Ok guy as you know Im still all new to this and I am going to need help . I have been talking to a girl in the Ukraine . Looks like I am going to go on July 2 - 16 to be with her . ok She says its going to be hot what kind of things they wear ? I am going to meet her mom and dad so gifts ? Also I need to know the best way for me to get a VISA
and Im sure I will have many more things to ask .
Many thanks
If you read some of the previous posts I am sure you will find some useful tips :)
I have just added some more ideas to the gifts topic.
To help with the visa I think we will have to know where you live... It is not 100% the same in every country... and we are not all americans here... even if some seem to believe that... :)))
Yes I'm sorry just did it and got it (Visa) and yes staying at her flat As for gifts I am asking her what her parents like . some Ideas . and it looks like it will be warm . like say this will be my 1st trip just a little nervous . looks like I'm going July 2 till Jully 16 Thanks from the rookie
I am the one to say sorry actually, I got the visa part of your post backwards.. I thought you needed info about visa to her for an later occation.. I think I need glasses... Any way, you found it, so everything is great :)
Is it your first trip to Ukraine, or your first trip anywhere?
You can save your money and get the Ukrainian Visa like I did from one of their U.S. embassies here in the states. My visa cost $110.00 and got it in about two weeks. You will save about 50-100 bucks if you went with the visa companies. Check the web for Ukrainian Embassy and they have all the info. I was in Ukraine in December to meet my girl and all went well, she should be here in August. Take care.
OK guys . Looks like I made a few ladys mad . I had been writing a few some of the miss Wows also had been writing me . I know you guys say that the age things not
that big of a deal but it is to me I am 38 and try to stay around the 30 something group . Now that I have or should I say found a very good match (I hope) as you know I'm going to the Ukraine in July .I told the other ladys this . Trying not to lead them or nothing serious just trying to get a feel of what they were like never once tried to lead them along . Now I am getting some mail from some very Unhappy women . Did I burn my bridge and why do they get upset when you try to be honest . Are they that emotional ?
Put yourself in their shows? Your intent is not that strong to them if you mention you are seeing others. I don't mean you should lie, but I would understand why some might suddenly give you the cold shoulder.
As I said earlier, some may simply view you as "trying to have a good time".
Now, if you go to a local agency while you are there to meet someone new, you might not have the same issue.
Just remember, they DO want to be the sole source of attention, and understandably so (IMHO).
Yea. You are dammed if Ya do - and dammed if Ya don’t.
I don’t like lying (cause I hate lies myself) but you are probably better not to say anything to others about you having made a solo choice.
I went to Ukraine 2 years ago, was up front with the lady there months before I visited. (that I was intending visiting another lady in Russia) She seemed fine with it but NO. BIG MISTAKE on my part.
I was not prepared to put $15K and 6 weeks and 17,000ks travel all onto 1 potential relationship, so choice 2 (to cover the bases - so to speak) 1st lady was terrific, but she could not let herself open up because of my pending visit after her.
These ladies have HUGE pride. Way bigger than any ladies I have witnessed in the west.
So sometimes it better to shut Ya mouth and say nothing (that not lying is it ?????)
I'm not a fisherman, but as I understand the sport, you cast out several lines and wait for a nibble. When you hook one, you pull the other lines in, so you don't get the lines tangled. I don't see this endeavor as any different.
LMAO,
I can just imagine Valentina bashing your head with her rolling pin for calling her a smelly fish.
NEVER NEVER NEVER give any woman room for that kind of interpretation..;))