I have not written here for awhile because I have been extremely busy.
You may recall, probably not, that I was new to all of this last year and I made many inquiries from you all, I thank-you for all the information that you had to share.
I did notice however that there was a lot of doom and gloom stories here, not surprisingly really as there are so many scamming agencies and girls. How are you to know who is who and what is what. Well the advise that I received from here was priceless. It made me aware of the dangers and what to look out for.
So this is my story.
I used confidentialconnections.com,,,,, hey stop, that was not a recommendation, no where near it. I did notice almost immediatley that this was going to be expensive eventhough english money goes a bit further than U.S. money.
Anyway I wrote to one or two but was really getting nothing out of it and going no-where. I stopped. Was going to forget this site until I saw a smile that I wont ever forget. It turned out to be one of the staff in one of thier offices, I didn't know at first. It turned out that she didn't even want her name and photo on the site but her then manager made her do it, threat of job loss and that sort of thing.
Anyway we met in Lutsk, Ukraine. We had a great 5 days. While there she quit her job because they treated both of us so badly, trying to get extra money out of me and things, I just told the guy to ****off, that seemed to work plus the fact that I think he knew I was about to punch his head in.
So I went back 7 or 8 weeks later and she has been to me in the U.K. twice for a total of 3 months. We are engaged to be married and everything is as it should be.
We decided to start our own agency, hey stop, Im not advertising and I'm not going to say the name of it unless you want it, dont want to be accussed of advertising here.
We thought that we could show everyone that an agency can be run honestly, without scamming and without the scamming girls and actually without un-real girls, you know the ones I mean, the ones that dont really exist in the agency but you get email from them anyway, costing you money to talk to a translator or something not far from that. ( those of you using CC might want to think about that, SERIOUSLY!)
Anyway the agency is up and running, so new in fact I have not even finished the site, so eager we were to get started. However we have girls ( a few) and men joining all the time, so it's good.
So this is a success story. Any of you thinking about giving up, well, all I can say is DONT. Just be more careful and watch out for the danger signs and think about what the so called girl is writing to you about. If it seems wrong, then it probably is. Have a critirea that each girl has got to meet, tests if you like. Send questions in your emails and expect the answers from her. Remember they like it when you are firm, not bloody nasty but just firm. Also if any girl asks for money, never, never, never send any. It is against thier culture to ask anyone outside of thier family to ask for money. So if you asked, forget the girl and move on to the next.
Don't give up, if i can find the one, then, so can you.
Go for it.
Cheers.
Well there was bound to be someone who thought like chrisc4, Im trying to tell you a success story nothing more than that and to say thank-you to those who helped me out. The other posts I replied to seemed relevant to me.
Tell you what chrisc4, i wont say the name of the site unless at least ten (10) people ask, will that make you feel better?
So 1 so far, nine to go.
jpj
Member
Send: 06.12.2005 16:37:20
i wont say the name of the site unless at least ten (10) people ask, will that make you feel better?
So 1 so far, nine to go.
jpj,
Had you made a solitary post then to gather 10 names might have taken a long time.
By blitzing the board, and boring us all in the process, you are going out and out to draw attention to yourself and your business.
You're doing yourself, your business, more harm than good, you were the 2nd jerk, within 2 days, to blitz the board whilst drawing attention to their business whilst it is a well known fact that any bona-fida business would advertise in a recognised manner and not attempt to advertise by stealth!
I think that maybe some of you have been here talking about what your going to do for far too long instead of going out and doing it. It doesn't take must to decide and then go and do but I suppose that would be too much for some of you, very sad. I decided what I was going to do and went and did and now I'm trying to do something right about the appallling situation with agencies these days. I haven't said the name because I didn't want to be acussed of advertising but low and behold some paranoid skeptics just think that way, well ok. If theres a way to withdraw my success story then I would do it, if there is then tell me.
Martin_uk, you were one of the people that helped me in the past, but hey a year later your still here. I merely wanted to give you a success story to maybe show all the doom and gloom merchants in here that it is possible to make it in the end. If you people cant see that then I guess you wouldn't be able to tell if your on a winner or not.
I wonder if maybe I came here in another years time, you, the same people who bitch at the slightest thing, maybe you will still be here in 1 year, 2 years and maybe spend the rest of your lives just bitchin and saying what your going to do instead of having the balls and go and do it. On the hand if you have been to a different country a multiple amount of times and still have no partner, maybe you should look at yourself, your faults instead of bitchin about others and their faults.
I wish I never bothered to come here again, you bloody sad people, (the ones who bitch).
So, I shan't bother you people again, I got better things to do.
Those who want to know the name can email me and I will tell them.
P.S. There are certain people who will be in this forum for many many years, for one reason or another. Can't do, wont do, no compromise, no balls. ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?
jpj,
If you were to remove your head from your ass, and take the time to read back before opening your gob, you would read that I am one very much for getting out there and doing it, this year alone I have been in Ukraine (FSU) 5 times, you?
No I'm not one of THEM, as you put it, I'm happily married and I'm not sure if I have been around this site as long as a year but then you're still here also aren't you jpj???
I just pop in for some comic relief during my working day, having some entertainment whilst offering, on occasions, constructive advice to others, what's your excuse for being here jpj???
hey jpj shall we all have a toss for you. The reality is 1 million western men have been in your position. its what happens after that you should be aware of not now. You havent seen the danger yet.... Youre getting married are you? you better get a good lawyer and some serious prenuptial agreements.... You will be back here in the near future with some debacle story that occured . I know your type naive . i think your native brother Martin has also initially brainwashed you .. lets see how long it takes before both of u dissapear off the list ashamed to tell how u both got shafted... whats in the water in UK
yeh great response idiot.... keep brainwashing people with your Elena's Petrova books...
"Russian girls are not femminists , work hard , are satisfied ," blah blah..
We need people like Annika here to tell the facts.... Not stupid gullible naive old men who marry russian woman with kids and brainwash telling the newbies here how great and easy it all is. And you can email the administrator of this site all day to get me banned .. it shows how weak you are... keep sweeping the facts under the carpet..
To answer martin,,,, I came back here merely to tell my good luck story, nothing more than that. Simple. If you are HAPPILY married then why be here at all and yes it was this time last year.
To answer vanechka, wow, your angry about something!
You sound like you have been bitten a few times to me. Anyway if you knew me and what I do, which you dont, then you would know that I am far from naive.
I have no idea where your from, I could guess and there's no reason to stick me in the same catagory as martin.
To answer annika77, simply, wasnt advertising. If i was then i would of emailed everyone. Dont be so quick to jump to the first conclusion that enters your mind.
Anyway, have a nice christmas if you believe in that sort of thing.
jpj,
Try reading my post above again, i'll copy & paste it here:
just pop in for some comic relief during my working day, having some entertainment whilst offering, on occasions, constructive advice to others, what's your excuse for being here jpj???