About 4 months ago i came to this site voicing the exact views I have been voicing this week. I had people attacking me saying i was wrong. Funny now how some of these people have since written stories of break downs in their relationships because they feared being scammed.
I hope that you are not counting MY situation (what could be coosidered a relationship "breakdown") among those that are the result of someone being scammed.
There was NO scam involved in my troubles - perhaps some level of incompatablity but cerainly NO SCAM.
There are a variety of reason for us men to be here - quite frankly some of us will NEVER succeed in out hoped for romantic relationship because (in those cases) the problem lies with US. Some of us simply set our sights too high - or become overly demanding, and we'll go alone before we settle for what we realistically can attain.
Some of us ar gullable and WILL be scammed (there are so many ways possible).
I have to admit I have not been reading all the posts lately as I have been busy with my own realtionship abnd for that reason I am not quite certain as what your angle is.
But for some guys this is the perfect avenue to find love and happiness.
Again--what is your angle--or purpose in being so negative,Vanechka? Are you hurting from a broken relationship? Have you lost all belief in the goodness in other people? Most of these guys know they are fighting the poor odds of success in their endeavors. But did this ever stop a person who has a winning attitude? My experience is that I fall down--I get back up again--I fall down,I get back up again. It is only when I cannot pick myself up that I will concede defeat or failure. And this has never happened yet. WInners never quit. WHiners do though.I do not count the blessings in life as toys or material gains. I reflect on experiences,and the more I experience,the more full my life is. Getting ripped-off or hurt in an emotional experience is always a possibility--but putting ones hand in the meat grinder is always a physical experience with a more definite outcome. Jet is exactly right--we can be emotionally,financially,physically scammed. But we can not be beat down and left rotting in our fear of failure---unless we give up the dream,and perceive ourselves to be unworthy of love.
How easily you paint everyone's relationships failure with accusations of scamming on the part of FSU women.
Nothing could be farther from that in my case.
I have no doubts that you're one of the many FSU men out there who sees his country's women leave again and again because they find think so lowly of their countrymen that would willingly risk seeking happiness elsewhere in the world.
Right on nasfan6 but shhhh.. will ya. These idiots might realise they don't have to continue to publicly humiliate themselves if they knew they could have more. lmfao!
What is it about this forum that seems to encourage cowardly snipers? We seem to get them from time to time - sometimes our own once-respected-members, who come back under different names (in two cases under their regular names) to begin taking potshots at those who once respected them?
It it the anonymity they enjoy? That no matter what they say they cannot be found out and (evidently) our moderator can do little to stop them?
Or have their fragile little feeling been hurt and now - rather than kick the dog - they seek to get REVENGE - from behind the safety of their keyboards?
You have told us about your marriage to a Ukranian woman that did not work, and you have blamed the problems in your former marriage on the inherent impossibility of remaining married to a (lazy, scamming, duplicitous) Ukranian woman.
Since you have been posting on the forum recently you have been truly obnoxious, asinine, and immature--gloating over the misfortune of others and resorting to cowardly and childish insults.
Is this how you also act in person? If so, I can't help but wonder if the failure of your marriage had little to do with cultural factors. Maybe your ex-wife wanted to go back to Ukraine because she had to put up with the same personality and behaviors that you are unfortunately now forcing on this forum.
Do us all a favor, instead of posting here, spend that time looking in the mirror and trying to come to terms with the fact that you have some serious personality problems.
ive never being married to a Ukrainian woman where did you get that bullshit from????
I tasted ukrainian girls. me and a group of friends..fget me for a minute because according to dad's army Im a prick....but my friends are all nice decent guys... Allof them brought back a woman and the woman all went back to Ukraine..
VNVnation you are naive man ... are you the shepard or the sheep
OK,
Let's make a point on reality. Vain offered to wager his house that I wouldn't remain married with my wife 5 years from now, I accepted the wager and offered to throw my house into the wager also.
Asking for lawyer details Vain ran away from the 'big mouth' wager that he had offered, like a little schoolchild, yet continues in his big mouthed ways.
Vain, put your money (your house) where your mouth is or F..ck Off!
vanechka, this process has full of potholes. Scammers will always be around. On this forum we support each other with the information we need to avoid some of the potholes in the road. Marrige abroad does work for some who try it.
No matter where you decide to marry, you always take the risk of heartbreak. It is the nature of love. You fail to realize the joy that most feel when they are successful. If even a small handful who try their hand at this are wildly successful and being married to a foriegn bride creates happiness for them, why shoud we discourage any means that achieves this lofty goal.
vivalasvegas I agree
But my point is that for western men like you its hard enough fucken getting through all the scammer woman then to have to deal with corrupt agencies... the agency in future who scrutinizes girls like i suggest will; be the ones that might be able to say they "offer" a service"... You want western guys to work together??? then I suggest you all stop spending money at places like Anastasia web , hotrussian brides and all the other corrupt credit fake generating sites...
Just so you all know every sexy girl on Hotrussianbride.com is fake.
When i see more balanced argument on here ill fucken shut up/
Interesting thread, someone was married three years ago??? Wow someone emailed this to me, or was it I contacted some woman in Adeliade and they gave me the goods on someone. Real interesting stuff here.
Guys! Did you ever think that the ukrainian woman is a person like you. Not a just beautiful barbie face, but she has a good heart and a great spirit too.
My ex told me that I can't survive without him in the US. What bs...
I can and I make this with two kids and a grandma. I don't need to stay 8 hours on some boring office or Wmart.
I have two great business on the Internet, write books and with FREEDOM in the US I can go to any country for vacation.