I do not like pointing the finger--2nd time around with her. A simple Google search should satisfy the most naive of seekers. Administrators? A joke on me.
I received a letter from her today for the first time. There is nothing about it that indicates any wrong doing . She asked for nothing . Am i missing something about her?
She even forgot my name this third time around. When I started to quiz her about her methods of acquiring a tourist visa,she vanished. I was sincerely curious--not sceptical. This was over a year ago. She was the first woman I communicated with who did not ask outright for money. I felt that she was a professional dater,or a vacationer. But dude from Russian Brides Cyber Guide has money talk in his connections with her. I do not like to bring up this ugliness to you guys,and I have always had a kind of disdain for squealers--but I have come to realize that many sites-even though they do find these girls out-- even ultimately expelling them,do nothing to warn the men who are currently being bamboozled. After all,we all had to discover or be told at some point in time,about the date scam sites, or how to Google search. I actually searched "Olga from Zvenigovo" to find her,because the name Sergeeva is popular.I still feel a little sorry for these women,I do not know why. It is like the sympathy of the rabbit for the fox.
She has done this before and I am sure she has caught quite a few people in the process. She found me on a yahoo personals site. She has made a few investments to accomplish her ploy.. I want to find her and have her prosecuted... has anyone tried to accomplish this??? Let me know..
I have been communicating with her for almost 2 weeks very cautiously , until it came time for her to make travel arrangements, then all of a sudden she needed money for this... she was very sincere and very smoth, I had told her about my inability to afford many things due to enroliling into college at the age of 42 and using all extra money to do that... she only answersa the questions that she wants to, but the emails aree always sent at the same time every day, and if you go into the message source ( must use outlook express to do this ) it is going through several other emails addresses and systems...it is interesting I can forward some of these to anyone who really knows how to track these emails... I am forwarding them to yahoo customer service for assistance as well.
People don't realize that the true scam if there is one in the works shows up well after the day of the wedding. She / they tried to scam you on email, big deal, if you're stupid, you'll send her money, if you're not you'll pass.
Some women (maybe many) come to the U.S. with the intention to stay with the current spouse or find a better one. They think they've got nothing to lose, that's a big plus on their side. They go to the husband's home country, then they first assess his situation, is he good in this and that? does he have money and prospects? then this sort of woman assesses her own situation, what is she worth in the market? are others checking her out, she connects with other FSU women and learns from them as well. She uses the husband as a bedrock (can always stick with him if nothing else pans out), as a stepping stone to the green card, and as a means to buy her time to learn her new environment, how things work in the new country, the language, job skills, connections, etc. Through connections, she may even find an exit form her marriage if one is necessary. If nothing seems more appealing, she may stick with the original spouse.
This is a real fact that has been played ever and over again in many cases. Both parties are to blame, more so the unrealistic (stupid?) man who lives in his own fantasyland and sees only the things that he wants to see, believes only the things that he wants to believe. Ok if she didn't scam you on emails, you're safe or are you?