Things are going well with my lady interest. I admit that I have been to this stage before,and the ship has rocked without ever leaving the harbor,so now I am probably overly wary. I even cancelled my eastern trip to work and play in Mexico,because it is easily available for me,and the senoritas are very tempting. I was going to ask FSU female ( Doctress Love ) but I am testing the waters -so to speak to see if I can glean just a little non-lethal advice from this forum one more time. Here is my problem---Although things are going well,and she knows I am not playing the field for more prospective ladies ( isn`t one enough? Or is it ever enough?) I know that she still visits one site. I know this because I ( I am a little embarassed to write this) signed on to this site to see if she is still active there. Is this scurrilous behavior on my part? I have been thinking of confronting her on it,but things have gone so well that I do not want to cause her to believe I am suspicious and sneaky. Should I just leave this subject alone ? I am not lonely for female attention. I still date women and have friends among them,but tell them in no uncertain terms that my heart is set on one particular woman. I practice the bitter truth religiously. I surmise that many women simply do not take a guy really seriously until the moment they meet at the airport,so,the question is--do I just keep my big mouth shut,or do I do what I usually do--bluntly and without reservation,and possibly disrupt myself and her?
Spirit,
You could try a 'sneaky' amd write to her as an alias and from an alias hotmail/yahoo account that you can easily set up.
The truth often hurts but if you are to place all your eggs in one basket then better to know now, one way or the other, if your eggs are cracked or not.
be fair, of course she is keeping her options open, as are you, no matter what you write to each other, neither can hope to be exclusive untill you meet
Martin, i never once said I was leaving this forum, I only made comment on the pitiful state it had become. I have joined the other one because I am open minded. Maybe(shock) they will discuss serious items that are relevant. However, there still are some sensible posts on here and new people that join might want some serious help or advice
Good for you Trad.
I am under no impression of desertion. The readership of this forum is huge. All kinds of people from all over the world. However very few post. They just read. They have seen too much ass ripping and want no part of it.
How do I know?
Because they write to me and tell me. I was very surprised by this. When I said that I was sick of Annika's acidity and said I am leaving I was shocked at the number of people that wrote to me. I really didn't think people would give a rats ass. Apparently I was wrong.
It caused me to think because there was a repeated question over and over again.
This forum is turning into a sewer is there something that can be done.
At first I said I do not think so then I realised that the alternative was another forum minus trolls. I had no idea it would be so popular.
And so here we are.
Not a situation where we all left - no - just a private place away from the aggresion and bad manners shown her. The twisting of the truth by folks who have nothing better to do all day but wade through old posts and bend statements out of context and engage in warfare online. Posting false profiles onto other websites and blitzing every thread with attacks and drivel.
This would be you Martin. You really need to learn some social skills. It would definitely help.
Ok now I will sit and watch for the foaming reply.
Izifaddag you faggot your woman is a whore and a tart. You are a racist and a bigot. And, and and and........ :))
It is all just words Martin and can not really do any harm. I seem to get along with folks quite well and am not at war with anybody. Not even you. I just get to choose just like Tradman.
You see the way he declines to rise to your bait. That is because he is normal and doesn't have any personality problems. He is too busy with his lovely wife and new child and their life together.
You on the other hand........ :)))