" Why are nearly all women in the western world over 30-35 divorced with 3 kids??"
In Norway (and USA) those women are (most often) not looking for a husband.
Perhaps:
1)The welfare state is a better provider. (?)
2) They are happy with a household without a man (?).
3) Russian women are more optimistic ("not all men are bad"?) (?)
Russian style: My next husband should be non-Russian
you say this like it is a better way of thinking. In truth i think these girls are of the thinking that Russian men are the problem when maybe there atitude is the problem. When I asked why my wife did not want to marry a russian again, with her limited english she tried to tell me but in her frustration with the language she said "F%@K russian men". But after time I relised that what she realy meant even though she did not know it was F%@K men they are all stupid. Not to put them all in the same bag, but try carfully to understand what happened in there last relationship as maybe the man was not realy the problem. I have met a lot of Russian men who i thought were very decent indeed.
Why do Russian woman looking for a foreigner? From my point of view they are just looking for men who want to have a family. You said that American women with 3 kids do not looking for family. May be the same with the most men as in Russia as in America.
The boy-friend relationship is much more convenient for most people.
That is why actually the only way for Russian woman after 35 to find a man who is really looking for a normal family – to look in International agencies.
The group in which my mother studied at the Institute gathered once....my mother was a single woman who never divorced since getting married when they studied:) Why? because the majority of ex-husbands got fat, interested only in TV and football, so the women were looking for somebody better. My mother said: "I am very lucky with my husband" (and me with my dad):))
Nothing - he is alive - I think I did not any harm for him and he will not be angry for all women on the world. May be.
Do not date bitter women - they are dangerous Ice Queen. And the best place for the second date is 3D IMAX movie. Even if she will not like you she will enjoy excellent film.
3D films are excellent. I felt that I could touch that shark. It seams that it swims just near my knee. And IMAX movie is absolutely amazing. You do not see bottom of the screen and that is why you feel that all on the screen is absolutely real.
Я прсто пищу от восторга. And no man can spoil that impression.
I think get fat, interested only in TV and football is not the reason for divorce.
Most of my friends are happy married for 10 - 20 years.
Only one had divorced then she was pregnant and her husband cheeted on her. She married again and happily but I think rare man can accept a step daughter as his own child. Her daughter ran away from home by marriage as soon as she became 18.
Pitchka and Bagira,
I dont know how to spell this word properly in Ukrainian but my friend Oksana`s mother in Kyiv said i was a " bachula " . Which translates as it is much easier for me to grow old and die than to be married. They thought this because i am 45 and never married. Sort of like a woman who has never married in the Ukraine is known as a "blue stocking" she said. Maybe i should rename myself!!!! LOL
Here`s the age-old question every American man has probably pondered and surely spoken---why is it when you are in a relationship women virtually throw themselves at you ? Even without a ring ! And why if you are a "bachula" does it seem like you can`t get no satisfaction even if you are willing to pay for it ? It is like women are unaware of your existence !
To re-phrase the question above:
Why is it (if it is...) that American women after a divorce say "Never again" while Russian say "I'm willing to try again..."
???
because Russian women think that there is some better alternative to the men they know, where western women know how useless and demanding they are so they do not want to do it again with anyone. Or maybe they will turn gay
ID,
I disagree.
It is common practice among divorcing american women to go to the gym to lose their fat, the cosmetic surgeon to turn back the body clock and the clothing store to complete the hew look only AFTER they end their marriage and take as much as they can from their husbands.
The purpose is to attract the next victim to pay her bills and provide a better lifestyle for her and her children.
These materialistically motivated 'newborn virgins' are all over the place, in every state, every city and small town.
And it is this type of woman that american men are scaping from in hordes.
Falsely entitled and plastic minded, these group of women develop a deep resentment towards their country men's search of women for love and marriage in other countries.
Their poor education level prevents them from accepting the basic fact that the competition is not only real in the quest to attract a good man. It is also far more qualified than they are.