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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > what can I do in my situation? Author Post blueeyes Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/17/2002 10:39:13 PM   Hi everyone, I have a problem with my american husband. He doesn't let me drive car and he wants control my life. I have to take my son to school by walking (1,5 miles 2 times a day) and I can't even go to store to buy food myself. I have to wait for him to take me everywere. I am at home all the time and I am in America 1,5 years. I wanted to go to work but I can't do it to without car. We don't have any buses where I live. Sometime I am in deep depress and think that it will be forever. He doesn't want to talk about it and he thinks that this is normal life for me. What can I do in this situation? I think I shoud drive car (we live in California) even for emergancy....what if my child will get sick at school and I don't have any transportation..... Olga Moderator send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/18/2002 5:21:09 AM   hmmmm... I wish our girls from gallery could read this message too. may be after that they would understand that life avroad not always looks like a fairy tale. Olga Moderator send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/18/2002 5:21:10 AM   hmmmm... I wish our girls from gallery could read this message too. may be after that they would understand that life avroad not always looks like a fairy tale. CodeRed Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/18/2002 9:40:31 PM   I think Olga is giving the writer the benifit of the doubt. Plus she is correct in her statement of life abroad not always a fairy tail story. I see allot of that in my business. I can see this situation taking place. Even if it is a bogus posting, it does bring to lite a possible scenerio. Just the honor of being in America, does not mean that Blueeyes needs to accept being caged. Most American woman wont put up with that situation. It stands to reasion that it could be true and life is not always a bed of roses in America. Its better than where she left as far as standards of living, yes!. However, now being in America she has been granted her right to complain. Thats why we are America! Goodluck Blueeyes (giving the benifit of the doubt) Try to talk to him about your feelings or speak to someone he respects to interceed on your behalf. Let him know that this is a very serious issue for you. If non of that works attempt to seek professional intervention. Hang in there Blueeyes, and try to find out what the underlying reasion is for his behavior. Goodluck! gary496 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/18/2002 10:56:41 PM   It's sad if a true story, as she deserves better treatment than that. But, I have to admit that my "Troll Warning System" was activated. Carlos2002 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/19/2002 12:10:46 AM   Marriage life is different! Some times we think that we go on living as singles after we have been married to some one. You are taking the cce to submit to a tyran, dominant or resentful individual or to a unfaithful, dishonest, nagging or lazy wife. But whatever it is may be corrected in the way and this correction comes in different determinations that benefit at the end, both husband and wife, even if they ended up separated and divorced. When you married some one you submitt yourself, children family to the new so-called boss or new regime or system of rules. Few! Stinks ah! well, didn't your mother told you so? I know, you were not listening to your mother! Reason within yourself and try the best way it may suit you! CodeRed Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/19/2002 3:45:08 AM   I think being married 1.5 years she knows married life is different. Correct me if I am wrong but marriage is a partnership. Not a Regime with a New Boss and system of rules. Hmm I see you want a submissive wife. How sad you will never know the true love a woman can give you as an equal partner. I think for 1.5 years she did try to reasion, now she is asking for help. CodeRed Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/26/2002 4:31:24 PM   (giving the benifit of the doubt) Try to talk to him about your feelings or speak to someone he respects to interceed on your behalf. Let him know that this is a very serious issue for you. If non of that works attempt to seek professional intervention. Hang in there Blueeyes, and try to find out what the underlying reasion is for his behavior. Goodluck! monolith Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/30/2002 5:20:17 AM   I would not agree that blueeyes may be a "fake" considering that whilst in the Aussie Airforce and associating with other armed services as well as some civilians I noted a high incidence of men who "hate" Aussie women (or, being multicultural, western women)and buy their mail order brides from asia. Now, I might be straying here a bit from the fact this forum is about Russian women, but, I gather their is a large percentage of men who frequent the russian wives web sites, think the same way as those that buy asian women. That is to say, they prefer women who do as they are told unlike western women who have a will of their own. Permit some leniency here in the comparison, but no matter what we like to think blueeyes case is not unusual. However, I am sure most of the blokes in here who frequent this fine forum are somewhat a little more aware of their own expectations including the respect they wish to put upon Russian women. I charge $1 per word ;) monolith Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/30/2002 5:25:48 AM   Oh, and what to do about your situation, after 1.5 years I'd say you would have a fair indication of what he doesn't like in women, in particular what he might say about American women...... If it sounds a bit like what I said above, re advertise here in dating-ru. Or, you never know, someone here might take sympathy with you and spend time getting to know you, to what end, who knows. monolith Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/30/2002 5:29:08 AM   Troll??? Hey I have met a few Trolls and they are cute!!! JW2002 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 10/2/2002 5:54:33 PM   Those who seek; shall be decieved... This is America; you have the right to change what ever you do not agree with. If this troubles you then make the changes. Do not allow no one to control your life; because its your life... Ronnie Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2003 11:07:21 PM   To "code red".Are you really a lawyer,or have you just been found out?Just one of your posts includes a fairy "tail",I see "allot","scenerio","benifit" and "interceed".If employing the services of an american attorney I would like to know that they could spell.It gives you a certain confidence.Tell me you're not a lawyer please! Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/1/2003 7:19:07 AM   HeyRonnie,surelyyourkeyboardhasaspacebaraswell? After a '.' normally there's a space. Like the one just now before the 'L' from 'Like'. Comma's also are treated in a similar way. These little things make reading actually pleasant - unlike your comments of this weekend. In fact, a Word-Spellchecker will point your own deficiencies out. Handy eh? Turboz Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/3/2003 2:43:08 PM   IF the author of this post is genuine then I feel very sorry for her. Why would someone bother posting a bogus thread like this? - Give it the benefit of the doubt! Blueeyes: If yyour that unhappy then leave your husband. Take a holiday or something. Do you have access to his money? - Leave!. Go back to your home country and tell him you will not return until he is willing to negotiate. If you still get no satisfaction then go for a divorce. Also make sure he never hurts you. If he hits you or beats you CALL THE POLICE IMMEDIATELY. Never put up with violence. It sounds to me like your husband doesn't really think alot about your own feelings so I would say that you should be careful around him. Don't do/say anything which you feel could make him angry as he could turn violent. If he refuses to negotiate a different lifestyle then leave as soon as he's gone to work. Leave him a note and tell him what he's done wrong. Good luck, Turboz DOCTORE Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/4/2003 5:31:30 AM   Oh why you do thta, Just leave him alone. Do you have child with him? I think you have to go divorce and find another just normal Man. I can help you here if you need soemthing FiftyCent Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/4/2003 12:00:42 PM   Yeah, dump the useless insecure bastard! First, give him a warning though!!. Then gimme a call on +35799352529. Wanna just mess him up abit or a complete black out??? :) FiftyCent Turboz Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/4/2003 2:56:35 PM   FiftyCent I don't think this is a wise idea to try and pull a woman who is in a difficult situation but nice try though! BlueEyes: Remember what I said. Don't allow him to hurt you. I'll say again that if he ever hits or beats you then you MUST CALL THE POLICE. The law is there to protect innocent people and if you are suffering from domestic violence then you should report him. If you don't tackle this situation now then it will get worse. If he doesn't respect you for who you are then why is he married to you? - Why remain married to a man who doesn't respect you but treats you like property? There are some people that have posted some replies here that are a little insulting. Please ignore these and follow the good advice thats being offered. Get yourself out of a bad situation. If you husband doesn't respect and treasure you then he is not worthy of being married to you. Good luck, Turboz jmatador Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/5/2003 12:17:38 AM   Mmmmmh troll or Trollete, that is the question here gentleman.:))Honestly my opinion is why blue eyes will have a membership here? secondly, giving her the benefit of doubt. I can see this happening to a young pretty woman. My only advice is as someone said already to talk to someone close to her man and tell this person how she feels and to be aware she will leave his sorry ass or follow legal help easy eh? problem solved.? nah not really if she has a son in school as she claims and shes been married for only year and a half she brought the son with her. I dont know enough about Imigration laws and if someone more aware enlightens me i would appreciate it. To my knowledge if you are a US citizen to get someone a resident passport in the USA You must known her 2 years or more. Then you can start the process of her becoming a legal resident. Is sad to think this woman has no choice other than return to her country.Or go cry to some Public Agency and become another Illegal goverment abusing welfare living impayingyourasscitizen in this great country of ours. Or blueyes could seek the same welfare services and go to school get a job carrer and do somethin out of your life type citizen which is her who knows? one thing striked me though her english skill spelling was better than most of us. this for a girl of a foreign language whos lived in the USA one and a half years? oh well if any can shed info on Imigration law i will apreciate it. my emal is traviezo33ca@aol.com DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SHALL ALWAYS BE SEEN AS THE LOWEST FORM OF HUMAN RELATIONS. I HOPE THIS WOMAN "IF" REAL HAS SOMEONE TO TALK TO. OR SHE CAN ALWAYS WRITE HERE TO US AND SOMEONE WILL CONTACT HER OR POLICE YOURE NOT ALONE BLUEYES!!! WE ARE HERE TO HELP!! IM INTERESTED IN A RESPONSE OR COMMENT OTHER WISE I WILL THINK SHES A TROLLETTE Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 9/7/2003 1:52:33 PM   Someone who cries for Help on a Forum like this will be heard. Especially when a female voice is used. I did address her immediately in private, the bottom line being she has to respond first before aiding troops will be be mobilized. My message however also contained a specific warning to prevent a hoaxster from reacting. Any reactions anybody? Nope. At ease Soldiers, you're all dismissed to the Canteen. Toast on Igor, Samuel or Samantha - 'cause his/her cry got reactions for crying out loud! Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > what can I do in my situation?
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