A little follow up.
Bagira look and learn about American women. I found this female through Friend Finders. At the time I didn't know where exactly things were going to go with Marina. So I kept my options open also March 5th looked soooo far away.
So I found this girl called Susy. Much to my surprise she actually responded. So we went out and had a bottle of wine and I took her home and that was that, nothing happened. I thought we would get together again and I would get regular percy filth. that is what she led me to believe. Then she disappeared. Said she was going to Boca because it was nearer to her new job. Well I am not an idiot I realised what was happening and bailed. I wrote and said basically "What happened?"
Nothing
Then this dropped into my mailbox today.
Not even a 'Dear Steve'
"job is over, have no place to live, no $$, no car, no phone, and ill find out later today if i even have my clothes. right now im in naples, heading back to laud tonite, and then not sure where ill b staying. best way to get a hold of me is here, since i have no phone. wil talk more when i see u.
glad to hear things are ok w/u..........."
Now let me explain this for anyone who doesn't get it. The reason she was on FF was to find a guy to look after her. I was being sized up for wallet proportions. What she didn't realise was that I was sizing her up too. She was cute but I would say at best 5 years older than her photos and she had a common American womans disease called flakeitus. She probably really did get into trouble. Then she started to call on the various men she had come into contact with. They all said piss off until she came to my name again. So she gets somehow, miraculously to a keyboard. Apparently it wasn't possible before. Now I am supposed to say of course Susy come over to my place, you can sleep in my bed, I'll run you around in my car and I'll support you until you get on your feet.
Naturally I would want to give up Marina for her. I am taking bets who thinks I am going to respond ?????
Even money - A snowball's chance in hell.
Odds on - Over my dead body
Outsider - 10 million to one.
Look on this situation from my point of view. She was looking for serious relationships may be marriage. She did not go to bed with you on the first night but get you feel that you are sexually attractive to her. That means that she was wondering if you are suitable for her not only as percy filth but also as a person. She attitude to you seriously and I am sure that if you would get into trouble she would say – “come over to my place”.
You know that she is really in trouble but did not do anything. That is because you attitude to you relationships as “You would get regular percy filth”, she was looking for real relationships even through frienfinder.
Just people expect from other people the same behavior as that they will behave at the same situation. She would help you and expect that you can do the same.
Err no Bagira she is a gold digger. She is looking for a free ride. This is Adult Freind Finders we are talking about. You go there to get laid not find the girl of your dreams. She was looking for a sugar daddy. You really need to come over here girl.
Bag
You are trying to put this in terms of a good FSU woman but I am sorry your points of reference are all skewed. It is different in the west. She probably had, well actually I know, 100's of letters. It took her a month to respond and then she is in trouble. In other words she struck out with the better prospects and landed on me.
I agree with Toad's attitude. I will have a casual relationship with an American woman but that is it. Anyway now it is a mute point. I don't cheat. I didn't on my wife and I won't on my current lady even if she is thousands of miles away.
No Nas I'll give it another shot.
Bagira firstly I live in South Florida not Texas.
"Have checked this site. And you were there! I think that girls can come to this site only by mistake."
No Bagira women go to that site to get laid exactly the same as guys. Many women are not sexually repressed. They enjoy sex just like a good meal or a drink. In fact most of them enjoy it a damn site more than I do once they get the taste.
However these sites are also loaded with women that are looking for someone to land on. Someone to solve all their problems - i.e. financially.
This girl/woman didn't display any honesty in her profile at all. No picture to begin with. You never know who you will meet. I wasn't surprised to find what I did. It is not unusual over here.
An honest woman says in her profile looking for a financially secure man, preferably the business type. Then baby I will rock your world. In other words she wants to be a kept woman, a type of hooker. We all know the score so you pass those by.
Likewise you pretty much know that when they say they are 37 you know they are 45 to 47. It goes with the territory.
When I said you need to come to America it was because there is a lot you need to learn. Women like sex, sites are set up to accomodate that. In America men get taken by women, happens everyday.
Somewhere recently Toad was saying something about scammers that they were babies compared to the west.
You know why? Because every American woman is a scammer, they are trained in it from the time they can stand upright.
Why do you think that this forum exists? Why do you think that all these men are here. Bear in mind no more than a dozen or so post. The rest are watching. Right now as you read this many many men are reading this and agreeing with me.
I respect your viewpoint about sex but I didn't put this post here to try to change your mind I put it here to educate you. This is the American woman - Susy and all her sisters.
I do not think that even 1% of American women wants to be a kept woman. You were just looking at the wrong places like AdultFriendFinfers or may be at 1AM at a Bar.
I think you guys are a little over the top with the American women bashing. There are many good women in the US...sadly, like FSU men they get grabbed up early on. I live in the DC metro area and it is loaded with beautiful women. Sadly, they don't stray far from their age to find men due to the amount of suitors. Once they get to be my age they tend to have divorce baggage and kids. Are the FSU women better looking in general? absolutely. But to say "every American woman is a scammer" is just plain stupid.
I also don't get the beatdown of Bagira. Yes, she has beliefs that are different than most of ours...does that make her a freak? Personally, I think it is great she stands by what she thinks. Sure she is a little naive but it seems to me she is looking for the best in people.
Maybe I am the one that is naive but I just don't get it.
"...I do not think that even 1% of American women wants to be a kept woman. You were just looking at the wrong places like AdultFriendFinfers or may be at 1AM at a Bar..."
Bag,
There are almost two hundred and eight million americans in US, approximately half of them women...
1% of 140,000,000 is 1,400,000 women that you know absolutely nothing about.
Enlighten us, sexless walking wallet seeker, where do you find the wisdom to discuss facts you know nothing about?
Dragon,
Non feminist women who believe, seek and live traditional family roles are an endagered species in US.
What feminism started 30-40 years ago has been magnified, distorted and mutated to obscene proportions by abusive anti-male family legislation inspired by women groups and supported by bleeding heart liberals in power, namely government and media.
The general rule is american women are selfish, spoilt rotten princesses unwilling to give the man in their lives a fair return for what they seek, receive or take by force (legally through the courts, naturally.)
Are there exceptions?
OF COURSE..!!
But even a large percentage among these exceptional women who do believe in traditional non-feminist roles between husband and wife often carry some form of overly religious and/or sexually repressed baggage.
I am a 49 year old man with what I call a varied and multicultural history of dating women from many different countries in the last 34 years since I lost my cherry.
I have seen first hand the differences that have developed in US over the last 26 years...and I don't like it one fucking bit.
Therefore, I swore off domestic women for anything other than casual dating.
And if things work out with Lena after we meet, I won't even go to a movie with them.
The few glorious exceptions to the american rule on women are simply not worth the effort of seeking when so many younger beautiful, educated and willing FSU women are available in eastern europe (my preference based on physical attributes) or other continents.
The one on top? Gosh mate, that is awful, and also nobody can call you a dickhead anymore then. Jeez man, I feel for you, especially because it cannot be plucked anymore, or grow into a magnificent tree.
Lacking cherries I presume your attention has sort-of focussed on lemons these days? The fresh one's I mean, not the canned variaty, but maybe you prefer juice hmm? Whatever keeps you healthy, and keep in mind you need vitamins in Siberia.
Hope you'll only have nice surprises there.