Sounds great. let us see what we shall see :)) I have a particular lady called Tanya that I have been writing to in Kherson that I like. Who knows maybe the whole agency thing will be a bust and I will just hit it off with her. It is a similar situation to yourself Nas. She is 40 I am 50. Cute as a button and not the slightest bit prone to giving me shit.
A condition that I immensely approve of !!
Sooooo if that happens then I think we might end up in a car to Yalta/Crimea. You know how I feel about the historical sites. My father and brother would be green if I went there.
Izi you'll love it, I'm tempted to go back in september or whenever Larissa has her interview, I figure I would surprise her when me meet in Kiev, when she gets her visa, I will tell her I am bored and want to get out of Kiev and I just happen to have two tickets to Simferopol!Think of any place close to there you like my dear? Hell Izi if my Russian was better I would sell my shit here Ship my two vehicles and motorcycles to Yalta and drive a damn taxi there. That's how much I like it, it's like Greece on a common mans budget. I'm not kidding about the single women walking about the place. If I hadn't met Larissa and knew Yalta was like that, Piss on the Agencies I will take my chance by the seaside!
Izi on the 40 year old situation, one thing I've learned in my search that there is a lot less bullshit to put up with and they are more focused on what they want. The only drawback is they have lived there so long, it is a little frightening to leave a place they have been all their lives, not as flexible as a 20 something. If Lubov,Larissa's mom hadn't given the blessing I might not be in the situation I'm in. She told Larissa, the man loves you and adores you and you would be crazy to stay in Ukraine because it won't get better there for another 20 years. So I got the Annoiting from her friends, they all told her to go, so now she is really excited to come. Her Sister is married to an Italian and lives in Switzerland. So one has left the Ukrainian nest already. So now the clock ticks until her interview and Larissa is moving out of her apartment the end of August and Moving into her moms until she returns in October and spending a lot of her summer vacation with friends and will spend some quality time with mom then I will go and pick her up and head for the states. Well that's the plan, still anything can go wrong and nothing is etched in stone until she is here. As it goes now I'm pretty damned positive about the outcome.
The very best of luck with Larissa. She sounds great.
I am not raising my hopes too much and I am sure you can imagine why. I have been at this just long enough to know that it can turn to shit in less time than it takes to say "PRENUP".
Still I am kinda hopin'. The most remarkable thing about this woman is that at 40 she is still open to the idea of a child!! Also adopting is not a problem!! This is remarkable. I just hope I am not being shined on a la Marina. Remember she did the same thing?
Also this one doesn't have a problem with the traditonal family (See "Toad" in the dictionary). Yes I feel the same way he does about that. I am looking for a wife not a competitor. The subject of the dreaded marriage contract has not come up yet but I am fluid with that one. It all depends on circumstances. Anyway I don't have a pot to piss in so it is a mute point :))
Who knows maybe she is the one and I will have to tell the 18 year old sex goddess in Kharkov to stop sending me the pictures.
Of course I shall continue to send her my pictures but that is another story and my case comes up next Thursday.
I shall plead the headaches again.
Thanks Neon :))
It is all relative though. I make up for it with radiant beauty and natural wit and charm.
I have to put my boots on now because I am wading in it !!
No, seriously I am not that bad off but whoever the lady is that hooks up with me had better be prepared that we will never be wealthy. However if she wants a guide to London, Paris, New Orleans, The Far East and Mexico then I would be the guy.
Silly as this might seem I treasure the idea of taking my new wife and child to India or to walk around the Grand Canyon much more than I do worrying about retirement and money. I am at peace with that, there will be no retirement. I shall just flop down over a desk somewhere :))
No pot but some other stuff to balance it all out.