There are many beautiful women in here. I live in the UK where one can get married at 16 with consent of parents. Is there any hope for me on this website or should I come back in 2 years?
There are many Beautiful women in here? Meaning in this forum or in Russia
and many other places like Ukraine like everywhere there?
I would love to help you but not sure what your really asking.
I am taking it you are 16 and looking to get married?
Do you have your parents consent??
I really think it would be really hard for the ladies to take you serious
at that age seeing most are looking for older men.
women looking to settle down tend to pick more Stable men that have had life experiance and are more ready to create family with children, you would
be looked upon as A Child and I am not calling you that on purpose
because put the shoe on the other foot and you got guys that date younger
gals Like me who find them more on my level.
I think when your A few years older you will do very good.........
but age first then plan next.
Doc, fiance.com doesn't accept applications of women under 18.
as to early marriages in Russia people can get married at the age of 14 with the consent of parents.
Well, the last time I checked I was a guy... lemme see... yep, still here.
I am English, I do have my father's consent, and yes, I want a wife. And if fiance.com doesn't allow applications of women under 18, do you of any websites I could go to that may have someone my age? I don't see age as a problem, personally, but I have noticed that a lot of these women are looking for older men. Any help would be strongly appreciated.
Well Doc, you have said that you would appreciate any help. Here is my advice: wait ten years to get married. The women will still be there and you will know much more about what kind of woman you want to be with for the rest of your life. Look at it this way: when you are 26 you can marry a nice 18 year old Ukranian or Russian girl if you want. It will work our just right; you'll have finished you education, and you'll have a job, a place to live, and some life experience.
If you marry an 18 year old girl now, when you are 26 she'll be 28 and you'll be looking at the 18 year olds wishing that you weren't married. Then you'll think back to this post and say, "Damn, I should have listened to that guy on the internet that told me to wait 10 years!"
Doc, well...let's just see I'm 23 now (I'm a Ukrainian girl) and I just don't feel interested to communicate with 18 years old men, we have nothing to talk about...really, I know there are only 5 years between, but the hobby, work, interests gap is so big...it is hard even to imagine it...but with the men of my age or men who are older then me, I find a lot of topics to discuss...
Sooo, Pitchka...hhmmmm... so how about a date??? j/k. 16 + Married = Very unwise, unless you really do want a divorce which at age 16 is probably at about 100% it will happen.
Bastard_Kid, and what is "j/k."?:))
Hey I already have a beloved man, and we are together for nearly 5 years:)) So forgive me, but you have no chances...:)
Bastard_Kid, ok ok will try not to forget that "j/k" is a joke:)) I'm just very very busy with work and don't sleep much...so forgive me if I didn't understand a joke at once:)
Same thing when we were all 16 and thought the first Girl
we had a long term relationship with was the one and only.
Doc You are so young my friend you should not do this to your self
Date women and when you get out of college and have A good life
then if your not involved with some one for marriage than search
like us guys wanting A better Family than we believe we colud get where we live.
Live life and grow dont be caught up in this Battle field
at your age, Read laern but dont worry about it.
Hi Doc ,
I have just caught up on your problem , shall we say , first you would have to be 18 years old to join this site as it is against the terms and conditions , in some countries it is 21 to join this site , but doc , your father must want you out of the house to say get married this early in your life . I know all about the hormones and such but you are too young for this and i do not mean the site or meeting ladies , but i mean marriage , it is a massive step to take and we are not talking just the above but you will have another human beings life to support protect and to provide for , your wife , you will have to have the same interests and even discuss things and as pitchka right says what are you going to talk about , how are you going to react to a certain situation when it arrives on your doorstep and it will , believe me , how are you going to handle life when you are , in all honesty Doc , just out of diapers , as far as i am concerned , you may have genuine intentions , be truthfull and honest , be a good lover and father when your kids come on the scene , but it is not enough because you lack one ingredient Pitchka was meaning , i think , expierence in life , you should take your time and enjoy life , but i do not mean disrespect women , you are still young and should build your future on what you want to be and do in your life , i was 21 when i first got married and it was not enough , it is not a sunday afternoon stroll in the park and things do not always stay rosie as we would like them to be , it is hard work to keep the relationship going and to build upon it but does come with all the responsibilities with it and they are huge .
I am not trying to scare you off what may be a genuine young man with serious intentions , but as i said you are too young , doc ,,, wair 2 years and see how you feel , if it is still strong in you to marry then you would be better prepared than you are now , but it wont be enough ,and i would hate to see two young lives lost and hurt because of it because it is not just you , is it !!!!!!
I would just like to say that love, in my opinion, is allowing one to share one's self completely and fully. That means sharing one's struggles with the spouse- but the other side of that is being able to take on the spouse's burdens, as well. I do understand marriage is really only that totally compassionate and wild feeling will last for a short while. There will be hardships and arguements but it's the love that gets a couple through all that. I, myself, abhor divorce and do believe that I am ready for marriage- but love is patient and I will wait until I feel I'm not only mentally ready, but that I am wise and mature enough also.