there are two types of ladies. independant and with agency . independant girls put their profiles by themselves. agency girls are registered by local dating agencies. fiance.com profiles are not exclusive. it means that girl can put her profile at fiance.com and at any other website at the same time. independant girls usually post their profiles at several websites to get more replies from men. same with agencies. some agencies have their own websites. usually they put girls profiles both at fiance.com and at their own website.
SO,this means the girl lady of my affections did not necessarily subscribe to this site after telling me that she stopped speaking to the Aussie,and that I am the only one whom she is interested in. I have had dread experiences with this before,and I only get better with practice. I am hoping my imagination is bigger than reality. Thank you,Nadya. I do appreciate your answer,and taking the time to address it. Blaine
if she is posted at fiance.com look at the date of her registration on the top part of her profile. if you a VIP member you will be able to see it at her stat. you also will be able to determine how active she is by number of letters written to her. you may see it in her stat.
Spirittraveller..what girl stopped speaking to the Aussie.
Its not a girl named Elena by chance from Kiev, age 25.
Am I the Aussie you refer to that this girl stopped speaking too.
If it is Elena, she has not spoken to me since Janaury 15th 2005.
Im curious?
If it is this girl, she is very active on other sites outside of here and I know her address was sold 14 times on WDN sites (Angelika net, blondevenus, bluesapphires and about 6o others )..one was sold only 2 days ago!
Don't kid yourself, spirittraveller..these girls have to write to more than one man to maximise there chances of a meeting..it is the norm..you are not her one and only..they will say that to keep you on the side but they will not put all there eggs in one basket.
Women are the masters of liars and sweet talk..they will say the things to you, you want to hear and truth plays no part in it.
Elena can write to a 100 men..she is free to do it and I wish it luck and hope that it is honest!
I think Spirit is well aware of that, Maybe she dont speak to you
because you have no sense of humor.
Why are you keeping her stats Creepy
Then wishing her the best of luck
Elena can write to a 100 men..she is free to do it and I wish it luck and hope that it is honest!
Okay-I did get a bit excited because the woman who assured me she writes to nobody else is now in fiance.com I was a little miffed,but you know what? She was looking before I came along,and whatever agency she was affiliated with must have sent her info here. Being angry is not my demeanor,so it only lasted one day. It is Ella,not Elena,she is from Almaty, and almost 30 years old,and if she entertains many men,so be it. It would ultimately be her loss,not mine. I told her that I belong to this site a month ago,but have not been searching here,only involved in discussion at the forum. I can understand your paranoia,A-man,because often women you engage will just "up and disappear" which means to me that they are letting you down easy,or do not have the heart to reject you with a letter of intention. I have actually let my VIP lapse here,and in my little tiff thought about just paying up the membership to check her stats. But I know that she has a computer at home,unlike what is mentioned here,and I have her e-mail address,home address, home number and cell number at work. I think that if she was not sincere,I would not be privvy to so much personal information. I have also spoken to her babushka and daughter. I do not look for the party girl who thrives on frequent vacations given her from many men,and if I do sniff this out-she will be dropped like a hot potato. By the way-I know that men also play this game of juggling many different women,and being reluctant to defer to only one good woman. I have also done this-but the deeper you get with just one,the less enthusiastic you are about all the rest. People in general are the masters of deceptions-I would never attribute this to any particular woman or man. The lust god makes a liar out of many people. However, I wish you good fortune in finding your oneness with a woman,A-man. Sorry about Elena. I think the odds are definitely stacked against us men--but a slim chance is better than no chance. And like anything you want in life-if you persist--you will succeed. Do not be jaded by failure,or you could be like the miner who gave up pick and shovel when he was only a foot away from the mother lode!!
I also wanted to send public thanks to Nadya for her support and encouragement to me. Thanks Nadya. You did not have to give me your individual attention,but you did,and I sincerely appreciate it!! Blaine
I suppose this site then also should ban idots who go over, admit to being stood up multiple times, then brag to the world they hired a hooker and were utterly satisfied, to such an extent that they don't need a date anymore?
Giving new meaning to 'hard up'. Your prerogative Catskin, but this is the wrong site.
Oh this just keeps getting better!!!
I am so tempted to.. but I won't. :)))
TD
I couldn't agree more with your comment. To go over there strike out, actually hire a hooker and then plaster the fact over the internet is definitely off. This is what gives us all a bad name. that and the drinking >>> :)))
izzi,
It is time for you to re-invent yourself LOL. You are getting your hair back. get yourself a leather jacket and a switchblade and i loan you a Harley !!!!