Leaving you did with saying cheers, but when returning surely you can say more than "Hmmm". For instance, where the heck do you get 3 months vacation from, because 'my work' really does not qualify as an answer. In fact that normally is taken by someone else after such a period of absence.... unless you ARE that elusive Father ;-)
The 3 month vacation is a benefit I have this year, and also next year, but then I will go back to normal 5 or 6 week vacation as most people do here in Norway. Send me a mail Thunder, and I will tell you the truth about the vacation. I don't want to tell too much about myself and go into the same trap as someone else have done here lately..
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To all who care...
My summer has been really great guys. I have been with this wonderful Estonian woman a lot.. I was in Estonia a lot, She came here a lot.. Really great! So far she have made me really happy! There are some obstackles, but we will see how it will turn out in the end. I really like her. She went home again just last weekend, and right now I feel a little empty... paralyzed.. But it will be ok. I think it is healthy to miss someone for a while, then you appreciate the person even more when you are together... I wont say this will last, I just hope so... She is really wonderful! But as I said there are some obstackles.. I have moved further away, and for some reason my ex also moved.. -to the same city!!!! And this makes things a little difficult.. Even if I tell my Eesti woman that it has nothing to say for us, she have a hard time believing it... She is afraid I am not over my ex... So how to convince her? Anyone?? I really hope it will work out. We have talked about her moving here, so right now I am checking the options she has when it comes to work.. She really wants to work, or else she would climb the walls.. I can understand that, I think I would have done the same in her situation... So far everything great, more than great actually.. but there are these small things that bothers me a little, and probably Her even more... But when we are together we forget all about this... sweet.. isn't it?? hehe
Its fantastic that things are great for you. And its typical estonian : climb the walls without working...protestant working etics you know! And isnt estonia lovely country...at least in summer! I hope you dont moan any more that estonia is too westernized and wumen too spoiled :)
Nor:
first of all,good to see you back,and I'm glad things are progressing on the romantic front...I chuckled a little reading that your estonian lady was not 100% convinced that you were over your ex....especially as you both moved to the same city.I found myself in a similar situation when my wife came here to the UK.
My ex and I still live in the same city and to be fair we still get on ok...(kids involved of course),and it took a while before Inna finally accepted that the past was in the past,and not an ongoing thing.The only advice is can give you is patience.......patience......and more patience.But trust me when they do realise that you have moved on things will improve.In my case the atmosphere is still frosty to say the least when we have contact but that is something I can live with.
Being the diplomat that you are my friend I am absolutely sure you will have no problems...:))
Have I ever said that Estonian women are too westernized and spoiled? I don't think so, but I know I have referred to one Estonian female this way... one person.. and she really was!! Her best friends were Gucci and Armani I think... But I know the majority is lovely people! When it comes to Tallinn, the city, I think I have said from time to time that it is quite westernized with all the foreign business and so on... Arrest me if I am wrong...
Estonia is a wonderful country!! I really love it, and don't be surprised if I one day tell you I will move there... -I have been thinking about it... Just love the place! The beaches is really great, really great sand.. soft and warm under the feet... Yes, Annika - It is wonderful in the summers!!!
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Glad :)
I wish, and I also believe you are right my friend! I just hope she will understand this before it is too late... It worries me a little, but I promise to be patience and wait.. The problem is that my Eesti woman is quite hasty... We both really like eachother, we had a great summer together, not once did we have a conflict, and it was not like just one decided everything. We worked as a team all the way. It was amazing to be honest, everything felt so right with this woman, and she felt the same about me. But there are some obstackles against our odds (more than just my ex), I just hope we can get through them and go on into the future together. Glad, thank you for the words, you just gave me some extra inspiration :)