait for an American visa, and then a copy of the visa after it was approved.
The visa was a forgery, made from a scan of an authentic visa, retouched by computer to include a new face and personal data. A trace of its number found that the original had been reported lost or stolen in August of last year, the American diplomat said.
The ruse worked. Both Mr. Rammer and Mr. Palin wired Ms. Medvedeva money to help with costs. Mr. Rammer sent $300; Mr. Palin $720.
The identity of the person who duped them remains unknown, although whoever it was has been active: Ms. Medvedeva is listed as a phony bride-to-be on Internet blacklists, which are regularly updated by bilked men. Her picture has also been used under the name Tatyana Kuzminyh and Anna Kruglova.
Mr. Platonov said Ms. Medvedeva's ever changing character fit a type. The fictional women are like Legos, assembled by joining random photographs, vignettes and seductive scripts. The men who create them often have female accomplices who provide their passports for scanning or pick up money at Western Union counters or banks.
The first ring the authorities broke up, in 2002, consisted of two young men and a woman who sent e-mail from the city of Yoshkar-Ola, in the Ural Mountains. "We arrested the fat girl and she gave evidence," Mr. Platonov said, referring to the woman in the group. "It turned out that all this effort was organized by a 21-year-old boy."
In the most recent case, prosecuted this year, a husband-and-wife team in Chelyabinsk bilked foreign men out of several hundred thousand dollars, Mr. Platonov said. The wife posed as the bait. The man was found guilty of fraud, but his case is on appeal, a spokesman at the local Internal Affairs office said.
The American diplomat says the swindle appears to have been picked up by copycats who have grown more sophisticated of late.
The scripts have become more patient and include story lines that show a character's honesty or kindness. (Ms. Medvedeva described treating an orphan's toothache during a blackout - by flashlight.) The visa forgeries have also become more convincing.
Moreover, some swindlers have created Web sites that purport to represent travel agencies and back them up with "employees" who take calls from foreign men asking about their date's airfare and reservations. Others have turned to new classes of victims.
Three weeks ago, the diplomat said, the first gay victims began to complain.
readers of his forum know all this scam schemas and discussed it well. I think there are more money is being stolen from people by scam telemarketers in USA:) I know I am repeating here but this is for all men who are new to this forum: never send money, always reports to the site where that girl placed her profile if she asked for money, read this forum about NOT SENDING money:)
LOL, shaggy
I'll be the first one to admit that I have, on occasions, taken my favorite hand on a romantic weekend getaway to romantic places like Cambria and Santa Barbara....but not this time, lol.