Russian brides > Main Forum > The desperate 'kiddies' determined to bring this forum down in favour of their own kindergarten forum, izifaddag, nasfan6. jetmba, thunderdome .......... have succeeded
Well it has happened,
They escaped from their asylum and have brought this forum down, they are the only ones posting here. They pretend to befriend fiance.com and the moderator(s), except one that is who recently accused a moderator of being bisexual, but they don't care about anyone but themselves nor indeed the livelihood of the operators and staff of fiance.com.
I should, I'm not saying I will, but I should refrain from posting here for a period of time. A joke is a joke however earlier today a criminal offence took place in this forum, understood to have been committed by a resident of South Africa, and under police advice it has been suggested that I take further legal advise before posting further. I shall, however continue to monitor the forum to copy & paste any evidence as necessary.
wtrav02,
Can you send me email your email address to me.
Happy new year to the operators and staff of fiance.com and to my friends within this forum.
Martin, I am just writing to download your email. I will email you my current email address shortly. I did not expect to read such threats against your life or the life of anyone else's in this forum. None has the right to talk like this and expressing such outright and explicit hatred. It's indeed a criminal offence, which at least in the states is taken seriously and his IP could be disclosed under federal law. I don't know what the laws are where he lives. If he posts again in this forum, it means the moderators have not banned his IP. If this is the case, then the moderators have liability for allowing this individual possibly repeat the criminal offences he already committed ON RECORD.
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Thunderdome
Member Send: 30.12.2005 14:23:52
Balls?
I don't have the balls Marty my little man?
Give me a normal and realistic time & date & place and prove you'll be there, invite all friends you can muster (pun intended), and meet me. This is an ancient invite I repeat here (find it on datingtalk.info), openly, and absolutely will honour also. I'll buy the ticket an will incur the cost for this, it will be an utmost pleasure. The fact that you full well realize this was proven by your old cowardly excuse and beyond doubt is again by your current one below, for 1 simple reason - you're a coward Martin, brave on the screen only!
Except from showing you my balls I also will show you my hands. I promise I will not kick you once down, and quite likely I will leave your dentures (or remnant teeth) intact. I will also give you adequate time to remove your glasses and I will not bring any weapons on me, and trust me you will live afterwards. However, do ditto for I just might go berserk when I spot a blade or worse.
For the record: I also vote for Martin out.
He's got a non-varying IP-address hence this could be blocked, if not his Nick and subsequent new one's / variants.
Olga, Oleg, can we have a response (here, in the open!) from the powers that be? Powers yes, the owner(s), not you both for you have proven to be useless in this regard, sorry to say so but I think true also.***END QUOTE
After this post, he's got the nerve to request that the moderators ban your address ...
You sound like two little children in a schoolyard saying things like "It's a good thing karate classes went so well today." "You know, my mom knows a police officer. And he has a real gun!"
You guys have got to grow up.
You are supposedly MARRIED (at least one of you credibly) - that means you are supposed to be a GROWN-UP.
Yhis is a DATING SITE for Pete's sake. What part of that is LOST ON YOU? Its intended for ALL THE single PEOPLE YOU HAVE CHASED AWAY TO FIND what they are looking for! The forum might be free but the SINGLE GUYS< and DATING PART is how fiance.com makes their money.
Are you still going to high-school PROMS? Are you still cruising the Avenue for babes? You need to get on with your lives and go to the NEXT STEP!
jetmba, I may have engaged in intense political talk in this forum and may have said things you and others don't like to hear, but I truly don't wish anyone's personal harm or loss. We may make fun with each other, express differences in unique ways, but I have never read in this forum such hatred expressed so explicitely with threats against someone's life!!! and outright invitations with phrases that include the words guns and stabbing!!! We're not in war and I sonsider none here as my enemy in any respect.
Of course, the moderators whom Mr. Thunderdome calls "useless" in his post, rushed to protect him and themselves by deleting that post with lightspeed. Just happens I had a hunch they were going to do so and have made my documentation already:)
Insult as much as you want jetmba. This makes you the pathetic one.
And one more thing jetmba, by spending your whole life in this forum, you're searching for a woman, that is how you are conducting your search, by spending your whole day here::)) debating and insulting others. maybe that is why you you haven't found anybody yet?
Because I don't want to be called a liar since this has been very common lately. I correct the above about Thunderdome's post "and outright invitations with phrases that include the words guns and stabbing!!!" change word "stabbing" with word "blades". The meaning does not change anyway.
You are not nearly so clever as you think you are. It is quite obvious that you think you finally have a plum, which you can use to bar other people (namely Thunder, perhaps more of us) from this forum. You think that you will have won something. Perhaps you think you will get the "ownership" of this forum and the dominance that you crave (but that neither your experience nor your intellect will allow to get without threats, suggestion of "criminal offense" and the outright cohersion of our moderators.
Liberals like you seldom understand that "freedom of speech" is not the same as "freedom from speech" and the mere mention of the words "gun" and "blade" do not constitute an infraction of the law.
(If it did - you would have broken the law yourself with two of your last three posts.)
Thunder offered martin an opportunity, an invitation, that's all.
He says "Give me a normal and realistic time & date & place and prove you'll be there, invite all friends you can muster (pun intended), and meet me. "
That's an invitation. He even refers to it in his next sentence. (But then again both you and Martin have shown yourselves to be reading-comprehension-challenged so I'm not surprised you might have missed that.)
He also promises that he will bring NO WEAPONS. ("I will not bring any weapons on me,") but that he would get upset if Martin brought any (that's where his innocent mention of a "blade" is made).
Thunder merely invited Martin to participate in a fair pugilistic exercise, if Martin was so inclined. Martin was perfectly free to decline. And, if I am understanding correctly, he has.
And thank you for your concern wtrav02, about how I spend my time - but I assure you that I am capable of "multitasking" (that's a word a liberal ought to like). I can work on more than one project at a time, and happen to find myself, today, doing computer work.
But again - thank you for your concern regarding my social life. Its SO nice to know you care.
Neither I have the power nor the intention, even if I had the power, to ban anyone. It is in the hands and minds of the moderators to decide how they manage their property. I intend no dominance:) How can I convince you that neither you nor myself nor anyone else owns this porperty .. if I repeat it to you a few more times, will you get it?
Free speech does not mean threatening someone's life, this goes way too far. I was impressed by how intelligently and patiently Martin handled the situation. He neither made a fool of himself like your departed friend nor he engaged in an exchange of threats against one's life. Good for you Martin for proving a true gentleman!
jetmba, as I said before, you can insult as much as you want, no worries at my end. You're just showing how hateful you are. That's ok, you're a bad apple, so what, there are many out there.
Oh boy I have never laughed so much in my life......my sides are hurting,Martin sh*tting himself,w-transvestite02 acting all holier than thou with not a four letter word in sight and both of them getting neatly dissected by the others....................WELCOME TO THE JERRY SPRINGER FORUM!!!!!
Maybe you did not include the complete post from Thunder, but I seem to miss where someone has had their life threatened? I also must have missed the mention of the word gun. I did not see the word gun in your post above. Also if the post is accurate, who said they were going to use a blade(knife) in the committment of such an act? I do not condone physical violence against another person. With that said, Martin has antagonized many people in this forum to potentially bring this kind of result. He has intentionally baited people, harassed people in this forum. Also I am sure fiance.com has kept all the posts from Martin and others they deleted in the past to protect themselves from exposure and liability.
It's just like this thread, which was removed once because of the intentional and inflammatory nature to bait others. It did not succeed.
As you and I have had many heated discussions and disagreements, and as you said mostly political, and I have taken your insults with a grain of salt, just words in the heat of battle. I would wish you and your wife no ill harm. Actually last night, I tried to send you an email, which was returned undeliverable, complimenting you on a post you made of me and my attitude towards Larisa. Wishing you and your wife much happiness, health and success in the coming year.
I never supported Martin being banned from this forum, but some valid points have been made for his removal. He is a constant harasser, implicating everyone here that disagrees with him is a liar. He has been proven wrong in this accusation by others. He has admitted to placing another members profile on another dating website. Which was pretty derogatory, that the member was looking for women for sex only. That's pretty inflammatory. Which makes me wonder about a couple of other members profiles that were placed on gay websites and who initiated that? Made a wild accusation that I was on adultfriendfinder, but I think he has confused himself, he made that accusation against Izi. The list goes on and on.
When I first joined this forum and I don't know exactly the date, but it was close to two years ago, this was an excellent place to gather information. Yeah, we had our bumps but nothing like this. If you go back and read many posts, everyone here including yourself in the beginning gave Martin the benefit of the doubt, including the people named in this above thread. In a year he has done nothing but disrupt this forum with his wild and accusatory behaviour. Which has lead to the alienation of many people, and inflamed fights with others that were not happening before. A rational person who did not intentionally want to create division in this forum would have stopped. The word gangingup has been used many times. Intelligent people, who see things that are wrong, or perceive something is done unjustly will respond in kind. I don't think that is ganging up. Also, an intelligent person on the receiving end of that, just might reflect on why such a response was made towards them and intelligently look inward to see if they were possibly wrong. This never happened. Just constant harassment, and multiple posts of silly diatribes.
Hindsight is 20/20, though I may disagree with the removal of a person on this site, I am sure without a doubt in my mind if it was done, this forum would have never reached this point. Though sometimes things must hit the bottom before they can truly flourish again.
A criminal offense committed. I don't think so. But that is a typical response from Martin, he was always the victim here and never the perpetrator here.
Nasfan, I'm not an attorney, so I can't tell you with 100% certainty that a criminal offense was committed, however, the threats seemed real, they were clear expressions of violence, had hints about weapons to be used, etc. As you and I know, there is a fine line between trash talk and real threats. When someone says to someone "I'll beat the hell out of you, and I promise you I'll try my best so that you will live at the end of my wrath" [please don't quote the exact wording, let's focus on the meaning], then such threat should be taken seriously by the recipient.
If you go back and resurrect all the trash talk by everyone who's been around here for a while, my God! I don't think you can single out one person and point the finger and use this person as a scapegoat. I do believe in freedom of speech. The moderators so far remove posts that in their mind are offensive or upon a member's request. The moderators are not always perfect. For example, a childish post targeted at me and calling me names above has not been deleted, yet. When it comes to threats though, the least the moderators can do is to immediately ban the member who crossed the line. I am not sure what Martin intends to do, but if it were me, I would certainly look into my legal rights and try to protect myself from the person who launched these threats. How do we really know that this person is not obssesed with causing harm to Martin or others and now is even more pissed and means even more harm.
Martin has been in the eye of the hurricane from the very beginning. It has been quick target and hit, and quite frankly, I admire his determination and patience for not getting too much out of line being the recipient of shots (many of them cheap ones) constantly from every possible angle. You are a former military man, and you must know what is to be dug in a foxhole and be targeted constantly by 6-7 snipers who are shooting at you from every possible direction. QuiteCharm has had similar experience, this other guy, I can't recall his name, who proposed the snail-mail method, had the same experience, and others with a shorter history of existence in this forum.
I really don't intend to argue about these things anymore. I propose that we all make an effort to co-exist without insults. I will try my best to do my part. At the end of the day, we are all sitting on someone else's property posting and storing information onto this entity's server, and we must be careful of the potential financial damage our petty fights may be causing to this entity.
Thank you very much for the nice gesture to send me an email. I wholeheartedly reciprocate and wish that 2006 be the happiest year of your life. Good luck with your lady's visa process, which I understand, with God's will, is coming to a happy end in January or February.
ok everybody impressed his opinion on this subject. Let’s close it and really stop this circus.
Russian brides > Main Forum > The desperate 'kiddies' determined to bring this forum down in favour of their own kindergarten forum, izifaddag, nasfan6. jetmba, thunderdome .......... have succeeded