Some of foreign men are very strange. For example, during 4 years i communicated by e-mail and phone calls with an american, though we met in Russia. He didn't want to come and see me, he wanted me to go to the USA instead. So, i had problems with visa...then a pause, i felt him become estranged and decided to talk to him seriously. He told me that he was in his work (it's the most important thing in his life) just liked to get emails and calls from me... very nice behaviour, isn't it?
Kiska,
One of the most popular TV shows in the last few years in the US is called "Sex in the City".
It depicts the sex and dating lives of four single women in New York.
One of the funniest episodes had one of the ladies complaining that this man she liked so much did not call her cell phone, did not e-mail her, did not leave a message at her office or home phones, did not send flowers, did not send a message any other way, did not stop by to say 'hi'...even after she had spend the night with him having what she describe as the most satisfying sex of her life.
This monologue went on and on and on for what looked like an eternity until the only man sitting at the table with these four women dropped an atomic bomb on them by simply saying: "...HE IS NOT INTO YOU..."
They could not believe the simplicity of such revelations...Left them all speechless, lol.
When any man, no matter where he is from tells you his work is the most important thing in his life simply means YOU have not yet become the most important thing in his life. That's all.
Women use the same techniques when they claim "My Family is the most important thing in my life"... There is nothing UNnice about it, either way. It's just the way it is to let the other person know they have not yet achieved "franchise player" status. Not yet, at least.
When a man tells you he is "Not ready for marriage yet" it means he is not ready for marriage TO YOU. And probably never will be for whatever reason.
Let's look at some of the facts. There are more women than men in FSU, during WWII, Russia lost 27 million citizens to the war, compared to less 10% of that for USA, russia male population still has not recovered. During my last trip in russia, I heard on a russian tv station (in russian so it was not american hipe) that 70% of the male population of russia has a serious alcohol problem.
Next fact, russian women are raised to value family and taught from young age that without a family, you are not whole woman.
These facts along with the economic and social factors causes thousands of FSU women seek forgein men. Some may be more economic minded, some more romance minded, some want to escape russia, some parts of all these, etc. The point is, most of them are true and not scammers.
Go see them, you may never return to western women again, I won't.
Please pay attention at a Norwegian man 49 years old, name Ole, Stavanger city, married, intelligent, handsome, businessman, accounting and audit business, loving to write, talk and the girls to cheer up him all the time as if to encourage him to start geting divorce. All this is not truth. He will never make it, only writes, promises, tells any sweet dreams, and then as practise shows finish the correspondence with crazy tears and offence.
He probably wasn't into his work so much as his wife did some snooping in his computer. LOL!!I dislike players on the male side as I do scammers on the females side or vice versa which ever works.
As Larisa has told me many times, she doesn't find foreign men strange, she finds all men strange!! That's what I adore about her, she understands there is a difference between men and women and the fallibility of both sexes.