I talked ...er...no, let me correct that big time. I showed off to three of my single male friends almost everything that went on when I went to Siberia to meet Lena and her family.
Each one of these bozos has been dating their own loudmouth, ballbreaking american woman for what looks like an eternity and a half.
These men know how long I took to find Lena and how damn picky I was throughout the whole process. While I was at it I endured endless teasing and was given referrals to shrink after shrink to get my head straight or 'with the program'.
Their women hate my guts, of course.
But they all knew somehow I was on to something different and better when I swore off serious relationships to american women.
Now they want in, but they're scared shitless of getting rejected.
"what if the woman I choose in the internet ends up rejecting me?"..."What if I spend the same time, energy and money you did and she changes her mind at the last minute?"
"What if..." "What if..." "What if..."
The whinning made me so sick that I almost bitch slapped every single one of them.
"What if one of these days you end up marrying the ball breaking, loudmouth, selfish, man-eating cow you've been dating for the last five years, uh..?"
They all know our friendship will change drastically in the future once Lena lives here.
"Me Lena outclasses your american wretch of a girlfriend even from 10,000 miles away. Imagine what she'll make them look like when she lives in the same county, area code and Lord forbid, zipcode!!"
Taking in a good percentage of rejections along the process like the one Buran Fan did is the healthiest thing that can happen to our search. It will keep you sharp and on your toes paying attention to what is important.
Use your head when you get rejected, not your heart.
In the well known russian frank and upfront manner, Lena's mother asked me when we went out to dinner after a few days: "Why did you take more than a year to decide to travel to meet Lena?"
The answer came quickly and without hesitation: "I was not being rejected enough by most of the other russian women I was talking to...Too many good women to choose from."
You tell that honest but politically incorrect answer to any potential american mother-in-law and see what happens.
Lena's mother was happy with the answer, she understood and accepted that we chose each other very carefully and only after a long process of building our friendship.
Before I took down my profiles and before I flew to Siberia I did a rough count of how many women I contacted. Of the 400+ initial contacts over the last 18 months, I got rejected around 150, roughly 40% of the times some of these ladies would say 'NO'...or worse..:)
So go out there and have fun getting rejected...:))
Tell your friends the biggest problem will be who to select from of those who do not reject them!
I dont agree with your process toad and I hope you tell your friends to take a trip before going through all that so they can SEE for themselves what its like... I dont know about Russia but every guy here thats been agree's about the Ukraine and how... Um.. much attention you get there.
Have your friends come read this board... In fact here is a direct message for them
Get away from those cows.... Get your asses over there and see! Its insane.. the class beauty intelligence and OMFG consideration!!!! yes I know its been a long time since you heard that word so I will say it again.. Consideration of these women makes even the prettiest american girl look like a cow.
Goodluck guys... Maybe you will find that one in a million american girl... or maybe youll get smart and pick one of the millions of FSU girls.
Free,
I did it myyyyyy waaaayyyyyy because it suited me best.
It worked out for me, although like I said before I could have just as easily ended up with egg all over my face for spending so much time before actually going.
Every man must choose for himself how to go about it once they decide american or other western women are not for them.
The three guys I talked about are cowards, plain and simple. Two of them have visited the forum already,
Both need to find other computers
outside their home because their american women have them so intimidated that they are afraid she'll find out they been looking at sites like this.
When I think about their situation I have a hard time justifying any honest, attractive FSU woman deserving such wimps.
first there's WinXP which allows different accounts running on the same PC, protected by password. If your friends make themselves the administrator one needs to get really a bit clever to get 'into' their account. And no, non-administrators cannot install programs like spyware, just in case.
Secondly there's WindowWasher, a program available (cracked, free on fosi.ru) that allows you to erase any traces of where you have been surfing, a thing MS does NOT allow at all. After a session of surfing simply run this, and not even the KGB can find where you've been.
Ergo, with a bit of computer-literacy they can surf wherever they like at their own home, and I'd do it whilst living with an FBI-agent.
Then again, someone not willing to learn new things in your opinion does not deserve the chance to see for themselves? Interesting, you called them friends above - just acquintances maybe?
Wow ... They dont have the nerve to tell the women to stay the hell off theyre computers?
Tell them this... if they tell the woman straight up I am checking out these babes if you dont like it take a hike... will only make theyre own women hot for them..... because nothing turns an american woman on like contempt, arrogance and rejection.
I didnt say your method was wrong toad.. I just would not use it... err again ~)) I wrote for 3 months and had I banked on her I would have been one bored mad guy ~))
After my trip I would tell any decent guy to go check the place out... As long as your not expecting fast sex rigth away youll meet some nice girls.. I personally wouldnt want a girl that jumped right into the sack with me. They have em but beware of those ~))
this maybe is something for you? You've mentioned that when she's here (ok, there :) you'll leave this forum. If you're afraid that she'll find whatever you think you hide on your PC then the above 'washer'-program would be ideal to re-start with a virgin machine, promise. It will erase any link where you've been in the past, a thing your PC 'remebers' courtesy of MS.
Mind you, if set properly it'll clean the lot, favourites & all, so the stuff you'd like to keep you better write down before you start it.
And no, it will NOT clean up your mailclient per default, this you'll have to do yourself - but is easy and quick.
I'm, sure the omniversal 'jealousy' is a much more powerful motivator? I'd leave the traces there, for the world to see, just let them make their own interpretations.
Then again, such would also be more honest, not so? They live with these women hence trust them, and a bit of opneness won't harm if you ask me.
TD,
These guys are good friends. They certainly do not think like I do, but they're all good people. We fish together, two of them are colleagues and we all have kids who grew up around the same time or went to school together.
When it comes to the women in their lives, these guys are conditioned to take their ration of feminist, anti-male castrating shit like a man ...er ....american man, that is.
All three are divorced, got fleeced at one time or another and now have american girlfriends who keep pressuring them into marriage. Their lives have quite a few parallels among them, that's why I brought them together to show them what I found in Siberia..:))
I owed it to them as payback for all the Bs I dealt with during the process.
The seed is planted.
I know they went home and looked at their american women with new questions like "why do I have to put up with this attitude" "What do I have to lose?", etc etc etc...
I do not want to tell them what or how to do anything.
But I sure enjoyed rubbing it all over their castrated faces....neener neener neener :))
Just tell them to drop the old women before they start something new... It is not nice to go for a search if you are in a relationship... I just hate people that treat others like that.. It is not nice at all!!! If they are cows, fat, ugly or bitchy.. it does not matter, they don't deserve to be treated like that... If people do like I say, they don't have to hide any computer or be scared to be taken in the act... Just my opinion...
If I was a woman I am sure we could have had a great time.. LOL..
On the other hand.. If I was a woman I don't think I would have found time to be with any one.. I would have been too busy touching myself... LOL
Free,
what you wrote a few posts ago is one of my mantras..:))
"tell the woman straight up I am checking out these babes if you dont like it take a hike... will only make theyre own women hot for them..... because nothing turns an american woman on like contempt, arrogance and rejection"
I works.
I have to stop bragging so much about Lena with my friends because now women I have not seen or heard of in a long time, and some I have never met are coming out of the woodworks to face what they call "The Siberian Challenge"
Each and everyone of them is sooooo outclassed when I think of Lena that if they have one moment of honest self evaluation they'd have no choice but to commit suicide the american way....(go to an all you cn eat buffett..:))
Today I decided that I will never help another sorry assed American who whines about not being able to find a "nice girl". Words fail me. You offer a sensible solution and he makes all kinds of interested noises then decides that he isn't bothered. BUT STILL WHINES. I'm done put a fork in me. I will never attempt to help another one of these losers again.
I will take care of me and that is it. Thousands of beautiful women out there and these twits can't even be bothered to make an effort.
I say good more for me :))))
LMAO...no, not more for you. You can have only one!!!..:))
But it is true...american men who put up with this bitches only have themselves to blame for it.
for a fraction of what it costs to find, court, marry and maintain any of these american negative cashflow cows any man can find, develop and enjoy a much better married life with a foreign woman.
My ex finds out her husband is losing her job... SO she writes me a letter saying how much she has missed me all these years..... She even goes as far to say that she knows she can have me because she is so good in bed blah blah.
Now... Im thinking.... Here I am 37 years old and still fit, I have a good job and the child I had with her is allmost 18. She is 2 years younger and has succumbed to cowification and is by no means attractive to me at all. She doesnt work.
Now I am dating this woman that is close to my age, her body looks like a 18 year olds... She has a masters degree, She has no children, She has probably been the most considerate woman to me I have ever met. She never asked me for anything never hinted and if I give her something she allmost cries over it because she is not used to being treated that way. We have even had disagreements.. and dont fall out of your chairs... but she did not insist on having her way.. She actually compromised! Holy $##%! I wont even use a real swear word in connection with her.. She just has to much class.
How in the hell am I suppossed to look at my ex and not fall on the floor laughing... The ones I rejected had 10 times more to offer.. Hell I feel bad about having to reject them but chemistry is what it is.
and my ex, Who the hell does she think she is? Do they all think that way? Man someone shoot me if I step into that no reward money pit again.. PLEASE!
Nor,
Frankly I do not care whether these men start their search while they're still boinking their american cows...not my problem. And by the way those 3 women have acted towards me when they learnt what I planned to do 18 months ago, I'd say a good cheating will serve them well.
Two of them are "large and in charge", the third is cutie, physically a knock out, former miss colorado or montana, therefore she does not work, sit all day when she's not shopping with his money, playing tennis with her girlfriends or making her favorite dinner dish
...reservations.
i agree with the toad who needs these american whiny a** women who think their sh*t dont stink. maybe if more men went to russia or th ukraine maybe the women in this country would get a clue. nah never happen.