Fourth line in your first post says it all...."She is American"
Typical American woman attitude, and then when she knows you are looking at FSU ladies she goes off! I do believe there are some good American women, but I have not found any that are available. At least that were worth looking at.
It just fricking astonishes me that women can say whatever they want but when we men have the bald faced gall to actually KNOW what we are looking for we are 'shallow', 'picky', 'strict' etc.
Is it wrong to want a beautiful wife?
Is it wrong to want someone younger instead of a 54 year old hag?
Can we not have a choice about our future or do we have to be emotionally blackmailed with the old "it is what is inside that counts"??
Yeah until you catch her banging the poolboy!!
Yes, I know we have been through this in the forum before but this is a fresh one. The cow just dropped it, a great steaming one roght there for all to see. I really hope she has the ovaries to come to this forum. Because I know these guys will rip her a new one :))
And if they don't I WILL !!
(graduate of the Toad academy of male chavinist pigs and proud of it)
I'm grateful for all the credit you throw my way, Izi...but I'm not all that impressed at the massive amount of thought, typing energy and time you seem to have devoted to this 54 yr old hag with a bad attitude...or any other woman who cares to impose herself into your life when she has little or nothing to offer to fulfill your search.
Personally, I never found much satisfaction continuing correspondence with these type of women...what the hell for??
One single response letter would take care of her kind...."Thank you for the advice, granny...I'd enjoy debating you under different circumstances, but I'm too busy getting to know women half your age. Be well, laugh often...and avoid gravity as well as S.A.G membership at all costs."
It is Sunday and I had nothing else to do :) It was fun. It has also been a long time since I have seen this so blatently exposed. I wasn't trying to impress anybody, seriously, it was some out of the blue fun.
This crap never ceases to amaze me. How some woman from nowhere decides what you should or should not write.
Thanks for the encouragement...
I mean, thanks for pointing out that one has to do some searching before one finds the right one...
In other parts of this forum one could easily get the impression that you did not respect a man who could not find the right one first time he tried.
And, that reading profiles carefully (and from time finding some of them mildly amusing) is about as 'manly' as collecting stamps...
(sorry, no offence intended, stamp collecting is a very honourable hobby).
I think this Sandy B...h took what you wrote personally. Maybe there is something to the female mental hive. I think that she knows that has men get older they age better then women. It is just a fact that guys are always going to be looking at younger women. Her husband probably left her for a younger woman. There is a woman were I work that has to be pushing fifty but she has kept her figure but her face has a lot of miles on it. She must work out like a maniac but she looks her age in her face.
Pretty interesting post. It's your life. Don't compromise it for anyone. There are so many women out there and literally thousands could be your soul mate. They are looking for you too.
I think you are right about the USA. You probably can't find what you are looking for here. I have tried several sites such as yahoo, match.com and eharmony. I think the worst was eharmony. I would waste a lot of time communicating with someone before finally getting getting to see their picture. I guess eharmony thinks that physical attraction is completely unimportant. Eharmony seems to have an abundance of very overweight, unattractive ladies, thinking they are going to get matched with someone who could care less what they look like because eharmony says their personality is a match. Ha.
The bar scene sucks for successful men in their 40s or beyond. You can find miss right now but its pretty impossible to find miss right.
You are looking in the right places. So, its just a matter of time before wedding bells are ringing for you my friend.
Hi, izi! Let me tell you something. I am not an Amarican woman, I am from FSU, but I do 100%agree with Sandra, criticizing your profile. The way you created it shows how demanidng and unfriendly you are! I sized myself up with what you're asking for and I dare to say I meet all your requiments , BUT the impression you left with your profile would NEVER inspire me to write you in response!
There is a saying: "Those who want too much get nothing".
Another side: you want a beautiful woman. Right. Do you know that beautiful and educated women usually do well in Russia and are therefore spoilt a little bit? Are you prepared to compensate her for everything she'd gonna leave behind (when and if comes to it if at all)? It will be only fair.
Another saying:"you pay nothing, you get nothing".
How about love?, you could ask me. Yes, sure, love is wonderful feeling. BUT
I assume you're wise enough not to think that it's you and the ONLY you she'd want in her new life?Or maybe the child you're gonna to adopt? (I love kids, by the way)
"I love him, but I love many things beside", Princess Elizabeth, the daughter of Henry the 8th, said. Very cute girl, was she.
Just an opinion from your hypothetical friend-to-be. Sorry if you don't like it. I wish you the best in your searching.
You are a nice guy. However your posts are frustrating. You have nothing to really add to these discussions. Have you been to FSU? Do you have a lady there? Are you even really looking? Why these subjects that go nowhere?
That is the problem Geri/Eeeyore/Sancho. And what is the reason for all the different names? You know that a geriatric is an elderly person bound usually to a wheelchair and bed just befpre they croak right? So why choose such a name unless that is your case. If that is so what on Earth are you doing chasing women istead of a bedpan. You confuse me with your name, your posts and your slant on all this.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with looking at profiles - if there is a purpose to it! Is there a purpose to your critiquing profiles?
In my own case I was not looking at this womans profile she just decided to come after me, out of the blue. You misunderstand tis situation.
She is an American woman living in Greece since her husband died.
Thanks for your comments and everyone is entitled to their opinion. I do not agree with yours ny area.
Not all beautiful FSU women are spoiled and when I come across one that is I pass by her. I do not look for outstanding beauty in fact when ever is ee one like that I deliberately go by her. I am not interested because the liklehood that she will be faithful in the west is minimal. I don't trust them.
If you see anything that you don't like in that profile it is because you do not want honesty. Please remember it is primarily written to ward off American women. Actually it also attracts women.
Is it wrong to say I think fat women should be honest?
Not just with me but with themselves?
Is it wrong that I like slim women?
Should I waste my time writing to some overweight ancient old bag so I let her down gently?
Have I written to women and criticsed their profiles?
Who am I doing this for by the way? Them or myself?
The correct answer is myself :)
If I am so demanding and unfriendly why do I have so many women from all over the world approach me?
First, I might add?
"There is a saying: "Those who want too much get nothing"."
There is another one "Who dares wins"
I dare to tell the truth and as you can see from the reaction of the other forum members I speak for many, many people. that would put you in the minority.
"Another side: you want a beautiful woman. Right. Do you know that beautiful and educated women usually do well in Russia and are therefore spoilt a little bit? Are you prepared to compensate her for everything she'd gonna leave behind (when and if comes to it if at all)? It will be only fair."
This is so patently untrue I wonder where you really live. My last lady was VERY beautiful and she was not spolit at all. We had other problems. She was a lawyer, very educated and respected. As for compensation. Here is the compensation - she gets me!! Yes she gets me. Also a better standard of living, permanent sunshine, and citizenship to both America AND Europe. She will have adventure and fun and a ton of love and attention.
Like I said she gets ME!!
"Another saying:"you pay nothing, you get nothing"."
I love this. Just what exactly are you talking about? Do you have any idea how expensive it is to go to anywhere in FSU? How many times do you think that we all go? Once? Twice?
I am about to go for my second time. My buddy Jay is put there now on trip 6. JMO how many times did you go? How about you Maxi? Gladiator how many times? Jet spent thousands on trips out there. So you pay nothing you get nothing???????? What on Earth are you talking about??
As for love that is thoroughly covered in the profile. More importantly on the subject of love it is not a cure all. You can't eat it and if you think that a marrieage is based on romantic love you would be sadly mistaken. The shine wears off on that real fast. I was married for 12 years. How many years have you been married FSUfemale?
As for the rest on your post it is incomprehensible so I will pass on answering it. It isn't a question of me not liking it by the way. Apparently you didn't like it so much you took the trouble to write a answer to this thread. I really don't care if you agree with Sandra or not or whether you did or did not like my little story. It is of little importance.
Let me explain. This is my life, I have accepted second best my whole life, I will not anymore. If I search the entire world and comeup empty handed, which is extremely unlikely, at least I will not have bent over backwards for some woman. I will have tried my best and will go to my grave happy. Being on one's own is not that bad. In fact if you cannot do that first you shouldn't look for someomne else to 'complete' you. Everytime I see that phrase "I look for my other half" I cringe. Another half human, a person looking to lean on someone else because of their own inadequacies.
I am done - for now!!
I await your response. IF you have one.
Izi, I doubt that the person who posted is FSU. I have corresponded with a number of ladies with various abilities with English, I have yet to correspond with one that had the level of competency that this person has. I suspect a western female here. Just an observation.
Oh by the way. 2 more ladies tonight wrote to me from Kherson and very much want to meet me. Very lovely ladies a dentist and a police woman. Very beautiful as I said and extremely keen to meet me. Also got another ladies phone number in Kherson via Fiance.com. That is 3 in one day. God, I, and my letters and profiles are repulsive.
NOT - I think :))
So for those doubting Fiance's staying power think again it is one of the all time GREAT sites for FSU women.
"I am about to go for my second time. My buddy Jay is put there now on trip 6. JMO how many times did you go? How about you Maxi? Gladiator how many times? Jet spent thousands on trips out there. So you pay nothing you get nothing???????? What on Earth are you talking about??"
in answer to the above,I started in late 1999,and concluded my search (happily) last year,making a total of 7 trips,expensive?....yes,but the outcome for me was far more than I could have hoped for at the outset.
And I agree with Bill too about the level of competence shown in FSU's post.
Hi, guys! Thank you for writing me back! You all are wound up, as I can see :)!! Great! Keep going! Sorry, if my English is not good enough 4 you:(
Well, too many questions...I'll try to answer them all, but not in one go. About obesity. Nobody likes it. Neither I do. But to point it out in such a manner is psychologically wrong, don't you find it? I tried to to put myself in "her" boots to see how I would feel. I would definitely feel humilated. Particularly by your :"...I would strongly suggest that if you are overweight and you put 'average' on your profile you change it. Sooner or later it will come out ..."
In my humble opinion it's just a 2 seconds job to look at "her" pic and if you don't like what you see to send her autoreply:" Sorry, I am not interested. Thank you for the letter anyway", isn't it? At least I always did it when I happened to get letters from blacks. Do you think it would sound better if I put in my profile:"Blacks, do not bother me with your notes"? Do you find it being well-mannered to show your preferences in such a way?
Well, have to go now. I will get in touch soon. And please remember, I am not your enemy, I just want you to be a bit more realistic in your expectations . "It will avoid disappointment for everyone." Cheers.