1. Be very honest, open, optimistic and realistic about who and what you want in a relationship.
2. Be able to be a leader of a family.
3. Be a Man!
4. Be open on "sexual" issues.
5. Be sure you can financially afford to embark upon this process.
6. Be prepared to make a trip.
7. Don't fall in love with a photograph.
8. Verify you are writing to a real woman who is genuinely interested in you.
9. Make sure there are true feelings, chemistry and love between you.
10. If the lady will not give you full contact details, move on.
11. Never send money to someone you've never met.
12. Follow your instincts, particularly when you see Red Flags.
13. Know when to hold and know when to fold.
14. Always have a back up plan.
But, seriously: If I were as rational and as well organised as indicated above, I wouldn't be here.
So, what is the advice for a less than perfect person like myself?
(who contemplates questions for a long time, then makes the wrong decision anyway.)
Then don't swallow... and keep making wrong decisions.
Don't know about you but I'm here to seek to gain from the collective wisdom and experience of others... free to use whatever helps me and ignore what doesn't.
Geri,
Why is the world would any desirable, beautful, educated, honest and available FSU woman be interested in a man who does not have his life order or is not capable of matching QC's basic list of 'DOs/DON'Ts?
Let me remind you of one of my most favorite hedonistic mantras:
"Shit or get off the pot"
Before you throw that in the ladies forum, I would eliminate number 14, they may find that a bit disengenuous. Though keep in the back of your mind I guess. I have no back up plan, I figure if I have done my prudent best I won't need one, then again if it turns the wrong way for me, I will have had an interesting trip. Sometimes the part of going to hell is looking forward to the trip.
Last time, the demand on Slavic Beauty is very growing in Europe and English speaking countries. Men pay attention to beauty and intellect of Slavic Woman more and more and many would like have this Beauty near yourself.
What is enigma of fascination this woman?
As many classic authors wrote: she is clever, beauty, graceful, restrained, modest; “she is goddess in life and priestess in bed; she can stop a horse on jump, she can go in to the burn house…” It’s really like this.
Slavic Woman sweet, kind, sincere, honest; by nature she is mother and good hostess of house, needleworker, clever and visionary. Christian education of this Woman realize in her humble and wise to man (there are many Slavic women prefer family relation: lider-man).
Her womanly, as a rule put in her requirement to be mother (she is very perfect,
affectionate and loving mother), to be keeper of family hearth (she is loyal and leveling wife, who can very skilful care about her family).
She don’t scare any work, and can expert combine it with family responsibilities. As a rule, she is success in all what she do; she can be good specialist in different profiles. But excellent career don’t disturb for Slavic Woman to make cozy and serenity for their loving family.
Slavic Woman very sensitive and emotional. Apply to this woman with respect, tender and love and their return love will be not limited.
This woman take care about yourself so much. As a rule, she so elegant and have a good test in clothes. She is very legible in fashion, things and decorations.
This woman so educated, reading and literate. Wise and clever just underline her beauty. At first time language barrier can be a little problem in your relationship, but it’s just a problem of time and after will be in their place, because Slavic Woman very capable and assiduous. If she will be interested in you, she will overcome all barrier on their way for show and express this feeling for you.
Slavic Woman like a crystal flower. Let’s try don’t break her feelings, which she present to you. Let’s love and spoil her – she deserve it. But, don’t push her never. It’s needn’t encroach on her freedom and close her in “gold cage”, it’s risk to lose her for ever. It’s necessary for her every time, every minute feel your love and trusting, your understanding and care. Remember, that she is fragile and graceful Woman and it’s not acceptable stupidity, banality and rudeness.
She would like find theirs “prince on white hors” in their soulmate, who will be strong, care, independent, with whom she can be like “behind stone wall”. Love and stability – it’s that important, what she would like. It’s not so important for her your account in Bank, your exterior and figure, it’s more important for her your interior quality and characteristics. But, it’s not means that all this characteristics she will not take in attention, when she choose you. She find gallant, educated, special MAN, who will be love her more then life, care about her, with whom she will be calm and reliability; with whom she could be WOMAN with their weakness and shortages.
Don’t try to understand her soul – her feelings and love don’t yield for logic analysis. You don’t find simile her love! And if greed and stinginess can just offend her, that betrayal, stupidity and weakness she will not forgive you never – remember about it!
When you are fall in love with Slavic Woman let’s remember about some secret etiquette rules:
- Opening door and give your hand for lady, who going away from automobile.
- Opening door for lady, when you going to some public place (hotel, restaurant, cinema…) and pass her before you.
- Propose for lady seat down first, accurate moving chair for her (of course, if it’ll be not do administrator of restaurant).
- Don’t present never for lady even quantity of flowers – it’s sign of mourning in Russia. Quantity of flowers 1-20 every time must be odd. After 20, this rule is law, but preferring present odd quantity of flowers – you will never mistake.
- When you propose drinks for lady, don’t beginning do it from vodka (some Slavic women shocked and have a bad reaction on this proposition). In Russia vodka is a drink of men. You can do it just when she ask you about it. It’s better beginning from glass of champagne or wine.
- You will make more effect and gallant, if you will go on your first meeting with Slavic woman with flowers. It’s can be not so expensive flowers, but without fail, it must be fresh.
- If you will go on your first meeting, it will be also gallant from you, because you can fall down woman in stupid situation (as a rule Slavic Woman take care about their exterior and will go to first meeting with man in so elegant dress).
Also, some advices for you:
- don’t scare her your excessive admiration
- don’t tell her about your sexual fantasy in your first letter
- don’t say to her in details about your tragedies in first letter, because you can acquire just a sympathy friend, but not a soulmate.
- Don’t say for her never bad things about your last woman (even it was your exwife and you are separate like enemy) – wise Slavic Woman can think that if you can tell bad things about your last soulmate, that you could say same about her.
- Don’t say her never about your financial problems, especially before your first meeting – it’s just scare her and give her thoughts that you are not stabile.
- Carefully doing presents for her. As a rule, Slavic Woman even don’t have mach money, but very legible in good and rich things. That’s why, if you don’t know her test and not so rich, it’s better make present for her when you will meet and will be together. Such she can chose that one what she like.
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Thank you for your estimate.
"Slavic woman" - it's general immage. Concept "Slavic woman" it's description of type of Slavic women, it is not include women only from FSU, but from Poland, Chech and so on... I mean this kind.
You can write on my priv.e-mail and I'll be glad to help with it.
Very well,, Lata...I'll take 7 of those dream slavic women (one for each day of the week). And please send them with different hair color, lengths and styles but they should all have light color eyes, fair enough?..:)
Seriously now,
That was a somewhat fantasy wishful thinking but nevertheless very detailed description of your opinion of the traditional slavic woman.
I'm sure we all wish to be the type of man to attract, love and be loved by a woman like that.
But in reality it is unrealistic to expect every woman, slavic or otherwise to follow one particular set of guidelines and traditions like the ones describe in your post.
It is still the responsibility of every man to spend enough time to learn the individual character of each woman with whom he may initiate correspondence and friendship.
Dear men,
This "collect image" of Slavic women I made one example of my clients, as I can observe them during several years. And as I know alomost all them myself, I tried and made it with different parts of each women for one image. Of course, for every man is thier own woman, and for every woman is their own man... But, as I am a Russian and as I am a owner of datting agency too, I can say you that all what I wrote on this article, it's near true. Oh, it's true, just every person see in this some thing personal, clossing just for him.
What can I addit?... If you believe in dream, it'll happend at once!!! But, if you always doubt, you can pass and lose your dream and never find some one, whom you seek.
touche!!
Calif people are more than a little bit affectecd by the UNreality of it's #3 industry (Hollywood)
Hence my search elsewhere for a life partner.