hello im new here. sick of wasting time with girls from canada. want to try something new. anyways ive seen this picture of this girl on here..and well she's from tadjikistan. ive read that this country is notorious for being "mafia" run. worried that it may be a scam. i have no money to pay for the premium service so i cant contact her. everyone wants to make a buck these days. im 22, in school and broke lol. not cause i blow my money but due to personal reasons...school for instance. *** i really wanna chat with her but she doesnt speak english very well. i can translate russian if need be. anyways enough talk.
have any of you met or talked to girls from tadjikistan? and if so do them seem honest? i'll do whatever it takes to get ahold of her. is there anyway to get there email addresses without paying? $50 to register via western union. i dont own a credit card. *** contact me on there if you want to guys. ANY help would be appreciated!!!
Trying to find a woman in FSU to marry is an expensive business. You will need to make several trips and each can cost from $3 to $4 grand. If you don't even have the money to buy a $15 a month membership in Fiance.com I would quit while you are ahead.
The best I can advise is to go to First Dream and get some free addresses. Look them up on your search engine. However anyone here can tell you what happens with free addresses. Generally it ain't pretty.
Try just taking a membership for one month get her details and swap email addresses. Then quit your membership.
mrbrown,where did you get this price "$50 to register via western union" ?
registration and seting up a profile at fiance.com is free. you pay only for subscription. for 14.95$ you get Premium membership with unlimited number of letters to send and receive from independant ladies for free and first free letter to agency girls.
for 29.95$ you can get VIP. VIP allows you to send and to receive unlimited number of letters for free to ALL ladies at fiance.com. with VIP you also get discounts for other services.
when you write to girls via fiance.com you may ask for postal addresses, phone numbers, emails. ladies and you are allowed to exchange contact info in letters.
mbrown, select VIP for three month, and send WU if you like, so the fee will be less. or send money order in USD by mail. or use izif's advice to use free web sites. is it true that a lot of people in canada do not have credit cards? even in former soviet union banks give visa/master cards connected to checking account nowdays.
You may find after visiting this site that 'Immersion learning" is the best. And you are young and in a good advantage to live very well in any country off of US dollars,and to find many women personally. Here`s my philosophy--if you are young enough to travel on Uncle Sam`s dollars-do it. Have some cajones and some personal interest in the geographical place which suits you best. If I was not hunkered down on oil rigs when I was your age--well let me put it this way--if you have an easy avenue of opportunity--grab it!! By the way--50 dollars Western UNion sends about 200 dollars-I believe it is 30 dollars for each 100 you send.
i didnt know the interest rate was so high for western union. i dont have a cheqing account, but would a money order work? lol no people here do have VISA's here. due to some legal issues i can no longer own a VISA lol.
this site is very interesting....this forum i mean.
where are you guys from..the USA i assume. but which state and what kind of jobs do you have? i love reading the threads here...very informative and interesting.
and how old are you guys as well.
I can also understand why you would be interested in some personal information. I guess you are trying to gett eh feel of this.
OK here goes. I am 50 (just), I am an enginering technician, I live in Florida but am originally from England.
mr, realize first that it is not entertainment and this requires quite serious investments. 50$ is nothing in comparrison with them. If you have several spare thousands(not canadian:-))) you should start this.
I just saw a lot of guys who would begin writing but it finished with nothing as they didn't realize first that they will have to travel to Russia and may be not once, buy gifts and support their girls, pay not less than 1500$ for the fiance visa process and so on...
This is a game but not a cheap one.
Felice you can find an attorney to do The visa process for a lot less than $1500, I have $525 in it and we are now waiting for the interview in Kiev out of the $525 $165 was the filing fee.
I will agree with you, that if you think this is going to been done on less than 3000 dollars you are in for a rude awakening.
Second of all I wouldn't call this a game, I sure as hell don't think it is, maybe to you but not to me. I was dead serious in my pursuit of a lady from Ukraine. I've studied their culture most of my life, spent most of my adult life studying communism and it's perversions of it's people. This is no game, this is real world and real life. I think if you take it any other way you won't find a real woman. Part of my success was luck the other part was an educated prudence. Again as my father used to preach to me as a child when I was playing hockey, those who work hardest get the luckiest. I've learned alot from Larissa and their visions of what they perceive as American men. How her agency tried to manipulate her into writing other men and telling her I was nothing more than a sex tourist. Then when she meets me on the side without me paying ridiculous money for their translation services and their escort, they all but just shit on her. Nice game agencys play. They have misinformed her on the visa process telling her things she didn't need to do. After I got her to listen to my attorney she realized it was a game the agency was playing because they didn't want to see our relationship work. They wanted her beauty and kindness for their own just rewards. I used to think that they were a straight up agency, but not anymore, and the sad thing Larissa has told me that is how the majority of agencies operate, it's a business and their client is money and they really don't give a damn about the people involved. Larissa took a big chance with me as I did with her. I saw many things in her that I admired when she was out of the influence of her agency. So now my advice to anyone her if your girl is with an agency, circumvent it as much as possible and take her out of the sphere of influence. You will then know what your lady is really like. God has blessed me with the wonderful gift of her love and the agency did their best to steer her away. Now the new guys here should learn to steer their girls away from the agency. Because the truth be known, the agencys don't want to see successful relationships, it cuts down on their incomes. They used to bitch at her for only writing me, she should write other men also. Hmmm? Was it because I was a fraud, or that she wasn't bringing in the bread? I think it was the latter. As far as hearing about legitimate agencies I don't believe it now. When it comes down to the bottom line, the agency exists for a profit and no way exists for the happiness of the lady.
Damm Mike sounds like we had to deal with the same agency. I am glad your relationship worked out. I think that the problems that caused my relationship to go south was instigated by the agency. I ended up paying for the translator/ guide by the way.
After spending quite some time with Larissa, God I feel for the girls and the bullshit they put up with in Agencys. It's pretty much the same in all. Larissa had tried three before we met. No success. She almost gave up because of the frustration of Keyboard Romeo's and the bullshit they put up with in the Agency. She did tell me of a guy in America that said she could have anything she wanted in life if she didn't mind if he wore womens clothes to bed with her. We spent a whole morning pool side in Yalta talking about our search for love and the perfect person and the struggles we both have had in life. I feel very lucky that she didn't give up, or I would have missed out on the most wonderful woman I've ever had the pleasure to be with. It's very interesting to talk with them about this subject. Then you get to see the real truth about marriage and dating agencies. She had told me 11 men promised to meet her. She went to meet two at the airport, they didn't show. What bullshit. I asked her before if she thought I wouldn't show up, she said it briefly crossed her mind, but after many letters and calling her daily she knew I was real. Also everything I told her I was going to do, I did. They appreciate very much that you stick to your word and don't make ridiculous promises. I told Larissa I would only make two promises to her. One I would love her and only her until the day I die and the second the only bed I would ever sleep in would be hers. After that I make no quarantees about wealth, material things etc. Shoot these girls straight and your reward is beyond anything you can imagine.
interesting story mike. im new to this as im the original poster in this thread and your story brings me hope, as for the last few days on here for hours all ive read about are horror stories, etc, etc, etc. ive never thought about this thing through there eyes before though. they have problems of there own with these services as do we.
I met my lady on EM and have had not problems, she was also on this site and also have had not problems. I have had direct contact without any interference from agencies. The agencies have been helpful with sending flowers and taking pictures of my sweetheart. Maybe I was just lucky; One person from an agency on this forum did advise me that most agencies are not interested in ladies 39 yrs and older, Svetlana is 39.
I am amazed Mike at what some of what these ladies has to endure with their search. We did use the same agency so we both understand that end of the business, fortunately everything has worked out for you. I have been in communication with a lady in Ternopol since March that I have met through Elena’s Models. We will be meeting at the end of September. Fortunately she has her own computer so there is no agency involved this time. She just hooked up to broad band so we will be attempting video conferencing (if any of you guys out there has any experience with a web site for video conf. I would appreciate the advice). Lena has been searching for two years and some of her stories are unbelievable. One guy from Europe wanted to meet her in Poland so she arranged her own visa and bought her train ticket and the day before she was to leave he sent her an e-mail telling her he found another woman and cancelled their meeting. Other guys wanted her to leave her teenage son in Ukraine and come live with them…like that’s going to happen. I think that we have it easy weeding out the scammers compared some of the things they have to deal with.
Yes exactly. My Fiancée has told me many stories and also shown me emails from men. She only went onto 3 sites last year and is now on many other sites. She has finally canned her email address and has made another one to stop the continual
Some of the men come right out with talk about sex etc also. It seems the Mexican and Brazilian are the worst men.
So – Yes – the women put up with a lot of crap from men. We actually have the easiest side of the ledger to deal with.