With spring finally here, surely there are some men who are about to make the trip abroad. I know that if I hadn't went a couple of months ago, I'd be leaving very soon. Is there anyone leaving soon ? Who, what, where, and why!
I remember reading your stories long ago WT. You are the business man who frequents Moldova but would never try to find a woman from there. All I can say is you are either blind or have been castrated. :o)
I am going to Kiev to my one and only lady. We have an apartment arranged away from where she usually lives with her mother and teenage daughter ($300 per month) and then we are going to tour the Crimea - Yalta region for 2 -3 weeks.
I am going back to Moldova in July. Jenia also wants to head down to Crimea Region and spend a week at the Black Sea. She vacations there every year. She said she rents out a cottage that is nestled in the mountains with a view of the sea. The way I understand, it is a BIG European tourist attraction. (Eastern and Western Europe)
Well, be sure, that I have a lot of fun and entertainment during my time in Moldova. Eyes are wide open and I proof not to be castrated :-)
Also I should add, that I am in an close relationship with a woman here in my country since couple of month. The lady is originally from eastern europe, but living already for several years here in the west. So I can be sure, that not even a 1% of interest of escaping the FSU and having a german passport is the reason for her to fall in love with me......:-)
But serious: yes, I confirm, that I would not try to find my soulmate IN those countries. If the ladies are some years here in the west, they very often turn to be other. Believe me, that I know enough of such cases.
I am not ignorant to the fact the I can be used by a woman. I am doing my best to avoid that though and still realize the possibility is always there. I believe 100% that Jenia is honest. Could I be wrong ? Sure! I will say that before I wrote to her, She had already had a man from Florida come to see her and she didn't leave with him. So she is picky (a little, not much). Also her brother has been living in your country (Germany) for 14 yrs now and she stays with his family and her best friend there for most of the summer alot. She likes Germany very much. Jenia is fluent in German and I am sure if she was desperate, she is smart enough to have already found a way out of there (Moldova). But you see, She also loves her job (English teacher) and Moldova very much. She would probably like it the best if I moved there. That's not going to happen though. There are still good people in bad countries. Glad to hear you have found yourself a woman. It is strange for me hear from you that she is eastern european as I think I remember in a post long ago you said that you would avoid those types. If she is a good woman from FSU, maybe there are some more good women there? You think? :o)
I agree with you. If she really was several times here in Germany for sure she could have used the time to find a soulmate there. So I think you made a good decision.
To avoid a misunderstanding: of course there are lots of good people in eastern europe, same as in all other countries all over the world. And I can say, that I have several good and close friends there.
The problematic thing is only, that the gents here learn their soulmates in the athmosphere and life of the countries of FSU. This past life influenced the ladies to be how they are. The athmosphere and life in western countries later give a big input and change on them. It is important, that they do not change their basic habit and character.