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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Adoption Author Post izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/27/2005 7:33:18 AM   What makes you think I am still jetlagged?? Because I am up extra early on a Sunday morning making posts to this forum?? Yes! I need coffee then I am going to open another can of worms. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/27/2005 8:07:57 AM   Another, in fact the 1st, 'discussion' that I had over there was about chidren essentially. I am not going to go into details but once again my mind was changed by some clear thinking that I needed to hear. I would like to have a child of my own in particular a son. To cut a long story short we talked about the possibilities. Adoption came up and I was reminded of Toads cut and dried response to this on the plane. Adopt he said!! Just like that plain and simple. God moves things in mysterious ways, I firmly believe this. My job is to listen and not offer too much resistance. While I was there I saw on television a program about the conditions in Russian orphanages. There were a bunch of unmarked graves where 12 of these little guys were buried. It was an investigative reporting kind of program. Bottom line is that there are any number of these poor kids that are treated pretty piss poorly by the state run institutions. I was very moved. I come back to America and discovered much to my surprise that my company will underwrite expenses to the tune of $8,000 !! Also there is a $10,000 tax break. Now I have to find a way to bring this subject up with Marina again. It is dificult. I feel it is something that should be addressed and addressed now. Little tricky though. Not to worry I'll figure it out :)))) GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/27/2005 1:01:24 PM   After reading about Marina's resistance to new pregnacies at her "advanced" age, I also thoguht about we talked about on the plane. There is never one way of doing the 'kid thing' that works perfectly for everyone, but adopting does sound like a solution that could satisfy everyone's needs and concerns. Heck you would even eliminate the odd of Marina having another girl. toad izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/27/2005 2:30:19 PM   Exactly. She suggested a surrogate mother deadly seriously. She said it is no problem at all. Actually I don't think that she would have that many problems but why risk it? This way you save a kid from a pretty bad start in life or even death, avoid a pregnancy and all that entails and the insanity of the first few years. Plus the Russian roulette aspect is totally removed. Also because of my 'advanced age' I get a leg up on the process. 70 years old with a 17 year old running around might not be too good. 70 with a 25 year old not so bad. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/28/2005 6:12:25 PM   Does anybody have any information on this topic? GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/28/2005 6:23:16 PM   LOL, yes, talk to my father in LA...he just turned 79, he has a 27 year old son, my half brother Michael...He can tell you all about being to old to deal with a teenager..:)) toad izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/28/2005 6:43:12 PM   Actually I wasn't referring to that but I'll bite. How is the old fellah? Does he regeret having a son late in life? I bet he wouldn't swap it for the world. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/28/2005 6:44:25 PM   I am thinking the answer is a wife who is 12 years younger:))) GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/28/2005 7:02:05 PM   he's happy...the brat survived his teen years and college life with 2 DUIs. Now he's married to a good woman. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/29/2005 4:40:12 PM   You see! All is well that ends well. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/29/2005 4:40:58 PM   I have a question doesn't DUI mean drinking while under the influence? N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/29/2005 5:59:55 PM   Izi... I believe you ment Driving under influence... not drinking?? Check this movieclip from USA, it is the best ever DUI arrest done in history!!!! http://www.big-boys.com/articles/topdui.html This is just hilarious!! GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/29/2005 7:38:55 PM   DUI = Driving Under the Influence could be booze, drugs...even prescription medication. One of my friends got busted for driving under the influence of Nyquil. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/29/2005 10:32:01 PM   people I know exactly what I said!! Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Adoption
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