I was looking at these love tours that fiance.com offer. One is a custom tour with your ladies and the other is a big social through Anastasia tours. I was wondering of anyone has done either of these and how it has worked for them? Is it better to organize a tour with your lady to a place like Kiev or go on your own?
Coach, I was torn between the two. I talked to a few guys that went by themselves and some found out that they didn't have chemistry with the girls that they had been writing with. A lot of guys suggested that if you don't go on a tour, at least go the same time a tour is being held in that city. The company A Foreign Affair loveme.com seemed to have some good tours and a wide selection in dates. They'll send you a free dvd as well. Sometimes the group rates that these tour companies get are cheaper in airfare & hotel stay even if you don't go to the socials.
get accomodation on your own or fill in Custom Tour Request Form at fiance.com. we will send you our prices. in case if something doesn't work out with your girl you can attend socials. look at fiance.com Love tours - Anastasiya Tours - Tours dates and prices - Land only or Socials Only options.
"Cattle-call" Socials are anything but. You won't find ANYTHING resembling a cow there. Just a lot of beautiful women the likes of which would not give many of us (me anyway) the time of day in the US.
Actually, I did try a social once last year, so I am "knocking" it on the basis of having tried it.
While I did receive the time of day from many beautiful women--which was a nice ego boost--overall I found the experience to be artificial and rather degrading, both for me and the ladies. There just seemed to be an air of desperation about the whole thing that I found distasteful. Sure, you might feel like a king for the night being one of ten men in a room of 100 women, but to me, that is not an environment that seems conducive to starting a serious long-term relationship.
I met two ladies that I kept in touch with and saw again, but I felt like they never really trusted me after they'd personally witnessed me talking to girl after girl at the social. It is always a touchy thing when you meet more than one girl on a trip, but at least when you meet them one at a time the other girls don't witness it, even if they know it is going on.
However, as always, I am just offering my experience.