Hello,
I am a new fellow in this forum. I have a question about tipping in restaurants, is it common, is it done by Russian/Ukrainian customers too? I was in St Petersburg recently and could not get a real picture of what is the case. And in Ukraine (Odessa) women I met insisted that I tip the waiter.
Of course you have to tip!! I didn't at one restaurant, but that had to do with lousy service - Food took too long, and when we finally got the food it was not what we had ordered and so on, then she spilled wine on my ex-wifes dress... they just did not deserve it. But you should always tip. I don't care about that 10% rule, I tip what I feel they deserve for the service... sometimes more sometimes less...
Good luck trying to give a fair tip (by western standards) in an FSU restaurant.
Ladies I have been with became completely peaved when I gave more than the equivalent of 20 or 30 cents with a $40 meal. I've seen ladies (or their mothers in my case) snatch it from the table and ask who I was trying to impress when leaving $6 for service on a $40 check - of course this was a time when the service was excellent and the waitress deserved the fair tip.
I have experienced the same in Russia with my lady. She would never let me leave more than about 60 or 70 cents, usually 20 rubles. She would always tell me it is enough. Then I would leave more anyway as long as the service was reasonable.
I use Larissa's equation. 160 Grivnas for meal 15 Grivnas tip, A little less than that standard 15% in America. An exceptional waiter can live pretty decent in Mariupol, especially if he works in one of the better restaurants.
Careful you do not export American tipping habits to other countries. You just copy a system that is corrupt. I don't tip for my garbage to be collected. I don't tip for my laundry to be washed and I don't tip for a host of other services. In any other field it is unheard of and I never experienced it in St.P or Moscow. Stop perpetuating this ridiculous 'tax'. It is a con. QC
Gee QC have you spent much time Watching Reservoir Dogs? Tipping is not a tax. A tax is money taking away from you without reservation. Like income taxes. People fall for that con. I've always said more people would be pissed about the ripoff of income taxes if they had to pay it in one lump sum at the end of the year. Instead of incrementally. Funny how a graduated income tax is one of the ten planks of the communist manifesto.
I Tip, as I feel sorry for the staff because I know the peanuts they get paid and their boss's get fatter. My Lena only allowed me to tip if we got reasonable service.
But in all honesty - the staff never seemed very grateful - I almost got the impression that 10% was less than they expected. But I know most of their own people tipped 0% of the check !!
Don't know how you conclude tipping being a Tax - QC