Wess, trying to accuse my dad or mom or me is really something stupid! None of us could do that! I judge on the details of his death, how he was killed!
And we don't know when we shold gather...people should be gathered on 9 and 40 day of death...so how we should count? OK 9 days passed...we gathered...but it was approximately!
You are in an extremely difficult situation. I just hope you have an investigator there that has a clue. Sometimes the police and even in my country will not allow information out to
compromise an investigation. Sad as it sounds it is good for the credibility of the investigation. Now it does not seem reasonable to you and your family and I understand your frustration. I just hope that someone is brought to justice for
this heinous crime and executed for it. Your family is still in my prayers my dear.