This just came to me via Yahoo Personals. I will tell them to stop sending me this crap. And they wonder why we are looking overseas for a lady. This is her blurb :)))
"Hi, I am a great woman with an outgoing personality. I am a queen wherever I go and I like to be treated like that. I enjoy outdoor activities and dancing. I love talking (deep talks, not superficial stuff ) I love sunsets and enjoy being alive. I am well-educated and I have travel a lot. I love being Hispanic."
What a way to attract a guy!!! Clueless, totally clueless. Another 42 year old, retread, wannabe princess. I wonder if they have any idea what their competition is. My girl looks 10 times more attractive than this idiot and is 6 years younger. I thought this particular listing pretty much summed up the whole east versus west issue.
What was it I have said in the past about hispanics??
This one came after not once but twice after I told her to get lost she wanted demand why??
"I want you if you can appriciate the simple, complex and unique way i see the world around me.
i want to love and be loved and be able to sing to you: "from this moment life has began". do not try to impress me with earthly posesions and do not tell me that, at your age you do not have a job.please do not call me if you just want a friend. i will not write back and forth and i'll talk to you on the phone, once may be twice, after that i need to see you, for the truth is not in the words nor in the voice, it's in the eyes"
She is demanding, rude and aggressive - unbelievable. What self respecting guy in his right mind would want either of these hags from Macbeth?? (and she can't even spell or punctuate !!)
This one came after me not once but twice then after I told her to get lost she wanted to demand why?? Just thought I would correct that. Both of these twerps are from Miami and on the wrong side of 40!!
Hmmmm.....
I don't see where she is being unresonable. I see no reason to get worked up over this pretty simple and standard message. May I ask how old are you? Most of us men view ourselves as Kings. Why is it wrong when women view themselves as Queens? To be honest again I see nothing in her message to you where she's making any crazy demands. Maybe I'm missing something.
Listen, when a woman starts telling you she is great, needs to be treated like a queen, must be pampered, needs a man who is generous, must be financially generous she is either used to the high life or wants to become so. There are key words and phrases. It is largely absent with the FSU women. They talk about family and wanting a husband.
I am worked up about the fact that when women pull this money stuff there is a name for it. It is called prostitution. If you have money you can have me. High class hooker. The live-in variety.
Obviously Groon you are too young to have learned to read between the lines. Personally I don't want a queen I would prefer a normal woman and I definitely don't want one that thinks she already is a queen and my job is to kiss her feet. Something of a 'slightly' overinflated opinion of herself.
The second one is pushy and demanding and you really have to see her picture. If you would like a queeny good luck. There are lots around. Women have such an exagerated opinion of themselves they forget what is really going on. They are over forty and on their own this is no time to be too picky.
My age has already been mentioned and is irrelevant. We are not talking about me here. I don't think I'm a king or desire some woman to treat me like one. Just treated with normal respect will do nicely thank you. I also don't tell people that I'll only call them once or maybe twice if I'm feeling generous. If you don't get this then you need a little more experience. I can't believe this went over your head.
Hi izifaddag , I 've read above ur typing , you are intersting person , I hope we talk online I can give you my email (deleted by moderator)
see you :-)
Bye
Thank you ID.
They are far more prevalent on our side of the border than theirs. Woman who have taken this "Self Esteem" thing to a whole new level. Then the pushy ones wo want to "take charge".
Been there done that and have papers going through the divorce court to prove it.
This is definitely not how to win friends and influence people.
Izi,
The following portions of one of my old ads may help you eliminate some of the unwanted responses you keep getting, lol..:
"...I ran away (and very fast) from women who insits on discussing day time TV shows, the ex men 'still' in their lives, wedding gown fashion and how smart they think they are...because believe it or not, people who think they know it all really really really annoy the bejeesus out of those of us who do...."
"...I hope your version of the healthy sense of humor you claim to have allows you to laugh at yourself (because I probably will). If we hit it off via e-mail or chat, be able and willing to meet in person, because women who play cutsy 'mystery' games bore the pee pee out of me, most of them are butt ugly, married, overweight beyond maternal recognition or sought after by the authorities, anyways...."
"...Yes, I believe in monogamous relationships and marriage (but not immediately after the first date). I also believe in prenups with clauses that clearly stipulate that you will never never never hold a membership with N.O.W. or teach our son(s) to pee sitting down or install fussy covers on the toilet seats...."
Izi,
My old ad still gets some response from women who enjoy a good laugh, and almost just as much hate mail response from cows like the ones you describe, lol...
I take "Needs to be treated like a queeen" to mean she wants to be appreciated. I see no problem with that. Now if she's talking about me being her servent then we are talking two different laguages and well, "I no comprende."
I know exactly what you mean and in a slightly less creative way to Toad, I am saying the same thing in my profile..
'You care about yourself, eating healthily and keeping fit. You think more than a touch of make-up is unnecessary. You can laugh at your own mishaps and are flexible and supportive. You respect, not abuse money and you have sound values and morals, without being rigid and judgemental. Words like compassion, empathy, tolerance and intelligence wrap themselves neatly around you. Your expectations are realistic and you don't require your partner to 'meet your needs' rather, you allow your partner to love freely within his capacity. Chivalry and honour are concepts that may be old-fashioned, yet you appreciate them when shown. You do not seek to emasculate men but to validate their masculinity and place in the order of things.'