my 2 cents....
there are some basics we dont want to see or discuss.
dating and/or marriage are complicated and we want it as simple as possible.
the bottom is always money sometimes more,sometimes less.
as I live in big US city I never seen homeless guy trying to date,no,instead,they get laid.
some of us have more luck,some less,some more experience,some less,some more money,some less.
and everything counts in life.
we also have different goals.some want to be married,some get laid,some have fun.
and some of us normal and some not and its hard to see difference or define one.
and women know all of this and they are ,maybe,as bad or good as we are.
and all of this is only top of the iceberg.