In the instance where I tend to look at all the topics and not say anything............ I consider that it is important to look at one self in the mirror, naked of course, and ask myself, am I happy with myself? and no matter what the answer is, is an RW going to be any different to a western woman in how she sees me when she sees my beer gut or bald patch on my head? Ok, so we pick a much more beautiful and younger RW over and above a western women because we like to think we are far more acceptable to them than we are with western women. I think we have to work on that beer gut a little bit more, don't you think? Imagine if there was a web site full of us guys and beautiful russian women were going through the pictures? what do you think they see? Personality? No, just a beer gut and bald patch on the head and a brief description of what we do or don't do and what we expect. Don't forget you have to make an impression just like they try on the web. So, don't hand over plastic roses like one whacker did (idiot) have a shave, put on a tie and suck it in!! Then hand over the real ones, makes a better impression.
Hey guys!
dont worry they're after a better future in the west and us guys have got the resources and a lotta dosh,wot a nice combination!
By the way I'm only 29 and have neither Beer belly nor a bald patch,but still like eastern european gals as they're a lot more feminine than the ones we have got over here.
Good luck and stop criticising yourselves YOU HAVE WHAT THEY@RE AFTER and THEY HAVE WOT YOU@RE AFTER>
Have some fun life's too short!
AL
Leeds
UK
monolith - I think you're on to something there. I think part it is that western women have more choices, and that makes a good husband less valuable to the western woman than to a Russian lady. Don't you think?
(Oh no, I sense that Olga is going to jump in here with her usual words of wisdom any minute now!)
In the spirit of Easter I thought I'd Resurrect an old thread, which really did not have much legs the first time. What are our gals looking for in the physical attraction department. I realize that most are seeking for less tangible attributes in us, but yet they do not want 75 year old 400 lbs stinks. I have been told that I am 'handsome' but I am dropping 10 lbs toning a bit and making some wardrobe modifications. I do want to make a good impression when I meet Moldavian Lucy in July. Any thoughts or advise?
Here is a little information I found out from my X and it may or maynot help here. When I brought my girl here to Australia she had a lot of photos of here friends and family. A lot with there boyfriends. She had this photo of here cousin and she was drop dead gorgious but her boyfriend was ordinary as far as looks go. You could tell just from the photo that this girl was awear of her pysical beauty and my girl confirmed my suspicions on that thought. So I asked, if she is so beautiful and she knows it, why does she have this boyfriend. My wife said, yes it is true, this boy is not so handsom, but he is a very good boy. She aslso added this, In Russia girls are averagly mor3e pretty than here in Australia, I agree with that, but she also said that in her opinion Austrlaian men were averagely more handsom than Russian men. That was her opinion. Put this with the fact that Russain men have a bad rep for being good husbands and it puts them in a similar situation to us. What does it mean. Well, do not think that being fat and lazy is O.K. for Russian girls. They like things just like we do. If you want a Russian girl, make an effort in your appearance and watch you manners. Slips in manners are looked apon poorly, even more poorly than by western women. Burbing at the table etc, even by accident will not be laughed of in my experience so go to some effort here people, you are out to impress remember.
I keep getting told I am handsome and they find that a bit of a worry, I have no problem pulling western women, good looks make a russian girl think it is far too easy for the man to be unfaithful, so unless you look disgusting, smell and are seriously overweight, I would not worry
*snif* nope just had shower, could do with losing about 10lbs but nope Im not fat either...... now there is just this ugly mugg I was born with !!! Cant do much about that one sadly !! ;o)))
lol@id, the good thing is, to a degree they don't care what we look like, they are more interested in character, although some care and hygiene wouldn't go amiss, wish I wasn't so shallow.:)
So did I ID, so did I ;o)))) But thankfully it doesnt matter to Russian women, I am clean and take good care of myself, and thats what appeals to them far more, Im also caring, thoughtful, considerate and supportive, thinsg their local choice of men are not :o))
We got enough to fix with, ugly and gullible, don't lets start thinking we are stupid !! Even if members of our family and friends think we are !!! ;o)))
Character is good , of course, but to know this character, you must like human, even a little, how he looking. Different people like different type of human. One like blonds, another - dark-haired. and when somebody talk - it isn’t important absolutely, how you looking , of course, it is craftiness ;)) but who don’t craftiness, even a little ? ;)))))))
I think things are O.K. for me, I have some life achievements that I am proud of which did require a certain amout of intelligence by modern standards (although I will never win a spelling competition) The only people who have ever called me stupid are people that I do not like so I think I am safe.
My charm just needs a little kick start sometimes. One thing I do like about going to Russia/Ukraine, the women seemeasier to approach and you never seem to get that look from them, the one that tells you you are waisting your time before you try. These girls are much more approachable and open I find. Lucky russian males, don't know what they have
Yes they do know what they have mate, but they also know that there are 1000`s of women available, so they abuse the ease with which they can meet as many women as they wish !!!
Thats where we win hands down :o))
We are less used to being so well recieved and dont abuse the good girls who pay us attention ;o))