There's something that has always puzzled me about the opposite sex: Why do women who are happy and deeply in love with their partners stir things up and start arguments for no rational reason?
I think you know what I'm talking about. It's that thing they do where everything is hunky dorey and suddenly, out of left field, they come up with some confrontational conversation that starts off with words like; "Honey, why don't you ever...?" or "You always..." or "Why can't you...?"
Is there something built into the female psyche that compels women to push, test and challenge their men? Why do women unnecessarily and irrationally create conflict, even when they're in happy, otherwise successful relationships?
Ok, I know men and women are different, but this is one of the biggest differences between us I think. Why is it like this? Anyone?
NOR. There is such a word - transcendential. Things that can not be understood by common sense or logics. They can only be seen and believed. I work with dozens women and I gave up to understand the particular thing you have mentioned.
It seems that that the better life is the more they want to find problems!:-) My ex was te most faithful and supportive person for me when life was hard as soon as everything became above average she fled! Luckily it was for the best but I have been trying to analyze this for a year and finally surrendered in front of the mystic women's soul!
Women? It is genetics and chemistry, which of neither I have a degree in or experience. So I learned a long time ago not to worry why they do the things they do. I look at it as a dog chasing it's tail, doesn't make a whole lot of sense to figure out why. It is what it is.