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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > High maintenance or not...? Author Post N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 7:13:29 PM   High maintenance women are like high maintenance sports cars. They're lots of fun when you're out on the town together, but for every hour of showing off, there are another 10 spent on upkeep and repair behind the scenes. After hours of polishing the headlights in your garage, you might ask yourself -- is this really worth it, just for a couple of rides? Probably not.. But in some cases.. well... Could be.. Broadly defined, high maintenance women are those who need many things (money, material goods, affection) to be happy. These women love dressing up whenever possible, and are obsessed with all aspects of their personal appearance and grooming in general. This almost obsessive attention to detail usually extends beyond their person, to their homes or apartments, their pets, and yes, even their men. In addition, they tend to be perfectionists, overachievers, self-centered, and a bit vain. SHE'S UNFAIR She asks you to drive her somewhere, and you get yelled at for being stuck in traffic. You go for a walk, and she gets peeved because it starts to rain. You stop by to surprise her with pizza, but she blasts you for not getting something else. SHE HAS IRRATIONAL DEMANDS She is used to drinking watered down cocktails when she's drinking on her tab, but when Daddy Warbucks comes knocking, it's Dom Perignon time. SHE DOESN*T KNOW THE DEFINITION OF SACRIFICE Relationships are meant to be about compromise, but she is more about selfishness. You bend and adapt to her needs, yet all she gives you are ultimatums. SHE'S DIFFICULT TO PLEASE No matter what you do or say, she will want something else. No matter how much you try to please her, you will always fall short. She has never cracked a smile and has a tendency to rain on your parade. SHE NEEDS TO BE IN CONTROL Being high maintenance comes down to being in charge and running the show. They need to feel that it is their call; their way or the highway. My advise is that you show them otherwise or gets the hell out before it is too late... For a certain type of man, high maintenance women are well worth the time and effort of wooing and winning. If the above caused a tingle in your spine - of fear, that is, not desire -- then you're not one of them. Cut and run because, at the end of the day, if the woman in your life is more of a bummer than a booster, she's just not worth it. No matter how fine she looks in her Manolo Blahniks. It is just a matter of being seleective, and don't be fooled by the great looks.. Because these kind of women is all over the world.. Even in FSU... UNFORTUNATELY.. izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 8:26:17 PM   Elements of my ex in there!! izifaddag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 8:26:34 PM   Except without the good looks. Maxirat Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 9:32:47 PM   izi how long to you put up with her before you, went for the Saturday paper and didn't return ??? Life’s to short to put up with misery or stress from those highly strung expensive models. Maxirat Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 9:33:02 PM   izi how long did you put up with her before you, went for the Saturday paper and didn't return ??? Life’s to short to put up with misery or stress from those highly strung expensive models. Maxirat Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 9:33:48 PM   Dam I hate wasting all that ink !!!!!!!!! GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 9:52:13 PM   Nor, "NO tiene la culpa el chancho, sino el que le da de comer" It's not the pig's fault that it is a messy pig, but the one who feeds. Even though you're right that these type of women can be found everywhere, no place has so many UNqualified ones as the good old US of A. America has become a nation of pussified castrated stepped on wimps who not only endure, but also seek and submit to these type of women. Those of us who seek greener pastures elsewhere, and often find them, know this is how things are. I dare even the last woman on earth to give me an ultimatum. 1988 dialogue: Ex-wife: "...Asshole, give me what I want or I'll cut you off from sex for a month." Toad: "Dear future ex-wife, you cannot cut me off from sex, because you simply do not know where or who I get from...do you need help packing your bags?" toad Maxirat Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 10:17:33 PM   How about this (total opposite to above) My Ex wife took me to the Airport and picked me up a month later, on both my past trips to Russia. I hate enemies. I have a good rapport with all my ex’s !!!! N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2005 11:04:09 PM   Maxi, May be she does it to keep an eye on you?? May be she is that nice just to get some information?? May be that is her way to control you, without you even have a clue about it...?? Hmmm.. I bet that was something to think about.. Toad, Yes, I think you are right. Rotten apples can be found anywhere.. But there are a lot more of them in the western world.. No doubt about it.. Maxirat Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 12:27:29 AM   N()R My Ex wife nothing like that, quite the opposite actually. We are good friends, really that’s it in a nutshell. She wants me to be happy as I her. We still have respect for each other. It always amazes me how 2 people can be in love for years and then end up hating each other guts. I did have a good Western Wife, but stuffed it up myself years ago. Did damage that was non repairable Move on and enjoy life. You are a long time starring at the Lid, so don’t waste time bitching, I say !! Plus FSU ladies are far better in the Sac !!!!!!!! :-) N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 7:15:14 AM   Maxi, I have read your post over and over again... I haven't figured out yet if it is me you think are bitching or not... Anyway, I am happy for you to have such relationship with your ex. To tell you the truth I also have no enemies in my old GF's. There were some surcumstances around my ex-wife that made it difficult for us to be friends for a year or so, but now we are back to being friends and we are working together when it comes to children. I was over there last night on a BBQ, and we had a great time together. But it isn't like it used to be... idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 7:16:02 AM   well well. I will have to disagree wuth some points NOR. The bit about there attention to detail extending beyond there person. NO NO, it may be true in some cases by i would not say it is in the majority. And as for US having most of these women I ask you to compare this. Go and look at FSU dating sites and see when asked about themselfs how many girls here simply write that they are pretty. Like I cannot see what she looks like from her photos. Go and look on a westen dating site and see if even 1 girl says this. To be truthful many girls here are unrealistic, But I do beleave its worth sorting though them as there are also many gold nuggetes to be found N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 7:26:15 AM   I haven't mentioned US with a single word..... But I understand what you mean. When I was writing that I was thinking more about the bitching around, difficult to please and not knowing what sacrifies is part... I have noticed them telling how pretty they are, and you are perfectly right. I think that line is written there for people like Stevie Wonder... :))) idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 7:29:20 AM   that was also in reply to taod saying that the us has most of these girls Maxirat Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 5:21:30 PM   N()R I meant Ex’s bitching about their past partners. Not you at all. You sound similar to me actually. No point in making more enemies than needed, is there. It takes one of the partners to let go and not turn it into a shit fight. I cant see any point in holding onto bad memories or keeping a wound festering !!! N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2005 7:02:18 PM   I see :))) I agree with you Maxi :) GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/27/2005 12:47:38 PM   The sooner we reach the point when only good memories remains from past relationships the sooner we can call ourselves "healed". None of my ex wives (2) will ever heal. They both check the obituaries daily on the newspaper hoping to see my name there Some of my ex-GFs are great friends today and loyal supporters for what I'm doing. And if someone does you wrong, the best revenge is living well...For some reason it drives them up the wall!! toad N()R Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/27/2005 7:22:24 PM   Toad, that is just so well said!!!! To live like nothing ever happened, have fun, travel some and really show you are having a good time is getting to their nerves!!! GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/28/2005 8:29:56 AM   Nor, "Living well" is one of the basic hedonistic mantras to which I subscribe faithfully. I just wish it did not drive my exes up the wall they way it does...(well, maybe a little) toad geriatrix Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/8/2005 11:04:48 PM   High maintenance or not...? All women are 'high maintenance' you need to give them useless things from time to time... (flowers, chocolate, etc. [you cannot eat flowers, chocolate makes you fat]) but some are 'higher maintenance' than others. (diamonds are also useless and they are very expensive too). Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > High maintenance or not...?
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