Cinderella
got her Prince.
But her two sisters were willing to take serious steps....
In one profile it says
'Occupation: actress '
(and she is good-looking too) - now, if she *really* wants her prince to take her away to a better life, how can he be sure that she is not exagerating when she declares her love?
(after all, men are so easy to fool, when women say something they want to hear!)
Trust me: Russian women are much more convincing than their western counterparts are. And they often have much more to gain. Though it is an unpopular notion on this board - a prenup IS often a good idea especially if you suddenly find yourself falling for a foreign beauty in days or weeks. And it is ESPECIALLY a good idea if you are fully aware of the fact that a woman of her charms would not look twice at you in the US.
My advice under such conditions is to move on and find one who you are more realistically likely to sustain a relationship with (yeah right...tell the gorgeous woman next to you in bed, who has numerous times professed her love for you - to get dressed and getout. Tell her that you are going after someone much less appealing. Sounds doable to me.) Or get a prenup. You can always sign off on it later.
Now where both people are eintirely honest with each other and neither has a significant reason not to be - I agree that a prenup is a terrible thing. But in these cases - get one.
Jet- As much as I hate to admit it, I am leaning thay way also. As far as the second part of your post, Aren't you the 46 yr old who only dates the beautiful 23 yr old girls from Moldova? I agree in your case that a prenup would be your best bet. It just seems that it would be a very difficult subject to bring up but a necessary one.
no, he's dating 21 y/o's!! You could at least give him some credit eh, and gorgeous they (drool) are!
I agree, a prenup is one's best bed, oops, bet, but for a couple of more reasons. This whole remote-control thing is quite different than next-door dating, and especially the time spent together is less. Therefore one's impression may be less properly founded hence the risk is likely to be bigger, but also add here the cultural differences, language barrier and some lesser things, all contributing to reasons why a prenup is a very viable option if not crucial - especially when you have as much as Brad ;)
Thunder only says what he says becasue he has seen pictures. But I out right DENY that I have dated a beautiful 21 year old. She was twenty. Andf turned 21 three weeks after I left Latvia.
As far as my 23 year old Moldovan (as referenced by Dale E above) I am now engaged to her and she is tickled pink (does that sound dirty?) that I am bringing her over.
Seriously though I have known this lady (and she is a lday in every sense of the world - except officially deemed so by our UK friends) for forteen months now. I have spent five wonderful weeks with her. I cannot wait to make her my wife.
Just spoke to her tonight. My heart is all pitter patter just like a school boy - of 47.
Dale E. and Thunder: You might ask what killed the relationship I had with the twenty year old? She seemed to bawk when she I told her that I had two children ages 20 and 27 that she would officially become the stepmother to. For the record my 20 year old son would have been 8 months YOUNGER than his step mother.
Things had gone better for us since then however.
When I wrote to her recently and told her that I had offically decided to ask the 23 year old (now actually 24) year odl Moldovan over on a fiance visa - she responded thusly: "Oh My God".
Someone please dial 911 and send an ambulance to Madison Indiana, there is a head injury there from me falling off my chair laughing my ass off at this thread!!!!!!!!!!!
Sincerely
Ben Dover
Attorney at Law
For Pre Nuptial agreements
"Merlyn told me once: Never be too disturbed if you don't understand what a woman is thinking. They don't do it often. (He walks again) But what do you do while they're doing it?"
One of my favorite lines from the movie Camelot (it immediately preceded the song "How To Handle a Woman").
Geri,
Why is it that I have more women interested in me than I can handle, not just from FSU but also from latin american countries?
All I do is tell them politely and in detail what I want and expect, with no room for misunderstanding whatsoever.
I also let them know they are free to reject me, as some do, and that they should not deceive themselves into believing they can change, mold or manipulate a man like me.
Your dilemma is like chinese to me.