I'm sorry, but this just seems way too much like a wasted pursuit. I look at this site and see 19 year olds looking to get married to an attractive, adventurous, wealthy, blah blah blah that's 35-45 years old. forgive me if I say something smells rotten in denmark.
I'ts a speil of B.S. and if you can't tell it's a shameful state of life and your already without hope. So go ahead and work your pointless job for the rest of your life with no one to love more than your own life.. go ahead and forget any reason for living, you exist, that's all that matters right? forget happiness, forget joy, forget love and definatly forget a mutually obsessive possesive sacraficial enduring love. It's a damn duckshoot out there with no shot! your chasing shadows and memories hoping to complete a life that should be lived NOW to the fullest, not looking to the falling stars to make you whole.
I aplogize if I'm totaly in the wrong, but i don't think I am. Girls/Women, aren't looking to get married and move to a whole other country at the age of 19-25. Speaking as a member of the age bracket at least I don't see how any can be serious about anything thay say.
thanks for the attempted discussion Geriatrix, unlike the other one liners here your's seems to be the most thought out and debate oriented. It is truly unfortunate that so many simply brush aside what they don't like, or can't understand, as being inferior and misleading. For those of you living in your Black and White Universe let me say welcome to the Grey area. While this may be unknown to many it does in fact exist..it is in this area that true discussion, debate and conciliation creates the minimalist vewpoints of your Black/White Universe. So for those who have judged my post with such vindictive swiftness, thank you. You have proven to me my own point.
Were you to actually attempt to engage in a spirited debate, your post would have been more appropriately been sung on the note of geriatrix's response.
Also, thank you for your true concern unclebuck, yours is a heartfelt compassion for your fellow being. Also, like people everywhere, revolutions are for revolutionaries, wars are for warmongers, peace is for peace makers. but Ideas of your sort, are for Idealists, welcome to reality.
Okay, I finally got a chance to choke down your shitty and laborous original post.
Look... why are you here posting your whiny bitch complaints instead of living in the now and loving a mutually possesive love or whatever the f**k you said.
See, a lot of us are seriously thinking of marrying a FSU lady. A lot of us have and are happy. I've developed good connections with 2 great ladies in a little under two months here and am visiting one at the end of the month.
You come here and make a hugely judgemental and arrogant post about how we are wasting our lives in the pursuit, then you come back and are so indignant about being judged by your post. What the f**k is that?
Look, I'm not gonna go into detail about why I want a FSU wife (unless I get really drunk one night) but if you don't think it's a valid pursuit, then get lost. Don't try and tell me what I should and shouldn't be doing, or what life/love is/isn't.
Son, you don't know shit about life and you sure as hell don't know shit about me so go beat off to Yahoo Personals or something and leave us alone.
Nineblue,
What does it matter to you what we do anyway. We all have our pursuits in life and those on this site do just that. Why throw stones nineblue ? Are we bothering you ? Do we butt into your life ???? .... no we don't, so why do you wish to piss on our parade ? Live your life the way you see fit and we will live ours............ Nuff said !!!!!!!!!!
Blue
I am willing to discuss whatever you want and I will not insult you. Within time limits.
You seem very jaded but you have not shared why you feel this way. Why so disillusioned? You blanket all these women with the same brush.
Even 18 & 19 year od girls run into the same problems that their older counterparts do.
Alcoholism, infidelity, gambling and a desire for total indifference and domination by the men. So they look abroad.
Do they wish to go somewhere that can provide more opportunities and comfort? Of course they do wouldn't you?
I agree that one has to be careful not to be sucked into the lies that the websites propogate but within reason it is completely possible to find a lady out there. So many have done this. It is a process that is loaded with landmines but finding a American woman isn't?
I think the odds go up in my favor by looking there, I really do. I have met women there that would not give me the time of day here or are already married. Ususally to a really good looking guy with plenty of money.
What does that mean? It means that they used what they got to get what they want. Isn'tt hat exactly what the FSU women do? So what changed? In a word choice. I have a choice. I do not have to go with an overweight left over.
I can have a sincere beautiful wife who will work with me not against me. Any underlying worries I have is taken care of with a marriage contract. Hopefully it can be torn up after a few years. So don't be so negative my friend it isn't that bad.
So many people get depressed in the search for an appropriate mate. Don't let it get you down. Many of us have lost so much of ourselves that we all spout a little bile once in a while.
The secret is to turn each stumbling block into a stepping stone. We can find what we seek, but only if we keep at it and don't fall prey to "failure syndrome". Remember the tests on sacran and how the "Authorities" stated it was bad for us until we found out that they fed some poor rat a pound of the crap a day.
The people who write here sometimes don't have time to weite in detail so the punch in a short note.