Please do not retire at least grace us every now and then.
I get my passport after 3 months of waiting and today was
A great day then bam I come here and people are falling part
We all need to pull together, I need you Rat Bastards comments
to keep dreams alive and to learn from you guy's.
Don't pull the plug like we are turds being flushed down the toilet.
whats next no Iz no Nas No Thunder. Then what the rest of the guy's
I have respect for?
What the F--- is this world comming to?
As above.
Once I again establish a solid relationship as I had with Marina I will also dissapear exactly as I did before.
I have been active here lately because I am between projects at work and have not been assigned a new work load yet. So I have time to write.
I spend considerable time writing to ladies, agencies etc. I wish I was in Nasfan's or Ditto's shoes. Hopefully after my trip to Kherson I will be. Who knows?
Change is indeed inevitable. Relationships end others start. People change locations as has QC. People come and people go.
Unlike some folks who have input on this forum lately I believe that a good, sound loving relationship is possible with a women from Russia or Ukraine. It is not easy though. These women are not push overs waiting for some western white knight to sweep them off their feet. More myth propagated by the websites.
Love can rise up anywhere between a man and a woman over-riding age, language, culture and distance.
Sometimes it is right there at your back door and you didn't even realize it.
For all the failure out there, and let us face it I am one of the most glaring failures on this forum, there is also the hope of success. My friend Jay is in Kherson right now in a remarkable situation. I have a lady that I am friends with in Kharkov. In both cases there is a magic that is happening that can not be described. It is worth the 30 hour journeys, the scrimping to find the cash and the massive amount of time spent at the keyboard and on the phone.
You have seen despair from me on this forum, also my happiness and naivity. I display it for all to see.
I will continue to be this lightning rod until I settle. I hope that is soon just as Nasfan and Ditto.
Good luck guys. And you Neon, Trad and Gladiator. Despite all the nay saying that happens here including from me sometimes this can and does work. Just hope I am next.
DUDE!!!!!!!!! You know ..most of the people here never do end up meeting there girl, its almost ...an addiction, you talk to a girl get excited it doesnt work out and you do it agian and repeat the process, granted you might meet one or to of them you will find a reason to make it not work out so you can get back to the internet messaging with a foriegn girl. Its like porn,..its addictive.
BK
I know what you are talking about but I disagree. I stopped in my tracks when I met Marina and when I find the next one that I focus on it will be the same. I think the kid in the candy store syndrome is for the younger ones only.
Izi
Women really are an addiction that is hard to break,unless this late in the game you just go over to the other side to become a lithping,runway walking Nellie-Boy. This is also what could happen if you watch too much of "Will and Grace" on the telly. One day you are denouncing the homos,the next you are standing with your hands pointed backwards on your hips like a woman. But they are ( women) like a train--there`s always another to come along-although not every 15 minutes. I started dating another woman here at home since 2 days ago,but have made it clear that I am not trying to commit to her. She is a pleasant woman who is not at all the American bee-itch which we all seem to know so well,and this makes me reanalyze myself. I am feeling strangely like Toad,and wearing down in the emotional struggle. But I have not quit yet. I seem to get so close to the goal,and then everything falls apart. If not for this,I would have to say life is damn good and I should not bellyache. I feel like emotional revenge on a woman,but to harbor negativity in myself is like some kind of low-thinking demon which entangles my spirit and makes me feel the wrinkles on my face grow ever slightly deeper,even as my hair falls out and turns grey on my eyebrows. OKM--good to see you here--I am excited about your trip,and hope you will make a full report of it here!! Take it easy guys!! Blaine