I am a hispanic male who recently tried this "meet russian women" deal. I will admit there are many beautiful women out there, but as soon as i mentioned the fact that i have children "living with me" i noticed many of them, or should i say almost all of them, either stopped corresponding, or simply said this would work. Is this a big issue when it comes down to trying to meet foreign ladies???
Or is it maybe that this "meet russian women" deal is just out of my league because i am of Latin decent, my children, or just out of my range.
To close i will express, my children are the most important in my life and will always be. If this is an issue with many women (russian women), maybe a "Rusci lady" is not the way to go.
I hope that you also mentioned the number of children living with you. I have cases when men write in his letters about "children living with me" . And then in a third or second message we find out that there are something like 4 kids ;-)))Sure, it can be a problem
;-)It can also be a problem for 18-25 yo girls who want to have their own kids but not immediately. But in general as far as I know its not a problem for russian women( especially for those who already have their own child) marry somebody who lives with his kids.
To respond to your e-mail, yes i did mention my two young ones. But like i mentioned in my earlier post, for some reason, this news seems to drive them away. I have also been advised by "others", do not mention this (my young ones) in your initial intro when corresponding with russian ladies. Let the lady take interest in me, then let her know later about my "ties". To me Olga, i feel this is not right and my "ties" is a must i need to let known up front. If i want honesty, i need to give honesty as well. In my case, I'm a "package deal" as some would say, and probably am going to be this way for good long while.
Should i just give up on this whole "russian ladies" deal and settle for the "Americanski" woman???
abarraza - I think you should be up front about the kids in the first correspondence. From the wording in your message, I assume that you are in the US. With respect to your hispanic heritage, could it be possible that Russian women don't understand our multicultural heritage here in the US (just think of all the people in the US who don't understand it, then think of a Russian half way around the world)? I'm just thinking, when you tell a RW that you are hispanic, could she misunderstand what that means? Just my honest $.02
I dont think that being hispanic can cause some kind of misunderstanding for RW...and you are quite right-you should ne honest from the very beginning and dont listen to those who advice you not to mention your kids in your initial meaasges.
First of all, "MUCHO RESPECTS AND THANKS U's" to both of you. Honesty should always be top priority with any type of relationship. Thanks for taking the time to read my posts and respond to them as well. I will take your advice and continue to drive on. Good Days to both of ya'll. Take Care
Grab someone older than what you have written to, maybe as Olga said, the young RWs are looking for a life with their own kids rather than someone elses. I am not an expert in this, however, after having viewed at least 8,000 women over the past few years the only RWs I have seen that say they are ok with us having kids are those with kids and are 30 plus.