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izifaddag

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	Send: 6/4/2005 8:19:26 PM

If you saw a situationa where there were 2 profiles of the same woman on the same site and some of the details were different how would you feel? You have spoken to her and she seems very nice and genuine. Would you ask her why her birthday and eye color is different on the 2 profiles directly? Would you just give her up and move on without any further communication? Bearing in mind no serious long term relationship is in place just a couple of instant messages. Or would you just put it to the back of your mind and start ti develop a real relationship? I will explain a few things as I get some input on these questions. I need a second opinion or two.

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/4/2005 8:21:17 PM

One more time without the spelling errors :)) If you saw a situation where there were 2 profiles of the same woman on the same site and some of the details were different how would you feel? You have spoken to her and she seems very nice and genuine. Would you ask her why her birthday and eye color is different on the 2 profiles directly? Would you just give her up and move on without any further communication? Bearing in mind no serious long term relationship is in place just a couple of instant messages. Or would you just put it to the back of your mind and start to develop a real relationship? I will explain a few things as I get some input on these questions. I need a second opinion or two.

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 6/4/2005 8:25:23 PM

YES, NEVER hasitate to ask questions...specially when something seems out of order, unexplained or simply not right. There is often a simple explanation for it. Make sure you ask politely and without making any accusatory, finger pointing, demonizing comments. toad

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 6/4/2005 8:26:06 PM

Welcome back, Izi

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/4/2005 9:06:17 PM

Thanks Toad in fact many thanks

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 6/4/2005 9:24:39 PM

don't mention it...it inflates my already overinflated ego

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/4/2005 10:05:01 PM

This time it is well deserved so overinflate away :))

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/4/2005 10:09:36 PM

In case anybody is the slightest bit interested in why I have been away. My lady friend did something so incredibly stupid it defies description. I dumped her in a heartbeat. Now I look again. One day when I am able to live inside my own skin again I will share it because there are tons of pointers in this little story but for now I prefer not to publicize this insanity. Toad knows what happened and will no doubt endorse my action. In fact he will probably say it was overdue. That is life :))) Upwards and onwards folks.

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	Send: 6/4/2005 11:12:12 PM

And NO, you rat bastards...you're not getting any 'juicy gossip details' from me.

wmferg

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	Send: 6/4/2005 11:42:51 PM

AW, come on. Inquiring minds need to know.

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 6/5/2005 12:19:40 AM

Hence my anticipating disclaimer, lol

Dale E

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	Send: 6/5/2005 1:16:56 AM

Come on Izi, quit acting like a little kid and give us the low down. I was always interested in your strange relationship with Marina. I have read hours of your bullshit and now you want to keep us in the dark? That's dirty posting!!!!!!!!!

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/5/2005 7:57:43 AM

Sorry Dale Its a bit too fresh. When I feel a litle more at peace with this I will share with pleasure. Just give a week or so and I will tell you. I am still digesting it all.

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	Send: 6/5/2005 8:34:50 AM

Izi WOW....this sounds like a huge and surprising turn of events. Isn't it amazing how these relationships can take a drastic change so quickly. I know about it too. I've been through the same ups and downs. Keep your sanity, Izi. You know very well how many wonderful women are out there....Just takes a lot of looking to find the perfect one. You'll be much happier when you find her. I'm headed back this Wednesday to be sure I've picked the right one. I hope I am correct. Let you know about it when I return 25 June.

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	Send: 6/5/2005 8:47:51 AM

Good luck Neon: My YOU find what you are looking for. As for izi: I like his style of writing and he seems to be the only guy here, besides myself, who WILL tell the gory details when they happen (which is why, as I have mentioned in another thread I will have to leave soon, permanently or temporarily). And, unfortunately, in life it seems that there are always gory details. He hasn't cnesored things yet to my knowledge - and I'm sure that with time he will tell us what happened. I am very anxiuos to hear this story. Rest assured all, that if things DON'T work out between my fiance and myself - I will come back and tell you about it - including gory details. (But I hope that does not happen.) :)

jetmba.

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	Send: 6/5/2005 8:50:24 AM

Neon: Obviously that was supposed to read "MAY you find what you are looking for." I know that you have found a wonderful lady. May you find that she is, indeed, "the one".

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/5/2005 8:59:24 AM

Thank you Neon what you say is extremely true. I have already resumed a relationship with a woman that I had begun to know up in NY. She is Russian, a doctorate, quite pretty and has know about Marina for a couple of months. She has been here for 5 years and of course is greencard hungry!! The antenna are well and truly up!! I have a ticket to FSU going begging and I have also been in contact with a medical doctor from Moscow and lovely lady from Chelyabinsk. They both fit the strict profile I am now looking for. No more compromises. Good English Right age/weight/height 1 child, a boy between 5 and 10 A job that can be used in the USA And most importantly no cute stuff in the emails. There are several others but I can already see that soe of them are quickly going to be dismissed. For example I resumed contact with a lovely 30 year old in Vitebsk. She has 2 boys the right age. However I know for a fact that she wants to be a baby machine and delve into a huge family with hordes of grandkids and that whole scene. It is not for me. I would sooner have 1 child that I could really focus on rather than living in a family nightmare. A guy where I work is a catholic and consequently he has a horde of kids. He is constantly watching the pennies and doesn't have a moment of peace. Not for me. So I am back out there with a arsenal of new knowledge. I am loaded for bear and will soon find someone else - I think!!! :)) If everyone will give me a minute to catch my breath with ths personal disaster that has taken place I will share what happened it is extremely instructional to anybody new here. Right now I am sore. On top of this I rented a room to a guy who is as dumb as a sack of rocks. I have seen amoebas with more intelligence. He has been here a week and I already am picking out a spot to dig the grave out in the Everglades. Normally I am a pretty patient guy but right now is not a good time and this fellow came in and started. Bad move. Right now I am explaining to him who the big dog is. Me !! Frankly I could do with the money but not him. Bad bad timing.

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/5/2005 11:05:21 AM

Well scratch the god English, I just called one of them. :)))

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	Send: 6/5/2005 12:19:42 PM

Iz, I'm Catholic and only have one child. Don't paint all Catholics as baby machines Pleeeeeeeaaaaase! Sorry to hear about you situation with Marina. Hang in there buddy we all have to leave a certain amount of blood one the floor for the truly good things in life.Anything truly worthwhile requires sacrifice, pain, joy and a few tears along the way.

izifaddag

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	Send: 6/5/2005 1:14:50 PM

I didn't. I was actually refering to one man. But everybody knows the stance of the Catholic church on contraception. It has encouraged the creation of large families all over the world usually those who can least afford it. Perhaps you may be Catholic but you have had the good sense to temper your religion with practical considerations. Unfortunately not everybody has your restraint I stand by what I said. I thank you for your sympaties regarding Marina what can I say shit happens. Life goes on.

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