Well, I have been talking to my girl for about 8 months now, and im about to go one a 7 month deployment onboard an aircraft carrier in August, and still wont be able to see her,...sucks.!!! Just wanting to know if any body has a few secrets on getting super cheap flights and visas. Well, I can take care of the Visa, but any tips on a cheap flight. I was fortunate to meet her on one of those free sites, and fortunate to find out that she is real, and in 8 months I never sent her a thing yet she already sent me two packages, mine that got sent to her was lost in limbo somewhere. Shes a great girl.
>>>Has anybody here ever wait over a year to meet there girls???? If so how did it turnt out.
Hey you Bastard!
Welcome back. There have been plenty of people who have written girls for over a year before seeing them. I think Toad is one of them. He is on his way to getting married now. If she is an understanding woman, she will understand your situation. You will know her much better when you finally go to see her
Dale is completely right. many people write for ages before they meet, some successful, some not.. But success or not have nothing to do with the time I guess...
Yeah,, Im just hoping that I dont know so well as there is nothing to talk about when I meet her. Its funny though how I signed up for this sight and meet her at a free dating website, and have it turn out she is for real. Good thing about going after my deployment on the ship is that I'll have more than enough money saved up to go there, get her here, marry and go on a honeymoon to the Virgin Island, that is if she is still with me in 9 months. She is still human.
Here is a man with a plan! Already has the honeymoon spot picked out. Anyhow, I always thought that humans always made the best dates. But i can say that "aliens" are out of this world.
I met Lena early march of this year, after writing, chatting and talking to her since 8/03.
We're engaged to be hitched later this year and we're processing her fiance visa.
Unlike most other men here I took my sweet time to get to know several of the ladies I thought were for real and late last year I finally admitted she was the best a toad like me could ever find.
Izi met her. A few others know what she looks like. And I've posted unsufferably long threads about her, us and how my life has changed for the better because of her.
Make sure you do your best to follow your plans while you keep an open mind for sudden changes or current and winds, mate...Nothing wrong with a little adjustment here and there as you go along.
I tried to talk to others but when she suspected that we were she told me that she heard that people do that but it disgusted her, and she could only talk to one person at a time, so its just been me and her, I reactivated my account on the free website that I met her, I couldnt write her for a few days so she went on and found out and she flipped out. I finally found a phone card that lets me talk to her for about 3 hours for only $5. Her mom picks up a lot and I have a hard time understanding her when she tells me that Elena's not home. Hmm, Lena >>Elena, ha.!!! she doesnt live in Yoshkar-Ola does she?? just kidding.
Bastard you have returned. I hope you are keeping safe. Use Blackstone cards, you will do much better than 3 hours for $5, they are cheap. If you like her then just talk to her. I did. I find it hard to communicate to half a dozen beauties at once. I tried it but it isn't in my nature. I wrote about 25 emails out last November 9/10th. Marina replied the next day and it was easy to narrow it down. Been at this ever since. Had some bad hiccups but everything is better than ever.
As for cheap flights good luck. The price of fuel has gone up, half the plane companies are on their uppers and nobody is giving anybody a break. My ticket went up $300. Instead of NOR's Kayak I would go to One Travel. Kayak is going to direct you there anyway.
Bastard,
Let me clarify something...I did not talk to any of those ladies, including Lena, about marriage and honeymoon in the virgin islands while I was corresponding with them.
I didn't even let my heart go wacko until I met her and spent time with her in Siberia.
So telling each and every one of those ladies that I was talking to others was the most reasonable and honest thing..."How can I know you're the best woman for me that I can find if I do not have anyone to compare?...And yes, you should do the same, even if it means you may choose someone else eventually"
I have talked to women who asked the same thing as your Elena did, and I politely but firmly told them "NO, I will do things my way...We're not in love with each other, we have not met or had sex so we're not responsible for each other yet"
I liked whatever little I knew about them, and I wanted to know more, but I did not feel in any way shape or form obligated to such exclusivity.
No way Jose...!!
That level of committment is for the one I eventually chose.
If you are already committed to your Elena, what the hell are you doing keeping your profile up?
And if you have not met her yet, what the hell are you doing letting your heart get you all fubar over her?
I keep my profile up to talk to friends of mine there that prefer to use that site because you can see the picture of the one your talking to. Elena let me keep the profile of course, but to change the profile to say I was already taken :-). I havnt met her yet and of course I dont have the head over heels thing yet, how can I? I never met her and it could be that it will not work. But if it doesnt I and I spent so much time, I can always find another. When I get back off my 7 month deployent costs should be to important, I was just hoping to find something cheap so I can see her before I go. From what I have from her she is dead serious and faithful even with someone she has not met but has intentions to.
I am just and honest person that respects others feelings, if she is the one, and i slept around, I marry her I dont want a guilt trip knowing that after all those close letters I was going off and sleeping around on you, just because I wasnt 100% positive you were the one.
Why don't you install msn messenger 7.0, Yahoo messenger, aol messenger or ICQ? I prefer msn, but that is something that is individual for each and one of us. In msn you can show whatever picture you like, from work, your house, the cat, your child or whatever you like to show the one you are talking to. There are also many other great features like easy to send files (pictures/documents/mp3 and more). Webcam features, sound (talk like on the phone through a headset or something) and much more. You can also talk with several people at the same time if many of your friends are online at the same time.
I love that MSN. I only used it once with a Russian girl, she actually had a webcam and I could see her. Little different from her pictures but still very attractive.
Yes, I also love it. To sit and chat with your friends is quite nice, cheap and make you get to know one another faster than waiting for those wonderful letters. Me and my friends often have chats in msn. My friends can see when I am online and not, and I can also choose wheter to let them see that information or not.
If some of you like to talk more, you are welcome to add me to your list. Just click: add a friend, and write my emailadress, remember to take away one of the 6's... it should be 67 not 667.
I would recommend to download the latest version 7.0.