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cre8ive1970

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	Send: 3/6/2006 8:48:16 AM

Be very wary of these 3 profiles: Karina *, Julia , Irina ** I sent thanks but no thanks replies to all three and recieved this message back from all three: I was glad that you’ve found me interesting. Thank you for that. But I need to tell you one sad news. We’re adult people and I hope you’ll understand me. I wanted to say that sometimes we face problems we can’t get through. Just now I’ve come across one of them. I hate saying such things but I have to. I’m very sorry for that and I do not know how to explain that but I can’t keep on writing you. It’s just… I don’t know how to say. You’re a great man and we could have a great family but this time is not ours. Now I’m not the one to suit you. Life is surprising us sometimes and its surprises are not always desirable. I’m sorry for it is not my destiny to make you happy… I wish you to find someone who deserves you more than me. I want to wish you the happiness you deserve but I can’t give it to you ‘cause you are worth of much more happiness than I can give you. Thank you for your understanding and for your appreciation of me but you can be happier with any other woman than me. I’m sorry for you’ve wasted so much time on me; I’m not really worth of that, but anyway thank you for that. I was pleased with your attention but now we have to be apart. I’m sorry and I hope you’ll find your love, just take a look around. Maybe there is a woman that loves you and you don’t realize that. So, good bye, and, please, be happy without me,

danny3777

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	Send: 3/6/2006 10:00:49 AM

cre8ive, You should be reporting these to admin@fiance.com and forwarding such emails to them. They should then remove the profiles and perhaps the agency involved thus a far more effective method to prevent spam than posting their ID's here. Martin

Nadya

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	Send: 3/6/2006 10:21:09 AM

Dear cre8ive1970, we've investigated this issue. these three ladies are real and no scam is involved. here is what happened. they all belong the the same agency. you sent polite declines to these 3 ladies. of course there was no sense to answer to your decline letters, but their agency requires all ladies to answer to all mail. so ladies had to answer. they replied to your declines with their declines. their agency has a standart decline letter template for all girls. if lady wants to send a decline letter she hits "polite decline" button and the same standart letter (above text that you posted) goes to man. you got three absolutely identical polite declines. the agency was advised not to answer letters that don't need answer as those that you sent.

cre8ive1970

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	Send: 3/7/2006 5:55:33 AM

that is a very strange 'polite reply'. i have had polite replies from other ladies who i have turned down because they do not fit my criteria and their letters read something like 'thank you for your honest answer......'

Nadya

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	Send: 3/8/2006 12:40:21 AM

they have changed polite decline template

MIKE00

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	Send: 3/8/2006 10:29:19 AM

Hello cre8ive 1970 yes you must be carefull of the scammers i was myself a victim recently.

jetmba.

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	Send: 3/9/2006 12:31:43 AM

Again though we get people crying "SCAM" to the forum for using a teplate letter! Guys! The nature of a scam is to try to extract something from you under false pretenses. These ladies were not ASKING FOR MONEY or trying to lead you on in a relationship. Hadya gives a very good explanation, but even if she hadn't, HOW IN THE WORLD DOES THIS QUALIFY AS A SCAM? Not everything that happens that SURPRISES US in our letter writing means that the lady is a SCAMMER!

danny3777

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	Send: 3/9/2006 4:39:43 AM

Agreed, In the letter Cre8ive was effectively being 'dumped', scammers do not dump peaople, well not till they've got their money anyway. A scammer may be writing to 50 men, cre8ive comes along, OK that's 51, another becomes 52 etc. They don't decline to correspond until they have your money!

jetmba.

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	Send: 3/9/2006 10:03:53 AM

Who exactly is the dumper and who is the... dumpee... (who initiated the termination of the letter writing relationship) doesn't really make a difference here. The point is these women weren't gaining ANYTHING by using this particular template (except maybe a polite and clean break) therefore - NO SCAM!

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