In America (maybe other countries) it is common for guys to put ladies in a bracket between 1 and 10; a 10 being a goddess and a one being a troll with 5 about average. Sure, this is a bit male piggish but I need this scale for my question.
I am exchanging email with three women from FSU, two I would rate as very attractive, an 8 on the 1-10 scale and one is a knock out 10. All three seems geniunely interested in me, all have good qualities and some bad. One of the "8's" is a bit more eager than the other two but all three are fine choices.
I want to visit only one in Russia, it is just my preference. As some remember, my last lady was a 10.
Let's face it, I can get a date in America. I am moderately successful with a good income and assests and liabilities. I can easily get a date with a 6, somedays with a 7 and maybe on a good day an 8 here in America (if you need to know, girls would rate me as maybe a 5 or 6). Never could I do a 10 in America, they (the 10's) just have to many choices and a short guy does not ever register on their radar.
Of course, I am not going to marry a "10" just because she is a "10" but is it so bad to want a "10". If faced with the choice of visiting one of three ladies, would you choose the "10" or one of the "8's"
thanks martin but I have had many times I was "over served" and never in wildest nightmare would do a 3, much less a 1, but never did 1- pints of volka, maybe they look better after 10 pints volka
Regarding a "1" (USA) - whatever quantity of beer would be required to make reasonable consideration to "give her one", I am thankful that I would, no doubt, pass out before actually commiting the act.
And I think a statement to that effect was a part of Darwin's original treatise.
If you already know your own answer, why are you asking?
I have had long-term relationships with 10's and, based on those experiences, prefer 8's. A 10 knows intuitively that she can have any man at any time; she knows that she has a certain power over men. Paradoxically, she will also often have a latent insecurity. This leads to a lot of biazrre behaviors--acting out, insecurity, jealousy.
How can she be insecure when she's a 10? I can't fathom the female mind, but it has something to do with the fact that she thinks you like her only for her appearance. Seemingly for no reason, she will be insecure--clingy and distant at the same time. However, in the back of her mind, she's also constantly weighing her options--thinking that she can get a better man than you, because (see above) she can. Once she gets to America you don't think she'll realize this in no time?
Where does this leave you? Confused, anxious, resentful, afraid, stressed-out.
Guess you've never had this kind of experience before, so yeah, go for the 10!!!
Becasue the social power that they enjoy comes from nothing that they have accomplished. Its just THERE.
And as such, tomorrow it can be gone in an instant with a disfiguring injury etc. They may not be the brightest creatures on earth - but they are aware of THAT.
My advice is to find some way to see all three. If they are all in the same city then it could be tricky but it can be done. The good part about all of them being in the same city is you only have to travel to one place. The hard part is you may get caught. If that is a problem then you can try the honest card. Yes, I am meeting other women while I am here because it is a long way to travel and is very expensive only to invest everything into one woman I have not yet met in real. I have found most don't like it but respect your honesty. If they put up an argument then let them know you are well aware that she is probably writing more than one man. Trust me she is!!! It's all fair in love and war. To put all your eggs in one basket is a big mistake. Have a plan B!
If they are from different cities then have one or more meet you in the capital. Moscow or Kiev is perfect for this. Most girls will jump at the chance to go their capital city.
Cast,
Go see all three of them, lol...
Who knows?
They may all like one another as well and perhaps you'll end up with a 26 instead of only a 10 or two 8s.
The average is not that bad, either...almost a 9.
Its actually interesting I havent never heard about such kind of 1-10 thing nor in Holland (the Netherlands for Martin UK)not in UK nor in Estonia. Can I see site in the NET of it or its in the heads of people? How can somebody say girl is 6 not 7?????????????
Annika, actually in America this is so common a movie was made known as "10" starring Bo Derek.
It is a scale that is usually not shared with ladies, it is usually used by guys to explain how attractive or less attractive a girl was or is. Usually, it is a compliment; "she is a 10", or "my girl is a 8.7".
One must understand men are visual. This is just a fact of nature. We like beauty but after we see past the beauty, we will get to know the person and see the inner beauty.