I have been on the website for about 6 months now and I have been contacted by 3 of the Wow girls. I am just curious if they really exist. I think I am an attractive guy but the fact that three of the current Wow girls are in touch with me makes me wonder. I am either very desirable or maybe I am the next mark to be taken. I hope I am just being paranoid but I got suckered once when I was first going through my divorce. I want to make sure that will not happen again. I hope to get some feedback on this.
I contacted one girl that was on the Wow list but two contacted me. I am 38 in fairly good shape a little better than average looks but not what most women would call a hunk. I own my own business but I am not what I would consider rich. I am very upfront about my beliefs as a Christian and that I’m looking for the same beliefs in a partner. I have been honest with them about the fact that I have been through a divorce. I have talked with them a lot about their families and the way they were brought up when they were children. I don't know of anything else that really would make me stand out.
I appreciate your advice I was on another website and got burned. They did not have any kind of forum like this site has. I consider myself to be a fairly intelligent guy but besides hurting my pride it cost me about $1500. I sent it for her to get a visa and visit me in the states. The money got delivered and she disappeared from the website. I got comfortable with here after about 4 months of letters back and forth plus we exchanged pictures. I will say that whether she was real or not the women they were using for the pictures was a 10.
I will definitely visit the forum a lot more often. I have already found tons of good info for the future. It may be an off the wall idea but is there anyway that we can pool our resources when in comes to plane fairs and accommodations in Russia. I have always been taught that there is strength in numbers. I do not know if it is practical but I just thought I would put that out there.
I have this to say about the ladies that I have met so far they are very polite and respectful. I have to add that I have never seen so many beautiful women on one site either. It just blows my mind that they have problems finding decent husbands.
(Queeengirl) I am not sure whom you are or how to find out who you are but if you would like for me to contact you let me know.
Well Jimmy,
If it was WOW girl Olga Kurchina 48804 she was just promptly removed from her throne because she was collecting private e-mail adresses from us and was selling them to other agencies . Those women from Lugansk just don`t give up do they?
i been avoiding the wow girls like the plauge. They must be gettin a dozen mails from guys every day. Most letters are probably not even read by the lady... sounds like a waste of time
Well jeez, Jim, I'm thinking about becoming a Russian Girl and looking up your profile ;)
In retrospect, I'm probably too young for a wow girl.
It's okay though, I'm happy struggling to communicate with my new err... girlfriend? I mean, no, we haven't talked about it yet and, come to think of it, she did ask me if I had in pets the last 3 letters in a row. But there's love there, don't hate on our beautiful relationship.
I appreciate your input guy's. I have had fairly good two-way communication with two of the WOW girls. I have also been called several other names besides my own by some of the girls on the service. I know they are talking to other guys but they also know we are talking to other girls. I am just a little paranoid and I wanted to know if anyone had first hand knowledge about the WOW girls.
I was thinking of paying one or two of the girls a visit this winter when things slow down for me. I have heard they have rough winters over there. Has anyone gone over during the winter months and how bad is the weather? I was just curious if you save enough money to make it worth going in the winter.
I have been contacted by 2 girls from the WOW section. Both quite genuine.
The first ended up telling me that she was not "mentally" ready to leave her country.
Time waster
as per my post in "what's the procedure" thread.
The other was a nice lady about 40 that I have not entered into any real relationship with.
You must understand that the databases are littered with time wasters and scammers.
There are so many permutations to this it would take forever to write them all down.
I have a list of questions that I ask right up front.
Are you willing to leave your country? FOREVER?
Are you willing to sign a marriage contract?
Do you want a baby?
What will you do for a living in America?
and on and on
Then there are the keyboard Juliets. Yes you heard me right. All you hear about is keyboard Romeos right? Well the reverse is true in about the same quantities.
They want attention and love without the commitment. These are your moonlight walks on the beach types. I jettison them on sight.
Try asking them a simple question and they will run around in circles as they tell you that they are listening to the rain running down the window as they think of you.
Vomit!!
Just ask - "do you have permission from your child's father to leave the country?"
You will not get an answer. Just rainbows and ribbons.
Look out !!
Thanks Dag I will use some of the questions you gave me. I am very interested in one woman who is widowed and has a son. I have enjoyed talking with her even though most of what she has sent goes through an interpreter. I am not sure how difficult it is to get past the language barrier but it is a concern I have. It lists her English level as a 3 which according to the scale is not very high. I just wonder if there is enough of a language barrier to just move on or see where it leads. Her son is about 9 and I wonder if he speaks English. I plan on asking that in my next letter. If anyone has first hand knowledge about this I am all ears.
Jim
Don't worry about the language that is not the issue. The real issue in her case is can she get the permission in an afidavit from the child's father to leave the country. Apparently according to my friend it is possible but you will then have to deal with the Ukrainian/Russian court system and hire an attorney.
Do you want to do that??
So right up fron t I ask that question. You would be surprised at the number of wome that know all about this and have it taken care of. Some others are not aware and one I met in Moscow actually thought it was funny. I thinki she is still on EWM wasting everybodies time. Cocoa2005. Nice lady but another time waster.
Yep still there I just checked.
Incidentally when I call a woman a time waster it isn't anything derogatory. They are usually very nice women but for reasons best known only to themselves are wasting everybodies time.
Thank god they are not all like that.