Hello all, I am back,... well not really I am in Iraq right now. I had to leave on such a short notice that I did not even have the chance to write my girl and tell her I was going and on top of that could not write her in almost 5 days, then I just waited 5 more for her to write back. Thing is that she asked me if I wanted to take a short break in writing eachother, she loves me though and all and says she will wait patiently for me to see her but is that question meant for me to say yes lets take a break or she really wanting me to say no lets keep talking as much as possible, she says she is worried about my stress here and all and dont want to be a burden which she is actually the opposite of that. Do I give her a break? or if I stop is that actually hurting things?
P.S. go ahead and call me Bastard Kid, or Bastard or Kid. its my military name and what I go by in the field.
I don't think our opinions should matter a great deal on this one. What do you want to do? Then that is the course of action you should pursue. I doubt there is an alterior motive on her part.
ASK her..!! Nobody here has crystal balls to guess what any woman is thinking at any particular time.
(Those who make that claim myst be eunuchs...:)
Who knows...the poor woman may have already changed her mind about her offer to give you a break in communicating and has fallen into a dive spin of depression and hysteria.
Okokokokokok...a bit exaggerated, but you get my meaning.
If her letters do the opposite of what she thinks TELL HER
Good luck
Tough call man, Thats one thats hard to say whether she wants A break or is checking to see how you feel. We are so used to the duplicity of our own women. I would agree, Ask her to be honest and to tell you how she feels, Hopefully she will give you the honest answer.
Good luck bro, keep your head down ~)
Hey Bastard Kid, like the forum dudes said, follow your own heart. If you want to take a break in writing her go ahead. If not, keep corresponding to her. If her letters to you stop, or the content is getting shorter and shorter. She might be tellling you something. As for my situation, there's a few red flags there that I won't get into,(everyone knows my situation) but my cutie is supposedly out of funds to e-mail me until February 5th.....and supposedly she loves me. Do I think she'll write me then, NO! I think these things are tough to decipher, but use your instincts most of all. Think with your mind, don't be ruled by your eyes and heart. Stay safe over there in Iraq! Late, Socalboy
what's so difficult? Geez man, what do you write about if you cannot tell her what you're about, what you feel (e.g. when you write her), what you want or what you want to know?
Suggesting a break, or accepting such is VERY sweet if done due to the proper reasons, but hey, if you don't know what they are you sure as hell ask - surely?
But not here Kiddo, you better ask her. Honsety last longest, and being assertive helps.
Sounds to me you indeed should take a break - and head north :)
Kid, ditto all of the above about asking her directly. Generally a woman who is really interested, she would not ask for a break. I mean she would be at the tip of her toes to know what is happening to you in the war zone right? she should want more frequent letters now right? it's not like you're going on a long vacation in the South Pacific and she's asking you to give her a buzz when you're back in town. You will find more by asking her directly.
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"...Nobody here has crystal balls to guess what any woman is thinking at any particular time.
(Those who make that claim myst be eunuchs...:)
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